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	To be ravished, to be open and be known, to obey. And humor too! I am a gentlemen, a geek, a cuddle whore. I'm very good with words and been paid to communicate, in, and tell stories. (Mostly in the corporate world but some creative stuff as well). I was ravished and introduced to this world by a mature woman in her 40s when I was in my late 20s. She was a wonderful teacher. All the best, as much happiness and meaningful connection as you desire.

Vulnerability works on both side of the fence ? being fully open is what has attracted me the most to dominant women in the past.

The first time I surrendered to a woman she was so open to me (after a while) ? that although I didn?t fully realize it at the time ? it was a big part of the attraction to her for me and I fell to my knees pretty quickly emotionally. She would share things with me casually that would melt my heart such as:

Upon tying me up:

Her: I would never let someone tie me up.

Me: Because you?re not submissive?

Her: Because I could never be that brave, that vulnerable. (Grabbing my face in her hands.) You?re reckless, putting yourself in such a situation so soon after we met. You?re fortunate that I am not going to hurt you?.much.

Or:

Her: I will never intentionally harm you. I was in an abusive relationship and he didn?t take care of me. Who knows? It may be part of why I am the way I am.

Or:

Sometimes I want to hurt you so much?just a little?that it drives me crazy.

In a way, she was so brave to be so open to me that it set the example for me to be an open book to her.

If I'm late don't wait

Go on without me

I may tarry awhile

Cause I need to know

Before I go

How come the Devil smiles

For me D/S is love distilled - think only of me, desire only me, obey only me. This deep intimacy, this emotional nakedness is a big part of the draw of D/S for me.

Worship only me, you are only allowed pleasure if I allow it, give me pleasure because it give you pleasure to do so?it can be very delicious but it can lead to hurt feelings on a submissive/slave?s part if they take it ?seriously? and the dominant is only ?playing? at it. (That?s how I look at it - casual play doesn?t fulfill me.)

So for me?friendship first?which leads to warm feelings?which could lead to love?.which could lead to commitment and devotion?I have found the more I love someone, and the more that love and respect is returned...the more biddable I find myself becoming. I'm a sucker for a woman saying I am cherished or being called dearest. (Being called slut is fun too...it is a matter of balance.) When I have interacted with those who felt love would get in the way of the kink - I felt uncomfortable.

Chuck Norris has a pet kitten...every night for a snack.

Chuck Norris invented Kentucky Fried Chicken's famous secret recipe, with eleven herbs and spices. But nobody ever mentions the twelfth ingredient: Fear.

Have an opportunity to work on something creative for a start up. Little or no money involved but it is a chance to be creative and have some fun. I?m excelling at work but feel a little burned out recently.

Working on a screenplay that I got some great feedback on?have to do another draft by the end of the month to meet a deadline for a few contests.

Letting my hair grow out...getting a lot of good feedback on that..used to have a goattee as well...found it annoying to take care of, may grow it back.

A quietness, a satisfied surrender, a place of safety and accomplishment...it is a need I have but such desires sometimes seem unreasonable, unrealistic in the light of day...but I have experienced it before.

Accomplished something at work today that I was a little afraid to do...thought it was beyond my skills...and I got praised for it. Amazing how sometimes you can do more than you think you can.

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