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Real and experienced in the Lifestyle for many years. Looking for other real and sincere people that share the same passions. Not in a hurry and prefer quality with others that savor communication as well as physical actions.

2024 has begun.Wishing everyone a wonderful year.

There is a dare activity I found someplace long ago online. It was stuff like take a picture naked in a park, or call for a pizze delivery and answer the door in only a towel and let the towel accidentally fall. Sure you get the picture. I know some on here are into humilation so here is a dare for you. Take a battery powered vibrator in a purse to a hardware type store and tell a worker there that you need batteries for something and can't figure out how to get the old batteries out so you can buy new ones.

Trying to learn to read lips. Something I have always wanted to do not something I need to do. So far I am having fun with it. If anyone has any tips to help me along with my goal let me know.

I miss my old friends. Will be nice when I can see them again. Until then hope everyone is doing well and Spring arrives soon for you.

Just checked back in here and it is like I hadn't left. Sorta like putting back on my favorite leather gloves. Hello old friends.
I needed to go to the post office and gave myself plenty of time so I would not have to race there. I had something that had to be post marked that day. I decided to take my little dog and my mother's little dog for a ride in my truck. The truck was in the garage and not running. I picked my little dog up and put him in the truck and reached back for the other dog but she was standing in the driveway. so not wanting my dog to jump out of the truck and hurt himself I shut the door and walked over and picked up the other dog. Got back to the truck and my dog had stepped on the door lock button and locked the doors. Oh no the only set of keys was inside the truck. Luckily I had not shut the driver door all the way and got a coat hanger and was after many attempts able to finally touch the door lock button but I could not push it hard enough to unlock the doors, dang it! I talked to my dog and asked him to please unlock the door, but no luck he just looked at me and wondered why I wasn't in the truck. Well I kept asking him to please open the door and then he stepped on the button and the door unlocked. I grabbed the handle and pulled the door open. I scooped up the keys and put them in my pocket, then shut the door and picked up the other dog. We all got in the truck and made it to post office with only minutes to spare. I like to think my dog did as I asked but doubt he would be able to do it again if I asked him, so was most likely just a stroke of luck. Either way I need to get another set of keys for my truck so it doesn't happen again and was very lucky my truck was not parked outside in the hot sun.
I have moved from the cities to rural WI. Finally retired and can have more time to do the fun things in life. Hello WI :-)
Looked at the stars tonight. They are so pretty. Put on my headphones and listened to John Lennon.
My neighbor has been moved into assisted living. She is 86 and was doing well until recently then her health just took a bad turn. It is sad and I will miss talking to her she always had something interesting to say. One day she was there getting her mail and the next week I get home from being on the road and another neighbor tells me the news. Makes all the things I am dealing with seem so trivial.
The cold has been brutal but one person I know said the heck with and hitched up her camper and headed to sunny Florida for the Winter. I have managed to get a few work gigs out of state as well but still got to enjoy my share of the bitter cold. I was able to take a cave tour this Fall and that was fun. Was just looking at some mine tours in Michigan and maybe this Summer I will cross that off my bucket list. Always looking for new and exciting things to add to the list as well. To my friends may 2017 be good to all of us.
It is the time of year to get out and enjoy the last of the warm weather. Really enjoy the changing seasons. This will be the first year I don't have an active sub or slave in my life in many years. It feels very strange to me.
Friday night yeah. My big plans are to just stay inside and read a book I just picked up at Half Price Books. Not sure what fun I will find to do the rest of the weekend, but have a few nice options. To those that I know are having a good weekend make it a great weekend.
in Old Town, Alexandria VA. King Street walking the brick sidewalks to the Potomac River. Sat and watched the boats on the river tonight. Weather was ideal for being outside. Riding the Metro to DC. Of all the places I go for work I have to say that DC really is one of my favorite cities and so many friendly people.
Wondering if a profile picture I see on here and then see on other sites like xhamster, which one had it first. Either way is it real or not. If not a real profile on here why the effort to be fake when it is easier to be real. I am real and I know some others on here that are real as well. To the real people I wish you a wonderful weekend.
A friend complained to me that she has gotten fat. I said it really doesn't matter you are still you. She was afraid I wouldn't want to hang out with her. I was blown away that she felt like that. I really don't want to hang out with her though because she smokes. So she is determined to lose weight but I just wish she would not smoke.
At a gas station today and car pulls up at the other side of the pump I was using. The driver gets out and goes inside and the passenger lights up a smoke. Windows down and little kids in the car. I yelled at her to put out the cigarette it says no smoking. The answer back was telling me off and to mind my own business.
Talked to a friend today that I work with but haven't seen in a year. He has decided to become a woman. Ok not going to judge that, but should I at least tell him he is going to be one ugly woman?
Still in Texas and it just keeps raining, but at least it is not a cold rain. Feel sorry for all the people be impacted by the flooding by Houston.
Next week in Plano Texas. Hello Plano. I have been there many times and each time was fun. Hoping for another fun trip. People I am working with are laid back and easy to work with so that part is all good. Almost like a vacation except for the work stuff.
Work had me off the road for a bit and I was really liking it, but just got assigned a new project and will be spending time in DC. More riding the Metro.
It is that time of year when riders can finally get their bikes out, both pedal and motorcycle. Please keep an eye out for us if you are driving, we are easy to see. We are the ones with the big smile on our faces. :-)
I had dinner with an old friend I hadn't seen in years. Meet at one of my favorite places, a book store. I did not even recognize her it had been so long. It was still good to see her. Funny how time quickly passes, and old friends slip into being pleasant memories.
For those into the 50's the MN History Museum has a display called Suburbia that you might enjoy.
What are the odds that I have two friends that don't know each other and both of them decided to take a vacation and go to Costa Rica. I hope they both have a great time. Made me start thinking maybe I should go someplace nice for at least a weekend. Still haven't taken a train trip. Riding the Metro in DC for the last nine months doesn't count as a train trip, although it has had some interesting sights. Thinking maybe go to Boston from DC and ride the train.
Plan to sail my boat around the Apostle Islands this Summer. Practicing my knot typing skills now while it is still cold outside. Can hardly wait for Summer and all the fun. To my one friend that went to Florida this year - keep having fun.
Washington DC. Have had a chance to visit many museums and seen many sites. Metro makes it so easy to get around.
It has been a very long time since my last journal entry. Hoping all my friends in the Eastern US are save and warm and not stranded by the big snows.

I feel very fortunate to be in WI this week and wish it would have snowed here to go with the recent cold temps.

To my one friend that follows my posts - Enjoy your Florida trip, we are all wishing it is a great adventure.
Dallas and it is raining. This I am taking as a sign of Spring. Let it rain. Saying hello to all my Texas friends. It feels good to be back.
NYC for the week. Always a fun city full of interesting sights and sounds.
Another week in yet another DC suburb and yet another hotel. The traveling for work is really getting old. Starting to seriously question why I am still doing it. I could be home tonight and have some slave kneeling before me massaging my feet.
Brrr. Staying inside and doing something warm.
I hurt my hand last night. Next time I will use a paddle.
Working this week in Springfield MA. Anything fun to do in this city let me know.
I wonder if others could read my mind would they come closer or run from me?

Best wishes for peace and happiness to you.

Too cold, way to cold already. I did remember how to drive on snow and ice and hope everyone else does as well.

Just got called and told my job assignment has been eliminated. The joy of the season just keeps getting better. I am going to sleep in tomorrow.

So much for a warm and happy Holiday. My Aunt died Wednesday night Wake up call Thursday morning let me know. Dang it. She will be missed, and I really do hope she is in a better place.

The Holiday Season is supposed to be a time of joy and happiness. I am trying to make mine that way and hope everyone else is as well.

A friend of mind just lost her place to live. She has struggled due to some medical bills. She wants to move into my place, just until she can get back on her feet. I am not thrilled with the idea. She is not in the lifestyle, we are only friends. Yet the thought of her living under a bridge makes me sad.

Bought a motorcycle. Looking forward to riding when it cools off a little.

Made a movie with a lover last night. Think it needs a few things, Dialog, plot, stunt doubles. It was fun though!

A lovely morning in Wisconsin. I got up early and took the dog outside. The dog was taking her time to get her morning routine finished and I had to take a piss. I stepped around the side of the house and started to water the flowers. The flowers were full of bumble bees. If I turned slightly to my left I could give a bee a surprise shower. I thought about it, then decided it might not be best to start the day getting stung by a bumble bee.

Lies, Lies, Lies. My job is sending me to Dallas for a week. Looking on this site for someone to bend over and use a paddle on while I am there. Has to be at least one person in all the DFW area that needs a good spanking. Going to view profiles now.

Started a new job assignment. Off the road until the end of the year. I am very happy. Maybe now I will get a chance to catch up with old friends.

I got an email from a person I had not talked to in over five years. All it really said was give them a call so I called. Started out with the usual how are you and then they got to the real reason they contacted me. Do you still have your truck? Quick look at the calendar confirmed it was the last weekend before the first of a new month. You guessed it. Moving to a new place and needed help. Asked if they had heard about Uhaul or Ryder. Here is his response. Those cost money!

I know the saying goes don't take it out on the messenger, but I really wish I could. So sick and tired of Winter. I want Spring now. Going back to bed and hibernate some more. Someone let me know when I can peek out and see sunshine and no more snow.

 

Had to share this one. Went to Taco Bell for a fast lunch today. A woman and her daughter were in front of me in the line. The fifty some year old man taking the orders said to the Mother that he hadn't seen anyone write on the inside of their ear since he was in college. She said it was a tattoo and she got it twenty years ago when she was thirty.

 

My first thoughts:

 

1.) The man at the counter went to college and he is working at the counter of a Taco Bell?

 

2.) I never heard about people writing in their ears with magic marker when I was in college. Did I miss something?

 

 

I need someone to do my Spring cleaning. Inside of the house will be mid April. Outside by mid May. Talking real work, done to my satisfaction. Payment to be discussed.

Three fun filled weeks working in East Rutherford NJ on my schedule for March. Is there anything fun to do? Last time there I went to Times Square in NY, and took a drive in NJ just to see where I ended up and what was there when I got there. I found an interesting grocery store in Teaneck NJ, and a Dairy Queen ( forget the town ). Told my GPS to take me back to the hotel and I was only about 13 miles away.

Will be working in Phx, AZ next week. Yeah I get to watch the Superbowl from another hotel room by myself.

Made it over the fiscal cliff. I did not have the cushion of a raise that some members of the Gov't were handed by executive order prior ot the fiscal cliff deadline. Don't do your work, get a raise. Wonder if that will work for me in the real world?

Well the first day of a brand new world sure is starting out cold.

All the Holiday pressure just evaporated today. A friend told me the world is scheduled to end tomorrow. Think I will take half a day off today.

One conference call today and then the rest of the day off. It has been so long since I had a day off I don't know what I want to do first. To bad all my friends are working.

The hotel I am in this week has two lamps by the bed. One on the left by the phone and the electrical outlet and the window. The other lamp is on the side with the narrow walk space between the bed and the wall I find out the lamp on the phone side did not work. I mentioned it to the cleaning lady when I was heading out the first morning. She said thanks and she would have someone take care of it.

 

I got back to the room that night and checked the light that hadn't worked. Yes there was now a working lamp. Nice. So later I got ready to get in the bed and turned on the lamp by the phone and electrical outlet so I could see to plug my phone charger in. You guessed it. The lamp that was working now doesn't, and the one that didn't know does. I started laughing. I wonder if they moved the bulb from one lamp to the other one, or did they move the lamps?

