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honesty with tact, confidence without conceit, pride without ego, intelligence without arrogance, self assured without selfishness. is it possible?
there is a reason why i listed honesty first. being honest with yourself is the first most important thing. you are not a Dom just because you like the title.
it seems some confuse being a top/bottom with being Dom/sub.  there is nothing wrong with being a top as long as you know that doesnt make you Dom.  the top/bottom relationship is really for play.  it is game or scene created and not a problem.  unless of course you think that makes you Dom.  Dom/sub is the true nature of the people not a part of role playing.  it goes beyond the play it is truly apart of  the people.  being a submissive by nature i can sense the true nature of the other person.  a Dom will bring out the submissive side of me without effort.  since it is a part of my nature the true Dom naturally brings it out in me.
so what is the difference between a spoiled brat and Dom... the brat doesnt care how his actions will affect others he just wants his way... the Dom considers his subs well being he also considers all others before he makes his demands.  knowing the difference between selfish wants and his desires.  calling yourself a Master doesnt make you one.  not knowing this just makes you a fool
just because someone says they are Dom doesnt mean they are.  sometimes they are just spoiled brats who want what they want when they want it.  and yes the way you treat your "loved ones" is the way you will treat all others.  if you cant show respect and claim to be a care giver when in fact you are a parasite that is not a Dom. 
this is an original poem protected by copyright.
Words
words are more then pitches and tones
the words you speak reflect your soul
if the eyes are the window then the mouth is the door
so be careful what you say
how you say it
or to whom you say it to
for if your words have no meaning then neither do you.

this poem is dedicated to those who think they can treat some people like total crap and then be surprised when others dont want anything to do with them because they dont want to end up being treated the same way.  
trust is a huge issue when you find out that someone lies no matter how small you have to wonder and worry what else do they lie about.  when its a lie about your own heritage i have wonder who you believe you are trying to impress.  sometimes they are just wolves in sheeps clothing
   
lets be real about this if you live so far away that the only options would be an occasional encounter then don't bother to write.  i am hoping to find someone who at least has hope in something becoming long term.  i also do have issues with age.  since i do not want to teach or mommy someone please spare me if you are young enough to be one of my children.
LETS SEE IF I CAN MAKE THIS ANY CLEARER.  I AM A SUBMISSIVE I AM NOT BI NOR AM I A SWITCH I DO NOT WANT A BOY TOY OR A MAN WHO WANTS TO LAY WITH OTHER MEN.  WE ARE ALL ALLOWED TO MAKE CHOICES AND THE ONES YOU MAKE ARE YOUR BUSINESS BUT PLEASE RESPECT MINE. 
within the first 48 hours of opening this account i received 100 responses.  it has slowed just a little.  i understand why some people dont want to post a pic and even put false information in there profiles to protect their privacy.  but if you really expect a reply then you need to attach a pic to your message.  i also decide if i want to respond by the content of the message.  dont write me like you know me or like i will obey just because i am a submissive.  if i am not treated like a lady first there will be no second.  i have been active in the lifestyle for over 25yrs i am not a newbee nor am i brainless.  i will be treated like a lady and would never submitt to a man who wants anything less.  if he wants respect he must know how to give it.