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| Happy loving healing Yang (Dominant straight Male) owns a permanent, loving and encouraging submissive/switch yin (female) named laura (aka hoping76). We want to develop to her, and my, full potential. I also know that we often find what we need by not looking for it. Yang and yin form one as they maintain separate and mutually balancing identities. We are here for friends only. I am interested in meeting people who would like to become more involved in the BDSM community. We run monthly munches in Nashua, NH (Nashua Area Consensual Kink, on the first Saturday and second Wednesday of each month) and Londonderry, NH (D/s-New Hampshire, on the second Saturday) which are great ways to meet other people interested in BDSM and related fetishes. Contact me for more information. Hope you can join us soon! I practice different healing traditions including an 800 year old traditional Chinese energy method, Qi Gong and received intensive training in China and the US from a Grandmaster and Lineage Holder. I have been in the D/s life for years and am experienced and a community leader. I also love to chat with those who have interests in the life in general, have specific or theoretical questions, or seek mentoring. I am both literate and educated, but not usually a snob. Most of all I enjoy life, even in vanilla activities and always look for humor in a situation. Well, I really don't appreciate it if a sub laughs during a flogging, but.... My lady and I are interested in developing our ltr to it's fullest potential. No Dom in his right mind would demand, or have the right to, immediate obedience. The Dom must earn the trust of the sub if that trust is to be freely given. It cannot be taken or it is of superficial value. By that I mean the same thing about the responses you likely get from other 'members' who first want to talk about their members. There are far too many jackasses pretending to lead a herd. They demand that every mare they see falls in line with their commands. They are not leaders and they can ultimately produce nothing but Mules. Mules have their place, but I am not a part of that place. Stallions and mares were meant to run with the wind. Of course, when being ridden, they may have bits in their mouth and a crop may need to be laid on, but care must be taken to produce the result the rider intended. Ridden or roaming free, a mare cannot be overly controlled. She must be sufficiently controlled when under saddle to understand and obey the rider's intention and when approaching a jump or other obstacle, if the mare objects, the crop usually needs to be prudently shown or applied to spur her on for the desired task. The rider must never ask the mount to attempt anything he knows the mare cannot accomplish and risk injuring her, but he can train her to increase her abilities to reach new goals. Likewise when the mare is roaming free in the corral or meadow, she must freely come to her rider and care giver with affection and anticipation in her eyes and body language. She allows herself to be bridled and led to her stall and fed and washed, or saddled and mounted. She never knows just which. |
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Well Daoism teaches us that when we seek we do not find and when we do not look for the way we find ourselves on it. I and my lady have begun to travel that way with a certain serenity and harmony and inner peace that we both enjoy. |
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