 

Next week I will be in Atlanta GA. I have been checking out profiles from that area, so if you see I looked, and you are real, then say hello. :)

This week my work has taken me to a strange place that I can only describe as 1965 with old hippies, and 2012 meth freaks all going in circles. I walked from the customer site today and went to a fast food place. The place was filled with the strangest mixture of characters. There was a woman in her 70's dressed like something out of an old movie with a purple velvet suit and pearls with bright red slippers. Her makeup looked like it was done with a crayon. Very strange. The group of three at the table next to me had all dyed their hair. One was green, one pink, and one purple. I was starting to think it was show off your love of the color purple day.

 

Went back to the customer site and told the guys they have an interesting mixture of people in their city. They knew exactly where I had been. The fast food place is next to a halfway house and a building for assisted living mentally challenged people.

 

 

Went to the grocery store yesterday and witnessed a couple having a fight over which frozen pizza to buy. Two little kids standing there with them too. He was saying he didn't like that kind, and she was saying but it is the best value. They were doing this at the self checkout register and of course I was the next in line waiting for an open register.

The hotel I am staying in for work has a TV built into the wall above the bath tub. I soaked in the tub after a long day of work, and watched a show on sharks.

Had a nice vacation. Camped in my tent for a week, and it was great. Tonight I will be sleeping in my bed. Tomorrow I get to rest before going back to work on Monday. If it is not too hot I might ride my bicycle to work.

Working on my sailboat and with a little luck will be out sailing it this weekend. Only have a few little things to do on it, but those little things always seem to take hours to get done.

Went skinny dipping this evening. What an excellent way to cool off.

Flying to a worksite over the weekend and had the isle seat with other passengers in the middle and window seat. Flight attendant leans over me to hand the person in the window seat a drink and with her free hand holds the front of her blouse shut. Then she smiled at me and walked back to the front of the cabin. Funny thing is most the time I admit I would have been trying to sneak a peek down her blouse, but this time all I was doing was hoping she didn't spill the drink on me.

Is there balance in  the universe? A friend called me tonight and gave me a long winded theory on the subject. It was obvious she had spent far more time thinking about this than I had. I muttered a few comments when needed, but hard to be very objective when I am sitting alone in a hotel. Now that I think about it maybe she is right and the irony is we balanced out since she cared and I didn't.

Spending another night in hotel alone for work. Place is not bad, but the room next to mine has some old guy not wearing his hearing aid and talking on the phone. Oh well the joys of traveling.

Had to share this one. I was in the Atlanta airport and while waiting for my flight I was watching the airport TV. They announced plans for private rooms in the airport, with a bed, and totally private. Rental is by the hour.

Guess I should be careful what I wish for sometimes. Work has me in a place with palm trees and sunshine. It all looks so strange driving to my hotel at night and looking at Christmas lights and other decorations without the snow and cold. I even saw a Salvation Army bell ringer with a Santa had and short pants today. Yes I did put some money in and said Merry Christmas.

The snow looked so nice this morning until I had to go outside in it. Sure I will be seeing more snow and have a white Christmas. Think I might be more fun to have a palm tree and white sandy beach Christmas instead.

Don't you just hate it when a song gets stuck in your head and not because it is a song you really want to hear all day long? Shouldn't have listened but I did and now it is too late :)

Planning a cookout for next weekend. It is going to be so nice. Love Summer.

The 4th was fun. Stayed out until the early morning hours and saw some really great fireworks.

The 4th is almost here. One of my friends called and said she didn't have anything to do for the 4th. All her friends are going out of town. She had no plans and nothing to do. I told her I could come over and paint her red, white, and blue. She laughed and said that might be fun. This might be an interesting 4th :)

Looked at the Nook reader and can't decide if I want that or a Kindle. I still like regular books and magazines. I am taking forever to finish the paper version of "The Choice" wonder if I would read more with an electronic version or less.

Was having a conversation with a friend of mine and she was complaining about not being able to find Mr. Right. I was surprised she decided to confide in me and somewhat flattered she felt comfortable enough to call me. Can't say I had any great advice and she hasn't called me again. Maybe Mr. Right found her.

Took my puppy sledding. It was his first time. The sled was plastic and said torpedo on it so I assured him with a name like that we would be safe. Well it was not exactly like a Calvin and Hobbes comic where they go blasting down the hill and crash into a tree. We missed the tree and crashed into the snowbank. My puppy thought it was fun so we raced up the hill and did it again.

Trying to decide on Plain or Peanut M&M's.

It took me ages to finally get to see a friend of mine. It was really good to catch up with her. Her and I and everyone else I know is ready for this Winter to finally relax and let Spring begin. To all my friends in warmer climates, get out and enjoy it for me until I can do the same.

Valentines Day - Show your love by giving something red. I like this Holiday.

Just ran across a different film: A Lonely Cow Weeps At Dawn.

Looking forward to a movie night.

 

Noticed this while driving over the weekend and just it made me wonder. A cemetery at night and most of the headstones had solar lights by them. Two thoughts: 1 - Those resting there are afraid of the dark. 2 - Makes it easier for those that want to pay their respects in the middle of the night.
Work travel can be interesting at times. I have to make a trip from Minneapolis to Appleton WI. How I get there is up to me. I can take the Amtrak ( never tried that ), rent a car, or fly and rent a car.

Fly and spend the night in Milwaukee, or Greenbay could be fun, but travel like that all the time.

Driving, would rent a car so not using mine. That option I can make my own schedule and stop where I want to.

At this point I am thinking I want to try taking a train for the adventure and something new.

Anyone taken the train before?


Went for a walk last night around Lake Como .  Got back to my car when the rain just poured down. It was fun seeing all those drenched people scrambling for their cars. Of course next time I will probably be one of those drenched people.
Just had a business meeting that was by the Capital. Did not know there was a statue of Charles Lindberg across the street from the MN Department of Transportation. I thought it was a nice surprise with a bench to sit on in the shade and write up my meeting notes. What a great MN day. Yeah Summer.
My new neighbors invited me to a bonfire party they are having tonight. They seem like a nice couple to hang out with. Should be a fun Summer night.
Where is George Dollar: I got another of these today. I always save them and try to spend them someplace interesting. Anbody with good ideas let me know, and I know you can't get much for a dollar.
The 4th was excellent and I was able to spend it with friends and family.

Going out boating with a couple of friends tonight. It is going to be a nice evening to get out and enjoy Summer.

My neighbor is mowing her yard, maybe she will mow mine while I am out having fun. She should just come along and go boating.

I had planned to go to the circus last week. I was going to steal a circus dog and make a run for the border. Decided not to do it at the last minute. Figured if I got caught I would be the lead story on the stupid news, and of course the dog would talk, making me look like a clown.

Slipped on the ice while shoveling snow. Seems I do that about once a year. Didn't get hurt, but my neighbor happened to see me fall. She got a big laugh out of it. She said the look on my face was comical. Glad she didn't have a video camera. Hate to think that would have been my fifteen minutes of fame.

