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Twisted, but sane sadist looking for equally twisted masochist bottom/switch play partner.
It has been a long time since I've been on this site. However I'm currently seeking a new play partner so I decided I would put the add here. I have more details about myself as well as pictures on (same profile name). I have a collared slave of over 13 years with whom I am married to.
Before I get into details about exactly what I’m looking for in a play partner, I want to start with the type of dynamic I seek. My slave and I have talked at length about different types of relationships and have tried a large range of dynamics throughout the years, as well as what our needs are. What it comes down to is the type of dynamic that she will be comfortable with and will meet my needs is that of a regular play partner and friend. It would probably be best if they had a primary relationship they were dedicated to, while being available for intense and possibly extended play sessions.
I tend to play to the level of the person I’m with and enjoy myself and have fun at almost all levels of play. However, right now what is missing is a heavy masochist willing to explore all the dark crevices of the rabbit hole. This is not just physical play; it can also include the mental aspects. I would really like someone as creative and twisted as I am that we can bounce ideas off each other to come up with something diabolical, then we can turn it into a reality and feed off the pain, the agony, the suffering, and the “sex.”
I put sex in quotes because I want to be clear that I am not talking about intercourse, but about the raw energy during a heavy scene. In fact, intercourse, and more specifically, anything having to do with my cock is off the table. That is not to say sexual interaction isn’t. There is really something amazing about forcing an orgasm out of someone while at the same time causing them intense pain/suffering, it is something that my inner sadist can really sink its teeth into and feed on.
Gender/sexuality: This seems like both a tough and simple thing. First, for myself: I don’t consider myself a completely typical male. I enjoy sex and enjoy orgasming. However, that’s not what really gets me off and can sometimes even be anti-climactic. The teasing, buildup, and sexual tension, are what do it for me, as well as causing or being a part of other people’s orgasms. I’m not driven sexually by my cock.
For the partner: I am not really attracted to male energy. I have played pretty heavily with some male masochists and it just doesn’t provide me with what I’m looking for. Also I just enjoy torturing girl-parts more. So bio-female is important. Beyond that, I don’t care what your sexuality is. I’ve played from straight girls to butch dykes and everywhere in between. What’s important is the connection and matching of sadist to masochist.
I put at the top that I am looking for a bottom/switch. The reason I used bottom instead of sub is that the person doesn’t need to be a submissive. There may be some D/s interplay during a session, but to me it’s a different mental state to have someone (especially a masochist) submit to me during a session versus them being a submissive. I throw switch out there because most female masochists I know are evil sadistic bitches in their own right and I love them for it. Hence a switch could be someone just as creative as me to help institute their own demise. Also, to be perfectly honest, being a sick fuck evil sadistic bastard, I can really get off on pain sometimes. I’m open to most possibilities that in the end get us both off. Something else I explored briefly with a partner that I still think has some merit was an idea of a Dehumanized Predator/Sadist. I would be happy to go into detail with someone interested. I have very few limits and try to keep most things on the table as an option.
Wrap up of what I’m looking for via bullet points:
- Heavy Masochist (mixed with sadistic tendencies is fine)
- Primarily a bottom
- Female (sexual orientation does not matter – see below)
- Okay to be played with/used sexually during a session (vibs, dildos, hands)
- Okay to never have access to my cock
- Open and willing to explore
- Play partner only
- Friendship outside of play sessions
If you are new-ish and not sure you may be up to this level of crazy but think you might be, I’ll say there is only one way to find out. I’m game if you are.
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