Having been contacted by some completely unsuited Doms, I've updated, to clear any confusion! Please read all of this before you email….
I’m very attractive, 36, live in Bedfordshire, I’m slim (size 10/12), very nice shapely bum, fair hair, blue eyes, intelligent, funny and an excellent communicator. I'm loyal, loving, affectionate and tactile. I'm happy to swap pictures on request if we're looking for the same thing!
I’ve got specific requirements, certainly for now. This is a journey of exploration and experimentation for me and I need a patient, understanding, caring partner to help me investigate and, if possible, stretch my limited boundaries. I most certainly DO NOT want a sadist, I have no wish (nor will I ever do) to have extreme pain inflicted. Nor am I interested in being a slave – if you refer to your partner of choice in this manner, we will not be suited.
I’m submissive but this is in an intimate/sexual sense only. In my vanilla life I will remain strong, assertive and in control. That won’t ever change. I seek a monogamous LTR with someone who doesn’t just “accept this” – he wouldn’t have it any other way. I’m looking for a truly like-minded counterpart. We will achieve our desires on opposite ends of the same scale but, as neither of us can be truly fulfilled without the other, the relationship will be based on equality, respect and trust. If these are in place, I am far more likely to experiment beyond the bounds I currently have. Without them, there is nothing.
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I will submit my mind and body to you because I trust and respect you and I know that you will respect and cherish me
You will dominate me because I have permitted you to.
You will understand that my submission to you is not a right, it’s a gift, on loan to you as long as you cherish and respect it.
Love me, respect me, treat me well and in return you will reap the devotion that you desire. Disrespect me, lie to me, treat me badly but once and my submission and devotion to you will be withdrawn.
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I would like to meet a Dom – experience level doesn’t matter, personal characteristics do – who will enjoy experimentation with me. He’ll be tall, attractive (yes, looks do matter, that’s honest, not shallow!!) and hopefully not too far away from me (unrealistic distances don’t work for LTR). He will be, with a very few exceptions, aged 35-45 only. He will be single, intelligent, articulate and have the ability to captivate my mind and dominate me on a mental level without resorting to crude, coarse or obscene language – that does nothing for me at all.
The big no-no areas for me –
If you’re married or attached in ANY way (including open relationships and “my wife doesn’t understand my needs”) then please move on, I will not reply to you.
If you’re a sadist, move on.
If you want 24/7 or a slave, move on.
If you’re a little boy wondering what it’s like to tie a woman up and hit/shag her, please move on
If you’re heading through a mid-life crisis or trying to re-capture your youth, please move on
If you’re a boobs man, move on (you’ll be sadly disappointed!!)
If you’re looking for casual encounters/play partners, please move on
If any other part of my requirements indicates that we’re not suited, please accept that we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea and move on to someone else with my very best wishes for your future luck.
Please understand……. Submissive does not mean "easy lay" - quite the opposite as there is so much trust involved on my side I'm even more particular who I'll give it to... and inexperienced doesn't mean stupid or gullible.... if you try to pass yourself off as a "genuine dom" and you're not, it's quite easy to see....
I don’t like timewasting, mine or yours, that’s why I’ve written all of this, to be fair to everyone.
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