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Female Submissive, 29
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Male Submissive, 59
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Male Dominant, 19, Dayton, Nevada
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About IAMSARA
6/13 While I do feel it is the polite thing to return a response to an email, and I do respond to most emails, if there is nothing in your profile or your email is rude it won't happen..
4/13 You like to give pain. Your knowledgeable and you get off on seeing how far you can level someone....how far you can push them.......how much you can push them to take? You now how to swing a flogger. Your looking for a friend who you can just beat every now and then? Send me a message. I need a good beating and its so very very hard to find someone who knows how to use the toys and gets off not just on giving pain but on doing it in a way that the person.....that I....... go higher....
A good beating is so vary grounding....
3/13
A closed player = (Sara's definition) a player whose only requirements are that the fetish lists seem to be the same. A player with no intention of getting to know each other or become a friend. A player whose only topic of conversation will be about play.
If you see yourself as a "closed player, stop now. I am not interested.
5/12 Just a short update.
I am switch.
While I am still submissive, that part doesn't come out often. Finding the one who has the strength and is a dominant by nature is hard to find. Finding the right fit is hard to do.
I have also been playing on top for a while now....and I love it. While I do not call myself a "mistress" others have called me that. I do not call myself that because I have been fortunate to meet several very fantastic Dommes who don't claim the title but are the title. Calling myself a mistress right now would be same as all those 23 year old masters.... Yeah...right... what ever....
I won't play if I don't like you. We must have a friendship. I have a very low tolerance for liars and storytellers. Lies and BS will not make you more desirable....it will make you a non issue quick. Please be honest.
I would say I am a sensual top, and I seem to prefer men who are bisexual.
More??? Just ask.
Sara
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2/12 Courtesy is important to me. If you do not read anything please read this. I receive messages and to be honest, the following two statements apply to most of the messages I receive. And these two statements aren't going to change.
I will say hello to you but if you do not live close enough to me that we will see each other, there will be nothing else. Internet is a fine way to meet people....but even for friendship only....you have got to get to know the real person. And that can only be done IN PERSON.
2nd Statement. I do not judge those looking who are married. While I can honestly say I have never played while married, I fully accept your option and right to play the way you want to. But I am not interested in forming anymore friendships with married men. For me a friendship requires connection and conversation and time together to talk. I am not interested in a play partner only type of situation. The demands I have for a relationship, even if it is just a friendship, a married man can not meet.
I do try to respond politely to all emails, but that may be all you will hear from me if either of the above statements apply. Thank you....
2/12 While its nice to know we may share many sexual interest, fantasy and bucket list items..... Matching on all this is really only a minor thing. If we seem to match 100% and you convince me we do match, that alone is not enough motivation to play. Its all talk and talk is cheap. I am not one looking for a one time thing. I am looking for something that will grow, the play better the second time as we learn each other better and so on. For me to do this the most important thing is chemistry and can we even talk and want to talk in person. Can I laugh at your jokes and will you laugh at mine? If we can't be friends, I am not interested in playing. The truth is....to meet someone to be friends with and get to know better is the same as the vanilla world. Ask me if I would like to go to dinner with you. You pay for yours, I will pay for mine and we will see if we even want to go further. If everything we want isn't a 100% match, well that is fine too. Being friends makes open minded people love to be part of the give and take. Anything is possible.
Looking for so much. There is more about me on that other alternative site SaraSara.
I am submissive. I need to be pushed...used.....allowed to serve. I have few limits and either love or am curious about most of what I am familiar with in the BDSM lifestyle. I am very willing to try just about anything once to see if I like it and a second time to see if it was a fluke that I didn't like it the first time. At the hands of a skilled individual, I am a very big fan of the St. Andrews cross.
I also hope to find one, male or female, who is skilled with whips, floggers, etc...and leveling a person up. I do so like to fly. This does not need to be committed romantic sexual relationship. If the person is in a open relationship and the other does not need to fly as often as he would like to play or is not comfortable with the higher level of pain play, well...please.....keep me in mind.
Into abit of pain and degradation as well.
I am also learning about the top as well. So much to love there. So much more to experience. My interest in topping applies only to men. I have come to love the intoxication of the control, preparation and guidance, the responses he gives along the way......
