inwardbound

Like so many others who are involved in this lifestyle, my journey has been one of self-discovery. I’ve been involved with this lifestyle (off & on) for the past 5-6 years. I consider myself a switch because I believe none of us are 100% one way or another. There are times in the day to day rat race of life I need to tap into parts of my dominant personally. However when it comes to kink I prefer the role of submissive, my last relationship was the only exception….

She was new to kink, but eager to explore. Because of her lack of experience I found myself in the role of “top”. This experience gave me a greater appreciation & understanding of what a dominant goes through when preparing a scene. I think back to some in the past who have topped me & it makes me even more thankful for their commitment & preparation. Unfortunately due to circumstances outside both of our control, we were forced to part ways. Even though I’m saddened by this turn of events I’m comforted in knowing she did leave me with 1 bit of clarity… I will NEVER be in a relationship with a 100% vanilla girl again! I’ve tried in the past & there was always something missing. I’ve seen the light & I can’t go back! :)

That leads me to my present situation & what seek…. Above all else, someone who’s kinky!! :) I do prefer the role of bottom/submissive/slave so I do have a preference towards dominant women or at least someone who’s a switch. I also understand every situation is little different, so I’m open, flexible & understand all relationships are guaranteed to change & evolve over time. One positive quality about me is that I can easily roll with the changes! All that said, I would like to find a someone who’s open to the possibility of a long term situation evolving.

The following are some qualities about me I feel I can bring into a new relationship:

• I’m most definitely a glass half full kind of guy. I believe by putting positive energy into the world you can affect the energy of others in a positive way, thus making the world a better place… besides life it so short to be sad & negative all the time! :)


• I have a great sense of humor. This goes along with being positive. Sometimes when you’re feeling stressed, it’s best to take a step back find something funny about the situation. Sometimes I feel like we take ourselves too seriously. Laughter can help just about any situation!


• When I commit to something, I commit completely & don’t look back. At times it may take a little time for me to make a decision, but after that decision is made I will follow through with all my heart.


• I have undying loyalty for those who are close to me.


• I feel that the man’s role in a relationship is to please his significant other. To be honest this took me many years to figure out, but with my last relationship the light bulb finally came one! This doesn’t mean I believe men should be a doormat or be taken advantage of. I believe there should always be a give & take and hopefully compromise… however the man should strive to please. This could mean many things, like listening to a story she’s telling, holding her hand, allowing her to vent after a bad day, supporting her dreams like there your own…. I’ve learned that it’s really the little things that can make all the difference!

• Theatre: I’m an actor


• Music: I sing & play guitar


• Sports: I love football & hockey


• Darts: I shoot in a steel tip league


• Reading: I don’t do this as often as I would like but love to spend an hour or 2 with a good book when I can find the time!