Turned another year older.
Reflecting back on the previous year is bring me more smiles than frowns.
Those that know me, thanks for a great year.
2010: A new year with new adventures for everyone. I didn't make any new years resolutions this time. Started to do it but the list got way too long, so I just went to bed, and when I got up in the morning the list was all gone.
Halloween weather in MN can be so fickle. Kids trick or treating in snowmobile suits just does not seem right. Crossing my fingers for nice weather for all the kids this year, even for the ones that smash my neighbors pumpkins :)
Going to the MN state fair tonight. No real plans just walk around and have fun with some friends. The weather is perfect.
Looking at profiles and it is amazing to me that Ghana has so many slaves on this site.
Friend called me yesterday and said to come over after work. Plan was to grill and enjoy the nicer weather we have been waiting for so long. His girlfriend had to play match maker and invited a friend of hers. Surprise to me, and to her friend. Wow. No it was not a match, not even close. It just made the whole evening uncomfortable. Why do people think if you are single they need to set you up?
I went to a used bookstore today after work. Someone had told me about a sailing book they had seen there, but it was gone. On the way back out of the store I saw a dvd sale rack. I browsed the rack and found, "The Sadist", 1963 with Arch Hall Jr.

How could I resist that, and for only one dollar.

Would have been nice to find the sailing book also.

I just learned what this saying means.
It is a one dog night, or a two dog night.

I found it in a book by Mildred Armstrong Kalish, " Hard Times and High Spirits on an Iowa Farm During the Great Depression"

I asked a few people if they knew what it meant and they did. Guess it is a midwest expression. They things I learn.

Tonight is going to be a two dog night.

I look through the profiles on here. Hoping to find that perfect slave. One thing I keep seeing that makes me laugh are the profiles that appear and then a few days latter state no longer looking, they have been collared. Wow. The last slave I trained and collared, earned my collar, and it took over a year. Wonder if there are others here that feel the same about this, or is it just me? 
Some days you win and some days you just can't get anything going your way. Think I am just going to have some ice cream and start again tomorrow.
2009. It is going to be a good year. I have made my New Years resolutions. I am going to read more books. Watch less TV. Play my guitar more.

If you have read a good book and want to suggest I add it to my reading list, then please let me know.



Moving slowly. Slipped on the ice. Don't think my arm  or ribs are broken, but they are very sore. Heating pad has become my new best friend.

I do not know how others seem to do it, but my days never have enough hours in them to do all the things I would like to do.

I did win the lottery, only a few dollars, but still it was a win. Maybe that is the start of a trend and more is going to come my way.


Thank you time change, fall back and drive home in the dark. Spied a new paddle the other day. Going to buy it this weekend. It is cold outside, but somone I know will be having an isolated hot spot later this week.
Fall is in the air, and that means more time inside. Seems the more time I spend inside the more sadistic my thoughts grow.

I have been training a slave, and have a  session coming up with her that she is sure to remember for many years. I call it ringing the Halloween bells.

A tip of the hat to all that make me laugh on this site and know why. Thank you. To those on this site that make me laugh and have no idea why, thank you even more.
Hurry up the real Spring. Tired of the snow.

Was looking at some new whips, and found a really nice one. Made out of kangaroo. Looks very well made. Might have to buy it.

Have been having some fun, but mostly working. Did managed to get together with an old friend I had not seen in ages. Nice to see old friends again.


I have a female slave that I have been training. If you are interested in using her for your pleasure then contact me. Please be local to MN, DDF, and sane.

Talking with a good friend this morning, about a male slave she is in the process of starting to train.

We discussed and shared notes on first meetings and first sessions. Told her a technique I like to use, it hurts and it tests a slaves desires to please.

My friend gave me the nicest compliment. She said I am sadistic, and wonderful. What a good start to the day.


New Year is here. I have been making it a point to spend time with old friends. Went to ones birthday party. Her friends laughed about birthday spankings. Made us both smile. If only they could read minds. The New Year is going well, and hope it is for you as well.


Getting tired of the cold and snow already. I must be getting older, or wiser maybe. Used to like playing in the snow, now it just annoys me that my truck gets dirty.

Don't know where the time goes. Meet with a Domme friend the other night and she reminded me it had been months since she and I had used a slave together. Brought back a few memories. Maybe it is time we made a couple more memories. Interested in serving a couple let me know. She is also cruel and demanding.