Either way.....I don't want the quick and easy. I won't settle for the one night play date.
I hope to find ongoing long term play partners. I want the trust to be there....to grow with... So much more to do and learn that you just can't get there without the friendship connection and time....
If we don't click as far as talking.....we won't click in play either....and I am only interested in talking to people that I can reasonably expect to meet. I have more than enough pen pals.
I wish to live and play in real time....with real people.... I don't wish to invest alot of time into a situation where time together is seldom and far between. What can I say....I want what I want. While I do try to be nice and respond to all emails, life is too short. I can't hope to respond to all.
I have a very low tolorance for those that wish to contact me simply because I check in late at night and they have seen that I am on and they have a need to get off and want me to talk dirty to them.. You won't like the way I play the game.
Hugs to all.....
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todays winner:
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You talk too much for a sub. |
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Male Dominant
Tupelo
Mississippi
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IAMSARA on 6/18/12 at 5:14 AM: |
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lol....you got that all from my profile? lol...
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Makesucum on 6/7/12 at 4:08 AM: |
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You talk too much for a sub. |
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Email received.
You have a very interesting and intriquing profile..really love the needles in the nipples. One of my favorites...
My response....
Smiles....thank you for the response. I think the needles in the nipples in one of my favorites now.
That picture holds very nice memories for me. I am new to so much. I only actively started to seek the real thing over the on line thing about a year ago. At that time I started going to munches and play parties and really learning about the other parts of bdsm. I came alone to the munches, always abit shy. I had just a couple of weeks prior had my first real play. It was time spent on the cross at the hands of a very skilled domme. And it was after a party was over. I was much too busy thinking I was different because all those that I had seen being flogged adn such stayed so quiet. With the others....there was never a clear "oh, I am cumming" type of action.
I had always expressed an interest in needle play and had watched others. One particular Domme impressed me with her care and handling. At a party, a barbecue style, with people roaming on the outside deck eating, she asked if I wanted to. I of course said yes. It was a big step for me. This was the first time that I really had been seen. My experiences up to that time of flogging and knife play and such had been limited to being seen nude with maybe 5 individuals. This time was the first time for me to ever be exposed even if it was only topless in front of 40 plus individuals.
The upper needles really did nothing for me. The Domme asked what I thought about trying a needle through the nipples. Again, I of course said yes. We were sitting off to the side.....and I did try to be quiet. But it didn't work. One touch of the needle, I was wet.... Pushing through started me on my way to the top. I wish my nipples had been bigger.... I wish there were more needles. I can only imagine how fantastic magic wand used at the same time would have felt.
I guess the most flattering was the responses that I tried to hide, was what the others liked the most about me. I had several invitations to play from other very skilled Doms and Dommes. At that one activity, it seemed the group as a whole saw me go from the newbie who watches to the newbie they liked to watch.
My experiences so far have been great. I can not say enough how fortunate I am to have found such skilled individuals. I for the most part believe that if you are properly introduced to an activity, you have no choice but love it. And so far that as been true.
I want so much more.
I am sure you can tell just how that picture effects me by my rambling here.
I hope your Sunday is a good one as well.
Again, thank you for your time.
Sara
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I was away for a short period of time. Since I have come back on line the interest has been great. Thank you.
I have met several wonderful gentlemen and have talked to many more.
I have never been fortunate enough to find what I would call a great D;s relationship. To be honest, I had begun to think I was asking for too much. I have however just met a very fine gentleman that has given me hope again. While I will still be talking to others...and in some cases maybe even playing, I will be focusing my attention on possiblities with him. I will be honoring his wishes and do as much as I can to please him while we find out the possiblities. If we have been talking and now it seems I am not moving as fast toward a meeting, this is the reason why. If you wish to continue talking that is fine, asking to meet or play is fine as well. If my response is that it is not something I can do because of this trail period, and you continue to pressure me, I will consider your actions disrespectful and that will end any further contact.
I very much look forward to seeing where this all will go. I think I do owe it to myself to see this through. I am very open about everything and for those I have made friends with, I am not one to cringe at the idea of two gentlemen I have been talking to, talking to each other. If you would like to contact or speak with him, he is on Collarme as BiloxiBillSir.
I wish you all well. |
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