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About idside
I'm new to all of this. I'm wanting to explore my desires and my psyche with a like-minded woman. I don't know whether it's dominance or submission I want, but I feel as though I'm naturally inclined towards submission. That does NOT mean that I don't have a dominant inside of me though. Experience is the greatest teacher, and I think it will introduce me to both in time.
Please note: I don't do cyber sex. I am not interested in cam sessions. I will not give you money or buy you gifts for sexual favours - I am not a cash machine and my time and interaction is worth more than that - ideally yours is too. I don't mind chatting online to the right people, but I'm ultimately interested in face-to-face experiences. |
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I view sex as something intrinsically linked to the mind and the body. It is both intensely physical and intensely emotional and psychological. It grounds the romantic vistas of the imagination into something raw and undeniably physiological. It bridges a gap between worlds - both in terms of person to person and "spirit" to body. It is an ineffable expression and simultaneous creation of some core within us.
To explore alternative sexual practises or to indulge either dominant or submissive tendencies, therefore, is to allow yourself to explore aspects of yourself that you can otherwise never experience. It seems to me that this is pure self-exploration. That's what the kinds of activities on this site keep in my mind. That's why I'm here. Or at least that's what brought me here. My reasons for staying might end up being quite different; it all depends on who I meet.
So anyway, these are just some topical thoughts I thought I'd write down and get out there. There might be more to come, there might not. |
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