ItsAllAboutUMaam

I'm a young, fit 57 with brown hair and blue eyes. I'm educated, and a former exec that took early retirement. My vanilla interests are varied but do enjoy fine dining, music, the outdoors, the beach and the usual.
Altough most would assume I'm dominant. which I have always been in my business life, and very masculine and strong, I've known for many years that I'm submissive in my personal relationships with women.
I'm quite comfortable with that realization and truly wish to enter into a LTR with D/s as it's core.
I derive pleasure from pleasing and enjoy pampering and pleasing a Lady I respect.It's simply an integral part of my nature and character.
Scenes and sessions are fine but my desire is to focus on one Lady of quality and dedicate myself to her. I certainly am willing and capable of traveling to explore a potential relationship. However I do not appreciate nor am I suseptable to the enticements of the con-artists out there portraying themselves as Dommes for financial gain. I am quite generous but not stupid.
My R/t experience was in long term service to one Lady. I have been trained in the proper protocols and respectful expressions required in a D/s relationship. I long for the glance or simple gesture that summons me or commands me without vocalization even in a social or public forum: The retrieving of M'Lady's napkin dropped to the floor at a restaurant and the brushing of her foot with my lips as I do so. Communication and submission un-noticed by the casual observer but the core of total devotion. I acknowledge that responding to M'Lady's needs without being instructed to do so takes time. Time to learn the needs. desires. interests of that special person. But it certainly is achievable and a fulfilling accomplishment from my perspective.
If it is important, I am considered attractive by most people. I have little difficulty in dating but find it a bit deceptive since I'm fully aware that little can come of such relationships without a D/s involement.
I recognize that compatibilty and common interests in the so-called "vanilla" world is essential to any long term relationship. That obviously makes my search so much more difficult.
Giving up is not an option ....I know she's out there .