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Hello All... Dominant Male with some long term experience here...

I have had this profile for a long while now. I would describe myself as a sense stimulation self stylized Dominant with the proclivity to seek edges. Not sure what is next... maybe something completely different.... smiles....

{something I wrote in 2007}..During any exploration there are already reasons we are searching. Sometimes we know why and sometimes we don't. Many would say it is feelings of boredom or wanting more from life. The search to feel those endorphins that we remember. How did that happen? What was it that really made the difference?

I was in a long term relationship for many years (read that 25),. . . and along the journey at some point, you can not but help to feel like you have done all that before. It was an absolute horror when the realization occurred in me. I thought, 'She must feel this as well,' and if not right then, eventually. That was the fear.

My exploration began at that exact moment. Finding the new! (Yes, well I took a while to get to the 'new' observation but you would be bored if I was to explain all that too. . .[smiles]). That first kiss. The fumbling excitement. The touch that had you swoon with desire. Not so much the final orgasmic bliss but it was the build up. After all, ever have an orgasm before you actually become aroused. First things first.

So how to really make sure the build up gets us there? Hey, A magic pill would be good. Or a hypnotic command phrase or maybe some un-earthly power that magically enfuses your body. . .

Well until further notice I will stick with what I have found to be true. It is between our ears. What are we thinking?. . . What seems naughty or maybe even wrong? What makes us remember that first kiss? Remembered sounds or music. A scent that revives a memory. Each of us are different so there is no magic answer here. Each are made from our own life’s experiences.

When we talk sex to our significant other in our own protected private space, we can explore anything and everything. A lot like cyber I guess, but it is more personal. It can flit from one idea to another in a heart beat. Nope. . . that isn't working. . . try something new. . . make the fantasy real in their mind as much as in your's while you are describing it. Describe the situation. Remember small details. Ask for their memories. Elude to what someone else said or saw. Spin the yarn. Make it seem real. And let the taboos leave the room. Of course as you know more about someone there will be more things to try or question or seek out. Things that are down right not possible or even stupid to do in a real life situation can trigger our awareness into a lust filled sharing that can be astounding. Try it. Go that extra step to find your significant other's nasty little desires that bring on the unbridled bliss and use them to both of your enjoyment! (and well enjoyment is just not a strong enough word to describe the potential result).

Then there is another phase that kicks in. Bringing it into the real. How we approach this one should be done with a much more cautious and careful approach (much to read on this subject but it is not the focus of this blog). It is here all over this site and others. Where people are bringing their fantasies into the real. It is in various flavours and degrees and is as well, different for all of us.

So here is to celebrating our differences along the path of discovery.

Ooppps what’s over there. . . a Rock.. I wonder what is underneath it?

[winks]
Hyper.


p.s. I am cutting edge engineer/builder and have an exceptionally creative side too. I able to find something erotic and subtle in creating an atmosphere ripe for many kinds of scenes or play. I tend to have several hidden 'aids' scattered around my home that most would not realize.

If you are Still feeling your hunger you might enjoy a blog of mine...

 

http://alt.com/blog/Hyper99t

 

Please feel free and I do hope you enjoy.

 

Note: there are some interesting articles here one training and the newness one may feel when first exploring this addictive world...