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	Have you ever thought something was missing from your life? Like most people I tried to fill the void with hobbies and other things, but I kept coming back to a place I consider home. Although I may not be experienced as others on this site, I'm a quick learner and can be very creative. I admit that I'm still learning, still becoming a better man and Dom. I'm well educated, well-traveled, drug and disease free. I love good food, good conversation, good books, music and movies. Equally at home in a tux or an old pair of jeans. Set me down at a table with good conversation and a bottle of wine and I'll be happy as a clam. I'm not as active as I used to be but am interested in bike riding, walking and soccer. Just a few other things, I'm a freelance published writer (contact me if you want the website address to sample some of my work) when not doing my real job (banking) and am married. My wife knows of my interests and does not share them. We are not swingers or are we interested in a threesome. We are in an open relationship and she would be happy to discuss this with you if you like. Although I may not get as many responses as I would like to this ad, I thought it was important to get it out in the open now. It just avoids issues later. I am looking for someone with an open mind that can accept my marriage. I'm not looking for a "family" or a "harem" but someone that is willing to explore our mutal interests. I do believe it's possible to be - for lack of a better term, monogamous - with my BDSM partner and my vanilla wife. As much as I hate this term, I guess I'm looking for a "friend with benefits in BDSM." All e-mails are promptly answered! 10/02/05 After several months of dating I find myself "back on the market" so to speak. I'm not some HNG so please don't treat me like one. I am looking to move away from the SM side and more into the DS side of the equation.

Had a really great time in Chicago at Shibaricon, despite a run in at the hotel bar with a drunken soccer dad.

Thanks to everyone that made it such a great success! I learned alot and am looking forward to using what I learned. (insert evil grin here)

The weekend. At the end of a stressful week all I can do is thank whatever Gods are out there for it.

Plus its a play weekend. Got some Ginger root for figging, and one little subbie I know wants to do a scene dressed as a puppy. Little does she know I'm going to give her 10 minutes to catch her tail in her mouth. Failure to do so will result in punishment.

Her punishment? To be tickled by everyone at the party. She hates that.

Is this mean? Probably. Do I care?

Sometimes it's good to be on Top! LOL

April 6, 2005. Another year older? How the hell did that happen?

I'm feeling pretty good lately. Happy just to have good friends and people I enjoy playing with.

I still don't have a little subbie to call my own. But I do need someone to take my birthday spankings for me.

Come on now Ladies - it's only 39!

This is addressed to the "gentlemen" out there that send our submissive ladies rude or offensive e-mails.

Don't do it. Just because someone is submissive doesn't mean you don't treat them like dirt. Yes, I know that some submissives enjoy that sort of thing. Should you get to them them first however?

And yes, as Doms we deserve and demand respect.

But show some respect, some restraint. We often say that submission is a gift. We need to accept that gift in the spirit in which it is given.

I have heard story after story of rude and offensive e-mails from submissives. That's not being a Dom. That's being an asshole.

Grow up or get out of the lifestyle.

I'm thinking about changing over my profile, and thought I should list the old one here for all to see.

I'm the type of man that has a lot of different interests. I love good food and wine, sitting and talking for hours and then going out dancing all night.
Engage me and I offer you the same in return. Bore me and you'll soon find I'm out the door.

I've always had an interest in BDSM and am only now exploring it in depth. I may be a "newbi" but I'm not an ass either. I believe in safe, sane and consenual. That your pleasure matters just as much as mine does. I have more experince than some, not as much as others.

I'm looking for a submisive women between the ages of 18 - 45 that is willing to be my equal in the Nilla world, but chained at my feet at night.

Have I peeked your interest?

Finally got around to signing up for Shibaricon.

If anyone is going be sure to look me up and say "Hey". I'm also curious to know how many people in the Pittsburgh and surrounding area are going? I'm thinking that if I can get 10 - 25 names togather we might be able to get cheaper rates on motel rooms.

Contact me if interested.

Just wanting to wish everyone a happy and safe New Year.

My goals for this coming year are to become more active in my local scene. Learn how to use my damn whip correctly and to finally find a sub that likes pony/puppy play!

Not asking for to much am I!

I've been thinking a lot about trust lately and how important it is in any relationship. Even those you wouldn't think would require it.

Recently I sent out a mass e-mail to some submissive women I know; some I've played with and others from munches and talking online. The e-mail was tongue-in-cheeck and all in fun. Problem was that one of the people I sent it to is very much in the closet when it comes to the lifestyle.

She asked me to drop her from my friends list and not have any additional contact with her. Although I thought that was a bit harsh I respected her wishes. Trust is to important in this lifestyle to violate.

The second thing is a short story I wrote. A friend of mine at work gave me the idea so I told him he would be a charater in the story. He liked that fact that he died at the end.

Problem is on that same website is an erotic tale I spun. It has a bit of BDSM in it

This story was "reviewed" at work, yet no one has given me grief over it. Maybe they see it as just a piece of fiction. Or maybe some of them wish they could be the girl in the story. I don't know.

But they keep my secrets.

Happy Holidays A/all!

So I picked up a new toy yesterday. A buggy whip, and need to practice. Lots and lots of practice before it ever meets a submissive's willing flesh.

I also plan on going to the Shibaricon 05 convention in late May. So if anyone is in or around the Chicago area drop me a line. I'm going to need info on good but cheap motels, etc.

Thanks

Lately it seems all I've been doing is working with new submissives. Normally I enjoy that, it's fun to watch someone grow and change and learn to accept new things.

Sadly though, it also seems that many of the new submissives I'm meeting are damaged in some way. Their former Masters seemed more interested in hurting them then helping them grow, not only as a person but also as a sub.

I'm not sure why this is. Is it due to the internet, with all of it's porn and BDSM sites that concentrate more on the "whack" and not the mental part? Is it that most people want to jump in feet first and don't realize that our choosen lifestyle is more than the whip and chain?

Maybe I just think to much.

I joined this site a while ago, but wasn't happy with the set up of it or the functionality. However I've recently met several people which have had success on this site. So I guess I'll give it another go.

Last night at a play party, I spanked a very nice women whose profile appears here. Because of that and the reasons metioned above you'll probably see more of me!

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