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Protips...
If you plan on messaging me, SAY SOMETHING SUBSTANTIAL. Just a few lines will do. Here are some ideas:
- What did you like about my profile?
- What interested you enough to send me a message?
- Do we share similar interests?
- Did you just like my legs? (That's OK -- I don't get objectified nearly enough.)
Messages that will be ignored:
- Those who only say "Hi there" or something similar.
- Messages using textspeak instead of proper English.
- Wall-O-Text (use paragraphs, please).
Why will I ignore those messages? Because I list INTELLIGENCE as a KINK. If you can't communicate properly, I will want to do awful things to you that you won't enjoy. And if I'm not your Mistress, don't call me "Mistress". (Hint: I'm no one's Mistress!)
Quote...
To be a woman is a great adventure;
To drive men mad is a heroic thing.
– B. Pasternak
About me...
I'm a lifelong New Yorker. I have lived in three different and distinct regions of the state: Mid-Hudson, Long Island, and now Central New York.
I'm single and have no kids (and honestly don't really want my own, but don't mind if my partner has kids).
Physically, I'm a large woman. I've lost a lot of weight in the past year, and will continue to do so, but I'll never be petite.
What I can offer...
I'm a pretty dominant switch who is honest, intelligent, sarcastic, and loyal. I don't do drama; I am extremely even-keeled. I give and expect respect and trust in all of my relationships, even friendships.
I like to tease and talk. I am very verbal. I have a large vocabulary and I'm not afraid to use it.
Fair warning: Although I have an excellent sense of humor, and a soft heart, I can also be a sarcastic bitch. I blame being a lifelong New Yorker and a pretty dominant switch. :D
What I'm looking for...
I'm looking for a long term relationship. For that LTR, I'm looking for (ideally) a monogamous switch who is not a doormat, but who will appreciate a dedicated partner. He must be intelligent with a good sense of humor.
I might be willing to consider the right submissive man who would be willing and able to show his knuckle-dragging he-man side from time to time... to please me. wink
Random observations about me...
- I believe that learning is a lifelong pursuit that is never complete, and although I've done my share of degree-seeking, I recognize that not all education happens in a classroom.
- Intelligence is SEXY.
- I am very kind and soft-hearted, but at the same time, I am very sarcastic. Sarcasm is a dominant gene in my family. LOL
- I am sometimes blunt, but rarely mean to be bitchy. (Really!)
- I'm tall, and I love being tall.
- I adore Harry Potter -- all seven books and all eight movies. Unabashedly.
- Harry Potter BDSM fan fiction is what started me on my BDSM quest.
- I don't suffer fools, nor do I tolerate the willfully ignorant. I am, however, VERY happy to share whatever knowledge I have with anyone who wants to learn from me.
- Good grammar and spelling are incredible turn-ons.
- I'm a rabid anti-smoker. Both my parents had lung cancer, and only one survived.
- I'm not opposed to alcohol; I'm just not much of a drinker.
- I speak Spanish moderately well, I'm pretty good with American Sign Language for a casual learner; I can fudge my way with French, and I took one year of college-level Russian for fun. I speak fluent Pig Latin.
- Dirty talk is totally sexy - especially when it's out of the blue and in the most random of places.
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