I am a moderately submissive female who is searching for a long-term, real-time, relationship with a dominant man who is interested in a "traditional" relationship. Although I appreciate women's lib, I must say that I detest the fact that many women today are made to feel as though something is somehow "wrong" with them when they want to devote themselves to one man and to home and hearth.
I am a hard working single female who prides herself on giving 100% and doing all that I can to show the man in my life that he is appreciated, respected and valued. In return I like a man who displays the old world chivalric mannerisms that my Father and Grandfathers displayed towards their spouses.
I am very well known in my small community due to my penchant for performing and therefore won't be posting any pictures but if I get to know you well, won't hesitate to send one or two so you can get a general idea of my appearance. I am a plus-sized woman (size 14) but am still considered "curvy" by most standards with an hour-glass shape. I do exercise and diet so this is something I am definitely working on.
I also do arabic dancing and perform quite often in my community and it is definitely something that I would enjoy doing for my Lord and Master should he so desire.
As someone who believes in complete upfront honesty (and to avoid any misunderstandings later), it would probably be easier if I just made it clear up front that I am a one-man kind of gal. I understand polygamy, swinging, etc., are acceptable and work for some people, but they just don't work for me. I can assure any potential partners that I have an extremely high drive and enjoy being sexually active with my long-term partner on a regular basis. Many Masters perceive this as trying to "top from the bottom" and while I respect their opinion, I must respectfully disagree. Unfortunately, I have seen first-hand the emotional upset, heart-ache, not to mention the physical aspects such a decision can cause and since a harmonious and stable relationship are one of the things that draw to me this kind of relationship in the first place, must respectfully decline.
I enjoy pleasuring my Master and bringing him fulfillment emotionally and physically. I would hope that he would feel the same about me. After all, you don't lend your Waterford Crystal out for the company picnic do you?
Hmm....I guess I'm getting confused here. What exactly is a cyber collar? And how does it protect me from "predators" lurking on these boards or in the chatrooms? I thought that's what moderators and the ignore button were for? Someone needs to clue me in on that one!
6/12/05 - Agh....I hate to seem off-putting to any potential Masters out there, but please don't take it personally if we've just met and I decline to give out my telephone number. Isn't the motto of the BDSM community "safe, sane and consensual"?
O.k., not to copy someone else's entries (even though I'm about to do it anyway) and not that I claim to be Anais Nin or Jane Austen, but what about spell check?!?
Now, why do I get the feeling that being that honest is going to get me into trouble down the road?
Well, it's 11:44 p.m. and as usual, instead of being tucked up in bed like I should be, I'm off playing on the internet!
