Ignixia

Survey for Submissive Males - http://kwiksurveys.com/s.asp?sid=d9n8dnin68vlmfw337412

Doing a bit of extra research for one of my classes coming up. If you are a male that identifies as a bottom, switch, submissive, or slave, please fill out my survey.

It is anonymous and just asks some basic questions about your interests in BDSM and a couple demographic questions. If you have filled it out, or aren't a male fitting the above criteria, please forward it along to any who males who do!

For the purpose of this survey, anyone who identifies as male (even if only part time) may answer the questions. Please remember that these questions are geared towards activities that you bottom to or submit for only.

I'm tired of getting emails asking about things that are clearly on my profile as "don't bother asking" types of things.  If you can't read through a profile enough to at least read what someone isn't into, then what hope is there for you to find someone actually good for you?  Send me an email about stuff I don't like and I won't bother reading it, it is going straight to the trash.  Kthnxbai.

To all of those "true submissives" and "true slaves" that want nothing more than to be with me:

Please research what you're asking for before you go around and claim that you want to belong to someone. If you've never met someone, would you ask them to marry you?  That's what getting collared into a D/s (Dominant/submissive or Master/slave) relationship with someone is equivalent to, marriage.

For all you know I could be some crazed psycho that traps young people in my basement for limb dismemberment and who knows what other torture before I send their bodies through a meat grinder. Get to know someone BEFORE you declare your undying devotion to their online profile.

The appeal of having a submissive or slave isn't the fact that it is some random person that claims they'll do whatever I tell them.  The appeal is the bond that grows from being around each other, learning their mannerisms, and doing what each of you need or want to be happier in life.  To get to a point where you can play without safewords because there is enough knowledge there to know exactly what the bottom can take, even if the limits are pushed, and enough trust to know that in the end no harm will come to them.

This lifestyle isn't just about your cock, ass, cunt, or whatever other orifice you want used for sexual pleasure. If all you want is kinky sex, keep watching your porn and visit a swingers club, because you're not getting it from me.

Alright guys, I get it. You're all excited that you've found an online place that you can explore your sexual fantasy of being someone's slave. You've read "50 Shades of Grey" and you just KNOW that you're a true slave not worthy of anyone's time or effort but you'll make it oh so worth it by masturbating for whomever tells you to.

Here's a reality check.  People that actually live this lifestyle don't care about how many cocks you'll stick into your mouth/ass/available orifice to try to prove how worthless you are.  The more you run around mass-sending messages about how you'll relocate for someone, the more you show how you are NOT ready for this lifestyle.

No one wants someone who has no worth. Degradation play is one thing, though not something I care for, but if you don't hold any value to begin with, then why should I waste my time to talk to you, much less let you live with me?  You can enjoy and receive pain without being a "bad boy" (aka an asshole) and needing to be punished, punishment isn't how you get what you want, being good is.

Basically, take some pride in yourself and learn what it means to actually be a part of this lifestyle or don't be surprised when the people you interact with don't take you seriously.

(A good book to start out with is "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns")