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=========READ FIRST BEFORE YOU SEND A MESSAGE======
Domme 14+ years experience and 7yrs in the Detroit Lifestyle Community. Currently I am looking for a new Submissive/Slave or female life partner. This is for a chance at a LTR. I have very clear expectations and require them for the interview. Also no messages from anyone outside of the Michigan area. Please be within 25 miles. If you wish to look at my pics go ahead but if you're interested, Just send me a respectable message replying to the statements down below. If you cant take the time to apply respectfully then don't even bother. I don't want one liners(one line txt just to say "hello"). Most of all If you're here to fuck around do it with someone else.

1. BBW or average build Caucasian female age 27-45.
2. Male Caucasian age 25-40
3. Not looking for a pure sexual relationship.
4. Know how to complete a full introduction
5. Read profile to know my interest.
6. Understand the role you believe you fit.(can correctly detail that after interview)
7. Be willing to have a face to face(not face to face sex or domination)a sit down interview
8. Have time for the lifestyle(understand this is not for a one time thing)
9. Know that Trust an honesty is important if you cant be true to yourself you cant be to me.
10. Have the ability to communicate.
11. If interested in pet/pony play or babygirl/boi you get special interest.

Is that so hard. I don't have time for one liners or even just run on paragraphs. True ability to get my attention is to give me the idea you're worth the attention. I don't want to waste my time. So don't send me messages that do.

Have a wonderful kinky day.

WTF! Really WTF does it take to get you men to do a fucking proper introduction. WTF am I supposed to know from a one word...ONE WORD message. Fucking grow up I am not some chick off the street. If you can not come to me with some Damn common sense don't leave me a message. I am tired so Tired of this shit. And you wonder why Domme Mistresses don't take you seriously hell you don't even take yourself seriously.

 

 You wish to live this lifestyle then act like it. Some of us that do live this correctly are not looking for sex. yeah you got a body and a dick. Woooo! I beat I got one bigger. So don't think your dick will bring me to happiness i can do better.

 

So if you want my attention and not me cussing you out act like you want a proper conversation or go jerk off somewhere else with the money posing Dommes. I am not the one.

 

Thank you now I return you to your fucked up mind.

After carefully thinking things through due to a few sad situations. I find strapon play with a female more fun. Yet raping a Male is just wonderful. So I am conflicted on what I want more. Rape or play?

Currently I will have to discontinue my search as i am dealing with a family issue. If you feel that you are interested in serving place your introduction and I will return my answer with in 2-business days. At this time face to face meetings will be subject to your introductions impressing my nature of criticism.

 

Thank you

GM

Well little Sub/Slaves of Michigan(I repeat Michigan) I have seen you have talked to many of you and then I have looked at the profiles and Yet the attention I still seem to collect is from out of the country why is that?  I seem to be in more demand if I am not readily reachable. Where I can wrap my hands around your throat or my crop, whip, flogger aimed at your tender skin.  I find that very interesting as I am not one to just sit in idle wait for one to come to me but as I sit and talk to friends I get tons upon tons of messages from those who know i am not interested. Why Michigan sub/slaves? Why?

 

So while I am sitting here high heels and knee bouncing over knee. I realize more than ever I hate this site more than chocolate itself.  Yes yes I have the right to leave and allow all you sex deprived, lusty Meat Market shoppers to pick squeeze amongst yourselves. Yet I have a lot of nice friends here.  Still I know there are some individual that are really looking for a LTR B/D relationship built on trust and care is more important than sticking dildo here and there and making someone moan my name. Well one day i hope that this will happen for not just me but for the one wht5 really do live the lifestyle like myself.  Now that you have read this I want the ones that understand that I am looking for something real and not looking for a fuck toy, you will get my attention above all the dildo carvers.  Yeah don't get me wrong I don't mind the sex just not looking for it in a Sub/slave.

It is very sad to know from phone to here comments are not posted as clear as what is typed but thing human and computer error is common on CM.  Correcting that should be fun. Now onto business at hand. I am looking for a sub male that can read... and a Woman that wants to be a wife...Hmmmm wonder how much longer I have to wait for that.

To all that have sent me messages Understand I will not call you over the phone I do not do phone domination. Woman that contact me not being a BBW does not disqualify you from applying for the position I have open.

 

Anyone that apply s must look at the statements and see if they fit the minimum qualifications

My day has been complete, I recieve so many messages a day that I have no commeted myself to using the messages as a learning lesson to others how not to contact a Domme. It is not something I like to do but I think it is time to express how displeased one becomes with the quality of individuals. It is not much that one ask for but reading seems to be a hard thing for many men. I personally find it funny and so much a turn off.

 

It is not just the messages from out of the state its the ones from around the world. I have just given up on the supposed Lifestyle community on CM. I do have an active lifestyle on in the community in general but sometimes Having something of my own is just a dream. So to the ones that feel that I am going to talk to them just becuase you think that expressing how submissive you are and not reading my profile. Good luck cuz your not learning anything from being a douche.

 

To all Good Luck

Be Well

GM

Okay I notice that my mail is being rapped by email from people not meeting the requirements I have stated in my profile the main requirement being within 25miles of my area. Why? If your going to be a sub looking for a Domme wouldn't the first impression to a Domme be that you can follow direction well. You know first impressions are everything people. Try using common sense.

SO my PRofile is for show Because getting people to read before sending me a message is not happening.

And once again nothing but dick pics and empty one line stayements and you wonder why Dommes wont take you seriously.

I think today I finally have come to my limit.   Looking for quaility is just so tiring when the other parts are all about quanity. I find that men just dont take the time to commit unless and I do mean unless they get their gradification first. Matters not what role they play it is the same result. So let me make this very clear.

 

DO NOT SEND ME A MESSAGE IF YOUR ARE NOT GOING TO READ THE PROFILE.


DONT SEND ME A MESSAGE TO ASK QUESTION ABOUT OBVIOUS MATERIAL  I AM NOT INTERESTED IN.


MOST IMPORTANTLY IF YOU ARE NOT COMMITTED TO THE ROLE YOU ARE IN DONT COME THIS WAY HOPING i WILL BE A PARTIME LOVER.

I care not or want to have my eyes raped again by male subs who think that telling me what they think I should do to them as being a proper introduction it is not. IF you dont know how to introduce yourself to someone you dont know get off this damn site and stop sending me messages.

I have been in the lifestyle 14+years I have seen the same intros over and over again. Impress me give me a reason to think there is more to you then just what I want to hear.

  READ THE PROFILE!!!!!

If your tired of hearing this over and over again then maybe you should do what is asked.


As my Sub Secretary goes through I assume are months of corrections. I want to make it known that I am looking for a sub or slave. My age requirements and Race requires are not going to change no mater how many times you beg. So if you dont fit what I am looking for stop asking.

 

Be Well

GM

Submissive Secretary Apology

I would like to apologize for my jealousy to My Lady and those who notice my grammar errors. Please to those who have viewed her profile and those who will in the future don’t allow my disservice to My lady effect your decision to contact her.  I ask that those interested in My lady's service know that she is more than any sub or slave could hope for. If I have made a mistake in spelling or grammar please inform My Lady and I will correct it and accept my punishment. I have nothing more than respect for My Lady. It is not up to me to decide who should be worthy of her service. Please accept my apology and know that I have days of damage to correct.

Sincerely Grateful

SubSecretary4Domme

One of these days I will have a sub that takes good dictation and proof reads..... Good help seems to be hard to find..

 

...Profile under construction until bitch gets the point.

Oh for the Love of G-D.....Read a freaking profile. Dont waste internet space sending me a message I am not going to  read becuase 1. it is  a 2 sentenses comment 2. You have not even took the time to even express yourself clearly. 3. YOUR NOT EVEN IN THE MICHIGAIN AREA!

I have found it very interesting that putting up a profile means nothing to a Man as long as he is able to see a picture. If you dont read how will you know if I will reject your advancement.

MEN if you send me a message no I am not looking for relocatees, individual hiding from their wives, or Men who think I am single I am happily Married and he knows and supports my Decision of a Male sub/slave. So get with the program.

 

Yes I am the real thing Right down to the whips chains and the structured protocal. I can be friendly to the right person But I am not going to be here for someones need to Jerk off. If your not sure about the lifestyle and the real community not that Fifty Shades of Gray house wife stuff then we can talk. I am not here to play around. I do not  wish to waste my time. It might sound harsh but this is reality and I really dont have time for the kids living in a fantasy land that will never happen.

 

Be Well

GM

Dear CM

Why do I keep getting the strange and the oneLiners....If you wish to know if you can service me it would require you to actually put some effort into your introduction. Im not into the waste of time you of answering emails with no content.

A sub is hard to come by when it is Female. But when it is BBW it is even harder. I have interviewed so many that have fallen short. I try to be very clear but mostly there is a difference of time and schedule. Now with summer coming I am looking even harder.  So many event I will be going to and want to have my sub right there with me. So I will continue looking and not head hunting.

I know it is going around and I know many have seen the video and have experience disgust and anger. http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhiHb913Lf4TpU4q5m

 

Yes I am talking about the TG that was brutally assaulted at a Mcdonald's just for taking a pee. I do not encourage or even like this type of behavior from any person for any reason. I strongly believe that a Tg, gay, lesbian, bi anyone of any flavor or sexual orientation should have the respect and right as anyone else.  So if you come across anyone in danger or being assaulted as humans it is are duty to help those in need.  Remember that one day something like this could happen to your friends, family or yourself you want to think someone will raise a hand to help you. 

 

Their is a petition out today expressing peoples disgust at this video and the actions of the people in this video. My heart goes out to the family of this Woman who was brutally beat.

I do not clam to be the Domme for You I clam to be the Domme to Know if I am the one for you. The step you take is the one you need to get out of the searching path. You cant stay online forever looking you wont find it. You need to get out there in the community. Meet Me or the Domme for you. But you got to meet them....At least talk to them.

It is a interesting Day I have been an Empowering voice for a many women today and I would like to share those words with the women here.

 

"Okay I have to say this because one we are new woman's group and I know it's going to come up like my other post.

 

YOU...HEY YOU....YEAH YOU...DON'T ACT LIKE I'M NOT TALKING YOU....YEAH YOU. YOUR SO FUCKING BEAUTIFUL.

 

From your smile your voice your attitude your beautiful. Your size means nothing to me and should not matter to thoes with real sense of beauty. Your beauty is in what you give to the world and your giving me the sexy come hither vibe. Your sexy woman inside is leaking out and calling my name you are sexy and except it or I will beat it into you.

Okay that was brought to you by the fact I keep seeing woman in other forum's putting themselves down. I think we all just need to hear how sexy and appealing we are from some else once and a while.

 

So yeah you right there reading this your making me wet just knowing your a woman...okay that not right um your making me blush....hold up I got it your making my mind go nuts from your beauty.

 

Lol for all the women I give you my honest opinion and deepest respect no matter your lifestyle title. You are all women and all woman!"


Hey you...Yeah you! You keep looking at my profile. Yeah im real.  Just send a message and find out how real.

So is it me or are slaves trying to escape New York for some reason?

Master/sub/slave  no more..I've had it no more cockshots.  Master I am not a sub or lower dont think you can change my attitude or nature by thinking me coming to you. Not going to happen. Most of all! Read my profile (I cant stress this enough) before sending me any emaill nonsense.

SUb/Slave Abuse------

I dont know what is wrong with people but this is getting out of hand. I have had some unfortunate run ins with a few subs who have been abused used and throw out of their lifestyle home and some literal home by these so called people they called Master/Domme Im sick of it. One because sub or not no one needs to be treated like that and second people just dont know what they are doing in this lifestyle and dont think first before they act.

 

I strongly believe and Sub/Slave is a wonderful piece of jewelry first that sub is one of a kind to you it is expensive and should be treated as such. you dont put something like that in a cage in the dark only to bring it out to show off. No you keep it out rub it and clean it and make the true nature of the sub shine. That way next to you your sub show ho much you care and truely love the sub.

 

You cant cultivate through fear and beating. Treat your Sub right and they will do right by you and treat you right. You bastards out there just blowing your nose on this community when you hurt a sub. If a sub is to much for you to handle just find a willing Top to take your place. People learn to break ties with your sub properly. People dont need to be left out there vulnerable and destroyed. They need to shine like a great diamond.

For all the ones posing as Masters/Dommes Fuck you for hurting these people. Your weaker then the Sub you claim to be in your protection.

Common Courtesy---I have to address this because I have witness a lot of just plain rudeness.  I honestly this lifestyle is all about manners and people act like they dont even have the etiquette they were raised with. I myself am quick to wish a person well or give them a little advise or even say a hearty hello even if we are strangers to each other.  It is just human nature. I dont expect long conversations in response, just a response of acknowledgment.  Even if I make an advance it is a courtesy to either state if one is interested or not.  Because technology we have like websites and email, people have forgotten that social manners do not stop at face to face contact.  Its a wonder how people even can look each other face to face or even talk at a club.  Well I will not discontinue my manners because you have forgotten yours but know that your lack of human character will and always be thrown back at you.

I have been keeping myself busy with friends of old on . My wonder why i dont go to Munches anymore or events.  Well simple I have an overly demanding but now it has calmed down. I have so much free time now.  So why dont i go out well I looking for a Ltr sub/slave.  I know go to a munche youll find one there im always told but really the first sub i got from a munch i returned her the next week.  And your always going to see the same people over and over again so once you burn a bridge you keep seeing the wreckage over and over again i dont need that.  So what am i left with? Web sites like this and trust me its not all that good. Its like a a bad game of musical chairs.

I find that I love doing Shibari a lot in my  spare time. I like to practice my knot tying. Yet the model I am using is not what I like to use. He is not a full BBW. I want to see the redness of the strain of the rope I want to see the liquid drip from her pussy. I want to hear the whimpering and the moaning of pleasure.  I think that giving up my last slave girl was a big mistake. Now I have to find a replacement and it seems hard to find one that likes to feel vulnerable to my ropes. I think even though many are willing they are just confused why my interests are in larger Caucasian female.  Well why not.

Happy Phatt Day to all the Beautiful BBW Dom/subs/slave/pets be proud of the work you put in to get to where you are today.  Cuz tomorrow we repent the sin.

I had the pleasure of getting an Uplifting Email from a Defileme and I wanted to respond yet she seem to turn tail cowardly an ran so I will post the reply here.

 

" I laugh at your words they are like drops of water that have rolled off my 5in. high heeled boots. Your hopes to break a persons resolve is a joke.  Your opinion was not even warranted. I find that your need to voice your opinion on beauty was an attempt  to gain my attention. With that a  hope to have an email battle to help you feel better about yourself. Maybe get back at some Dom that has wronged you in the past. A battle of words on a public site is just laughable and shameful.  If you really want some kind of credibility to your words put a pic up to compare.  Hiding behind a website is just sad if your going to be a big girl but your big girl panties on or just keep your words to yourself.

 

Nice Day

Sincerely

Goddess Morrigan

 

And for any other person that feels leaving ridiculous emails in my box will get me to glorify your ego in some way will not happen  this one person just made me laugh and I wanted to share it with you.  Everyone needs to laugh at other peoples expense once and a while. 

I have had the chance to inview a few sub/slave and although they all have given great responses and also tried to show their interest they only wanted sex.   I shake my head when the first question they asked is "When we have a session can i service your pussy and ass." How about learning your role your passwords or even learning about the person your trying to service or even the lifestyle and what its really about.  There is a sexuality about it but there is the emotional connection that makes it more then a one night stand or a reason to lose your building lust. I may have dropped out for a while for work and marriage but the important stuff is never forgotten.

Sometimes tech is not what we like. So maybe we all should look into a more primative time.

I have been asked many time "Why BBW Caucasian females?" Well its simple That is what is acttractive to me.  There is no racial issues or mental problems. I find that when people put to much though into what I am attracted to, they are really bringing up their only personal issue. I like what I like.  So before you ask me why you should ask yourself why you have such a problem with what i like.

A Dom is not without faults we are human and we make mistakes. It shows character that we can admit that and correct the mistakes.  Dont assume that one will be perfect but there is nothing wrong with achieving to be. Having high hopes are something we all should try to achieve.

I had the pleasure talking to a wonderful switch today although i was not looking it seems my Pic was something she remembered.  I have to admit it took balls for her to approach me in public but it was not so bad as i was with like minded people and she was very cautious in her words. Yet her comliments and informations was greattly recieved and her converstations was also uplifting i have to say many things said made us laught but brought us to the same conclusion" many people are never sure of what the want they have dreams and fantasies and wish for it to come true just as they dream it .  Yet life is not that easy and they never see it that way. i find that in this lifestyle we turn down many options for that perfect dream when really the imperfect dream was more of what the want they just seemed to look at it through dark tinted glasses."  I will admit to that once and a while but really is it that bad to dream the impossible dream..  Thank you Angie  K.I.T

I had the pleasure of talking with a few female subs yet nothings has come of it many dont understand that being Dom does not mean right off the back I tell you "Get down and lick my boots" I dont know you, so im going to be polite, nice pleasent. I would be unbecomming of me not to be.  My Dom side comes out  but i want to get to know I not looking for a quick fling Im looking for something long term and something that benifits both parties.  Yes i might send you the first greeting but understand it is a greeting.  If you feel that my greeting is not wrranted hey i dont owe you anything and i dont expect anything more than "Im interested." or "Im not intereted." How hard is that?!"

I've had such a moment to believe in a higher power then me when the weather put my loved one in a car accident.  I was so engrossed in my own life that i never realized how much people depend on me.  Now i look at all the sub/slaves asking the same wondering if i want to do this again.  I took the time to wonder if I just want a sub or really have a slave to live with  me or not.  I guess i will work out my decision when i find the right one who fits in my life.

I am not here to have you fear me, i would not will not do that. i bprefer love and from my love you yourelf fear dissappointing me. I maybe scary with my stare yet that is a natural facial expression.  I play at being a Dom for it comes natural that is not some i think it is what others around me feel but my smile can warm many so my smile is what i use as my most powerful weapon. Their are many was to smile and i use them all.

I had the pleasure in talking to two lovely subs and I realize that I have given them something to really thinking about.  I have noticed that many subs slaves pets dont really realize that it is their choice who they feel with Dom them effectively. I don ask for subs to address online like I am Dominate opposing figure. You can learn anything from online talking but that the person likes to type. I am a person that feel there is more to Dom and Sub then what he use this website for.  Now it is time to find one that understands that.

To the people who know me I am a Goddess, To myself I am everything. But if you dont know me no more then the pic on this profile. I am just another person. Do not approach me like you have known me for years and know what I am about. YOu do not know me.  In order to know you you must first know what I am looking for then you ask.

I hate having a job that sends a person out of the country for months at a time. Im coming back to find many emails and stuff that I couldn't answer while I was away. Many I wish I could jump on others I try to figure out what they are trying to say to me. I find that If my personal life was not such an issue at work I would have been answering all of you who wish to have talked to me. I have sent many responses, so be mindful I was not ignoring just not able to give you the full attention you think you desire.

I have been talking to a young lady on she is such a doll. Once again the goal I want is out of reach of my grasp. And yet I see so many Unclaimed dolls It hurts the heart to know Even if I want to reach a hand in friendship they have been hurt so much by previous Dommes/Masters that they dont know how to trust or see one person that bares them no ill will. Shame on those selfish People that have hurt these subs so for shame you bastards.
I think one the sad thing about being a lover of BBW women is that many of the good ones are always taken. But I am very much hopeful ...But the good thing is one of my favorite sissy boi's got married I was so happy .? And he had a wonderful little boy on top? of that...Guess I will have a new little sissy boi in 17 yrs lol.? I was named God Mother so that makes it even better I am the god mother to my sissy boi's son. lol? Oh what a twisted life we weave and it is so nice.?
I think finding a female lover would be just fine if we both are into the life style but I find that many women these days are just not really good at being honest with themselves or the person they are with. Now this is not to say every female is like this, just the ones I have come across. That does not say that males dont have faults oh they have plenty like they dont like to read. AT ALL! Or listen. Or take a good friendly hint. You have to practically? hit them over the head before your very obvious intentions are understood. NO I AM NOT LOOKING FOR MALES . NO MEN! NONE i dont care how desperate you are or how good I look to you or how you dream of me. I am not looking for a man.?

Yet a woman would be nice. I do like my women big so any BBW women would be fun to have around.
Even after I have made it clear I am not looking for any males at this time I get message requesting application review. Really do we not listen. I will consider maybe a sub couple but they would really have to just get me where it counts.? guys the man boat has sailed right now I am looking to board? the SS timid Rabbit.? Good luck in your search for your Domme. One day I might think about it. But for now I am only into women.
Well Now that I am back It has been a while work sure does do a lot to keep you busy that you cant even get online.  Well I hope all you little ones have not missed me much although I will have to say many have. I am back and looking again.
It has been a a very hard couple of weeks I have spent many a weeks over in Texas and the south over by Louisana. Yeah I am a rescue worker....I have had no time to spend looking for or doing any Domming things...Poor me. Yet I was lucky enough to pic up a new pet. Such a cute redhead she is. I cant wait to work her over.  It will be such a pleasure.  Till then I will have to wait for a new male pet.
Such as one to find that I have been so much happier thenmost. Women seem to love my Dominate nature.  I have been told it is so natural nothing staged or practiced the arua just leaks off me. I think that is the compliment of a woman that wanted nothing more then to be at my feet. And you Know I was so considering taking her up on that. But I am kind of picky I just dont take anyone. Some things really have to be researched so I take the time to really find the one for me.
Well i am going to be moving soon and it is two months of crap I have to move get together and most of all search for a new slave to fit in the new play room I am going to be making. And so far I am gettin rejects and wannabes. I find that the nature of slave I want is one that is submissive in and out and so far. Not a one. So when I started looking again I hope this time I will find one. I have many opportunities but no real takers. It is a wonder why with all the slaves on here.

Such a hot day ...A/C is a wonderful thing.I will have to say I would not like to deal with the heat.

Now for thoes that dont read.  I have now added my voice.  This will Make you understand how serious I am.
I need to find A captian save a DOmme To save me from all the stupid slaves and subs that think they are just the perfect slave.  I for one am not looking for perfect. I am just looking for the one slave I can mold. Not someone that comes to me with ideas already of what they wish to happen.  That defeats my purpose.
Why oh Why do I keep getting Messages from People in the UK. There is nothing I can do with you . Your a whole world away. I am not looking for Relocatees.  On and dont let me get on the One in the Us....DO you know how far you live from MIchigan.  Yes Michigan. I am only looking in Michiga.  Can people really be that fcuking* spelled wrong on purpose* Dumb.  Read it is very important that you read.
I must say it has been a very interesting month and to think it is summer....Or close to it as it is going to get right now.  I regret to say I still have not found my little pet. but considering the sad state of affairs i am not all so suprised. I consider myself patient and also very determined.  Yet I cant take all the people who for some unseen reason care to think that I want to spend all my days talking to them online or even better Having cyber sexual talk. I have better things to do.  I have many time expressed if one does not live in Michigan or the Us dont contact me....But over and over again I get the same SOBs sending me stupid one liners.  I have to think has this turned into a bar scene without the bar.  Where lame asses come to you with drink in hand and a line:
" Hey I will bend over for you as long as you fuck me hard in the ass!" 
Yeah that is a great starter converstation.  I think I will just have to make it know that you send me a message like that  your are mostly likly going to get a rude reply back.
Come on a Mistress has to have some morals and Manners.
I love to hang out but this year I have noticed that I have been spending a lot of time at home and I dont like that. I just wish things would be more exciting. I gues it is just getting really tired of the cold. Come on it is almost june and it is cold.  The season have changed and it is very sad that it has.

To day has been a very interesting one. I have had 3 women come to me and express there love of Dpen....(And I have got to admit I have never done it but I have done it to a few male/female slave/subs.)  And the all expressed how wonderful it is and as a Domme I should have had this done already....Well let me put it this way. I personally thing that if a woman is willing to be sandwiched between to people. FOr me they would have to have some damn large dicks.  And since that doesn not really be easy to find...I just deal with not knowing.  But it is funny that they think because I am Domme I should had done everything sexually known to man.  No...that rumor is never true.  Being a Domme is more then Sex...It is a Structure of Mental and Physicall pleasure. For me it is More Mental.  I take pleasure in seeing a person beg,cry,scream and moan.  I enjoy the look of fear but excitment on all who I have taken pleasure with and I enjoy the confused looks when I take them to a limit they never thought they would reach.  It is all in what you feel is good for you that make being any role in this lifestyle fun. So if your being a Domme means your have given more the you recived sexually doesnnot make you bad.  It just means you know what you like.  And for me...I am happy where I am.

Well what a wonderful Nice day I spent today.  I would have to say things have been very nice. Although the the slim pickings of the slaves have been very dissappointing but I seem to keep getting messages from Masters. I do not wish to play with your slave and play with you. Nothing personal but I would perfer to own not rent.
I look through the ads and see the same thing over and over again.  Bottom begging to be owned and Tops looking for pets.  You would think it would be so easy but it is not.  Master and slave situations now have turned into dating.  And it is so sad but it is also important.  A Pet is nothing without a Master. Someone they can trust and look up to to take care of there needs.  And a Master is looking for a pet that can take care of there needs.  But even with all this....Why do we have such problems getting matched.  Well ...it is easy to many fake people out there. To many very mentally out there people that are dangerous and have turned this lifestyle into there hunting ground.  And I am just Pissed that it has happned like this.  I cant find one Good slave out of his fear that I am money hungry abusive slut...I am abusive but Slut never. Money hungry I make my own.  But if my slave wishes to be my money whore whoes to say I will stop him/her. But you need to be with someone for a while to even consider that... YOu need to start off slow work out a relationship feel comfortable with your Master/slave for once you get into it you need to know...THis is it for you and will last.  Yet I sit here just looking at ads going what the hell.
I have wondered for a while do many of these slaves/sub know the difference of what role the want to be.  I get slaves with opinions and subs with to strong of an opinion.  It is very dissappointing when you have Domme and Masters that dont even know there own role. I cant stand it. Why are people so confused. ANd why do they all have to waste my time.

Life is so much easier when people are not there to fuck it up.

Wow its that time again where a DOmme would have her little Slave/sub ready for this time of spring cleaning.  Dressed as he should for his task at hand.  Man I need to find one slave in a hurry or my husband will be doing it alone again.
I will have to admit that I had a wonderful worry free day.  And it is my friday too....I enjoyed the wonderful spring Michigan weather.  I allowed myself the joys of nature and it was good. Better then sex....To a point.
Okay lets see... CAN ANY ONE READ ENGLISH!
If you can speak/type it you should take the time to read it... If you dont US. Or even know where Michigan is Dont contact me. Dont send me a greeting or even try to leave pics.  I will delet them. I wont even reply.  I just one thing to say. International people if I dont contact you myself Leave me Alone.  I dont know how your getting around the mail block but when I find out how your doing it know for a fact you will be blocked.

Okay let us have a little rant here...Something I know you who have been looking over my profile know I am very much a quiet person.  I would like to take the time to look over something that has been puzzling me for a minute.  Okay I am in Michigan.....Looking for Slaves/sissies in Michigan. So ..lets see why the Hell am I getting Messages from people in places that are like 4 to damn here 20 hour by plane from me.  I could have sworn I said no relocatees.  What do I have to do to get people to read like they have been educated. And the sad thing is these are adults. Many of very strict important backgrounds and yet they dont read all they do is see a pic and beg for me to strap on them.  Read just fuckn read.

Well I have noticed in the past few months that I have been recieving a lot of Messages from Dommes/and Masters...Although I have no problem talking to my Lifestyle Sisters and brothers, I just find it odd that they would approach me as if I was their Master or their slave...Does my profile say switch I think not.  I find it very disturbing to be approached as such.  I am not apposed to being a top to a top but never will I have step below that.  I cannot be a bottom I am to Much of a bitch for that.
I have once said I would not take A sissy boi for they are a lot of trouble. But I have had the pleasure ofhaving a few under my service and now I found that they are really not as bad as they used to be.  I now have a new insight on these little boi's they are so cute when they are tied and gagged and forced to feel my strap slam into their a$$.  Treated like a piece slut a$$ I was even pleasured by watching two of them cat fight for the honor of washing my panties.  I must say I think that I will consider having one a sissy boi as a pet for a LTR....Now I just have to find the right one.
I have found that I get very frustrated with the pics and the people on here. And I should not. I find that most of the people do not read or even know how to read.  They are not care what I am looking for only looking out for their selfish needs.  So I will be selfish also.  I dont have to answer every person. I will start blocking people from talking to me. And making sure that if anyone wants to be in my life. They know what the hell this lifestyle is about.
I Have had an interesting new Year...Many have applied for the job but I have been dissapointed time and time again. None stating what they really mean.  Not a LTR with a Domme but just with a woman to fill in the void in there life.  I dont need to deal with that.  IF you want a Mistress/Domme Understand that your there for her Needs not your own.  I have just very little to say.  I am just going to keep my search  narrow on what is here.  I find that men really dont read my profile and have no idea what I am looking for.
So if you ask me what I am looking for I will ignore you.  YOu should be asking me "where do I sign and when can I start. "
It has been two whole years and I havenot found a Slave that is worth my time and knows what it means to be a slave.  I think that knowing that a relationship between a Mistress and her Slave is a marriage in its own definition but not a literal Marriage and a lot of men have asked for my hand after years of service.  I want something that is deep but I am only willing to collar you and that is just as close as the marriage between man and wife it isjust witha  a different kind of minster and and the "love and obey" line will be for the Slave....So the next time you look for a Mistress ask if you really wanted to be married to the woman that is beating your ass and fucking it to every night or just be collared by the woman who will do the same. I think ownership is better...THe most a Mistress can do is leave you...Aleast you will have something for you to rebuild...Marriage the bitch gets everything.
Understand wearing pvc, and leather at ever session or meeting is for ProDommes/master...They are women/men who are paid to paint a fantasy for you of this lifestyle the way you wish to see it.  It is not the real lifestyle as a Lifestyle Domme/Master will at moments wear these items but not at every session.  So when you Come to me saying what you wish for me to wear.  I will wish for you to fuck off.....For I am not your whore to dress and tell what you want.  I am a Domme who molds you into what I want and at what time I want  you.  Learn the difference.  Understand the lifestyle not watch a moive and think the media is painting the perfect and correct view of the BDSM life. 
Now that we have the options to add someone as a friend.  I am not interested in getting tons and tons of replies from losers wishing to turn this site into another Myspace.  I will chose who is worthy of being called friend.  And it will not be someone I have not talked to or even associated with.  That is not a friend.  That is just a site pic whore.  Dont have time for that.  My pic and pictures are for thoes who will appreciate my presences. 
It a whole new year and so far nothing New...All the same shyt all the same lies all the say lines.  I am for one taking the tme to just not bother. Men and women who waste my time are just passed by.  And considering how much I have watched this lifestyle change grow and then just totally fall from grace it is not a wonder why I am bored.
Today I just got the most colorful Message that had me laughing so hard.  He tried to think that Threating me would mean something to me.  LOL....When someone knows nothing of what they speak.  I find it so very funny I had to share with friends all of them have laughed some have even went as far as to send it to others to laugh.  The internet has a lot of crazy people.  So when you look at your emal and realize you have a threat laugh at it becuase the bastards never knows that they are talking about and dont have the right sense to know that you can be traced doing anything at anytime. All it takes is a tracer...So I have the last laugh cuz I am tracking you.
I have thought about taking in a many slaves but so far I have yet to find one that is even worthy or even serious.  One of the things that find funny is so many claim to want a Mistress who will treat them like the slave that they are.  But none willing to commit even to a meeting.  Can anyone really believe that a Mistress just takes slaves without even making sure they are what they think they are.  No education people seem to make the relationship between the Mistress and slave like a relationship between a G/friend and b/friend.  It is not the same.  I find it very sad that for this many years I have been in the lifestyle this is the sadist condition it has been in years.  I have even been disappointed at the slave auctions.  Not even the slaves there give me something to be happy about.  It is all about a Mistress using all thier holes...Yeah your nothing but a void to be plugged but even then a slave has to have more. Trust honesty and most of all time and money.  Talk is cheap if you want it do it but know that your life is of your Mistress and not of your own.
I find it very funny and irritating that over and over again gentlemen from the UK and beyond continue to send me messages.  NO I will not do online Domination.  NO I will not talk to you on the phone Hell I dont even want you sending me a Message.  I am only looking for Us citizens around the Michigan and Ohio area.  Cuz rigt now I am pissed at seeing these messages over and over again.  Give it up. I am not interested. Thank you

I have had many proposals from many Uk men for slave committment through marriage.  NOT going to happen.  I am married.  My husband who is very understanding knows that I am looking for a slave and does not care if I have a collared one.  I am not looking to marry anyone else.  So if you want a wife Mistress pass on because it will not be me.  Thank you and good luck with your search.

To find my Pet............

I have looked for her/him for years since I released my last slave.  She/he is a nice caucasian woman/male of large size.  Or larger.  She/he always looks at me with big doe eyes and a smile like a lost puppy with a new master.  Always agreeing to what i say but never forgetting he/his place.  She/he always greets me when i get home waiting for the next little lesson or order for her to complete.  She/he is my slave but she/he is my girlfriend/boyfriend the slut/whore that I have always wanted to be on my side.  Someone I can fuck with my dildo any where and anytime I want.  She/he sleeps at my feet at the end of my bed like a nice little comfortable dog.  And with her/his collar I take her/him out for walks and make sure she/he is well trained in public.  She/he looks nice in her /his high heels  and tight jeans and a shirt with no bra(stuffed bra for me).  I take her/him to a bathroom and have her/him lick my boots and make her/him say how much she/he would like to lick my ass and clit.  How she/he wish I would make her /him bend over the tolite and fuck her/him with a dildo that she/he knows I have in my purse.  But I tell her/him that I will just give her/him an eneme.  And she/he excepts that.

A slave that knows my wants need and desires.  A slave that has a place in my home.  She/he is neither fat small or smart or dump she/he is only my pet and I cant wait to find her/him.  For my storage room is lonely with out her/him.  And so is my collar.  The only thing I have to give that show loyalty. 

Are you out there my pet?  Mommy misses you!

 
Oh what fun what fun.  It is that time  again for the semi annual fetish event.

HELLBOUND will be in full swing tonight at its new home in Royal oak. 

Shadow Bar 9pm untill.....
$5  single girls
$10 crossDressers
$15 Single guys
$18 Couples...
I would hope to see many of you There and if Not you will miss out on the Fun.

What the hell does anyone read now and days.  I see I am just really wasting my time.

Well I am in very bad mood.  I have recieved many replies asking for the same thing and stated the same.  It is almost like all these men just copy and paste from the same site just to leave me an opening greeting and it is not a very good greeting at that.  Which once again leaves me to wonder do I put myself out there as every other Domme.  I do think that I put my self above the rest.  I like to think that I keep myself in a different category  the the rest.  I try to understand many of the men and why they think I am just desperate.  I am not I know what I want and I am willing to do everything to find that little girl or boy that will be my loving caring joy.  Oh but so far I have yet to find him or her.  But I like to think that the slave will come to me.

Stop asking to be at my feet or even licking my toes.  That is not sexy.  It does not turn me on.  I dont even care if I am wear shoes.  YOur mouth is only good for one thing and that is licking and suck my strap, and my ass.  So feet fetish bois don't even look my way.
Oh god not again.....I know I am black...I don't need you to tell me that I know I am Superior to you becuase I am black and Female.  I don't need you to tell me that. I need you to tell me if you are really serious about looking for a Domme.  I am so pissed off with people who think that they are slaves...OR submissives.  And try to tell me how to do my damn JOB! YOu think that will have me pic you. I am looking for a SLAve not and enforcer of there Sub lifestyle.  If you are a slave. Then you are a slave.  But don't think I  don't know a Switch hitter when I see one.  I have wasted my time over and over again with theses wastes thinking that I have time to be your mommy for a few hours a day.  I am looking for something more then that I don't have time for that shit.

Yeah more wastes of times.  I have talked to a few slaves but None fit the with me.  I want a slave that I can feel comfortable with. NO a space case.  Just something that will do me some good to mold.  Someone who really wants this. Really IS THERE A REAL SERIOUS SLAVE OUT THERE NOT A SUB!

Know who you play with.  Understand that in this lifestyle you are not playing games just letting out your frustations that you can't with someone that is vanilla.  This life is spicy and hot.  But it can be fudged and hard and tasteless.  YOu should wonder what is good for you and why .  Just to look at a pic and say yes that is what, but you  should want  to research it first.  Porns just make it look pretty when really it is not.  Let reality hit you people.  Not just a picture on the wall.
I find it hard to believe that after I made it known that I wish not to have relocatees contact me...I still get email from these people.  DO YOU PEOPLE EVEN READ THE PROFILES? IS IT THAT YOU JUST LOOK AT THE PIC AND SAY i NEED HER OR HIM? Read the profile the whole freak profile even the journals you will learn something really important becuase if your going to relocatee you better have a good damn job and now life where you are now cuz No DOmme or Master is going to take someone right off the back without meeting them for a while face to face.  I don't care how much of a slave you are and trusting you are there are limits to ones safety.
Oh all the emails for me to be there Mistress but not one little slave bastard read my profile.  Why do I bother with a journal if your not going to read what really is important to know what I want what I am looking for and why I am on here.  Do not just look at my Pic you sexual perve read what I have to say for that will make it easy for you to understand what I am looking for.  And NO I am not going to do any online sessions.

~~~~~~~~ATTENTION!~~~~~~~~
1. No relocatee's

2. English U.S citizens only

3. Michigan. Ohio residents Only

I will not reply to any Messages that are not from all three of the catagories above.

As of today I have been just a wall for many losers and poser to slam against in finding a Domme and I have pride myself at making sure the they know who a Domme is from the little kiddies that want complete control upfront and money.  I am a professional who knows her position.  Do not think I am some lonely woman looking for a man.  I have one.  I don't need one. I want a slave who is from Michigan in the United states not for sessions for real time ownership.
If your not a US Citizen DO NOT CONTACT ME!
I laugh at the ones who just look at my pic and not even bother to read my profile.  WHy do I keep getting messages from people out of the state or even the country.  WHy? I don't get it! Read people. NO RELOCATESS.  I am not looking to have sessions.  I am looking for something long term.  I Want a slave in my state in my county.  NOT SHIZRA FROM FUCKING INDIA! SO UNLESS YOU ARE PLANING TO MOVE TO MICHIGAN AND LIVE DON'T SEND ME A PROFILE. Thank you.
Relocatees....they are a puzzle everyone wants to be a slave to the "Perfect Domme" Or what they see but in order to gain a relationship you have to be there for a while under her eyes or more or less close to her.  I don't like for peopel to assue I will take any ole person that crosses my path.  That is why I am searching.  I want a lave within minutes from me.  I am not to take anyone into my home right away.  I maybe a DOmme but I am a carring Domme. (sometimes lol). I perfer a slaveI can tell leave me for a night and have not to worry where they go.  THe can go home for all I care.  But it is that they can go home till I find them exceptable to live with me.  It is a wonder if they out there my little slave Pet... Are you out there my dear.  Mommy is waiting.
I love the idea that so man people try to praise me. "Your so beautiful, Your gorgeous, Your sexy."  They look at the quailty of my body but don't look in the quality of my skill or training.  And I wonder what kind of slaves/subs are out there.  I have found that through research that what is out there is just men and women looking for a kink.  Not looking for the reeducation and control of a good Mistress.  And you know what It also explains a lot for when I took a leave a absence.  The fact that my face is more important then my words is very much a disappointment to any one Mistress/Master.
Dont not think that any person is superiory to you till that person is truly your master.  They are just a person your getting to know till you except they own you then you can take the step in lowering your role as a slave /sub.  A DOmme/Master should be friendly and happy to talk to you. Your not there ownership just a person.. But once the contract is signed all that can and will change.  So don't expect me to belittle you online if I dont own you.  Your just a person to me.

Can one really understand the idea of obediance.  Complete control of you life and time.  I have been looking for it.  Control of someone completely is what I am looking for. Male or female.  Not someone part time.  Not looking to waste my time on someone not sure of the lifestyle. Not someone that has movie pvc leather dreams.  Just the true life of the bdsm lifestyle not the fantasies.

Everyone has kinky desires and fantasies but how far is it to jump from the curious to the real in order to achieve which you think is unreachable.  Just take the step don't play with the air under your feet.  Explore but explore with comfort for the  person you wish to explore.  Make sure you know what they want and what you want to get out of the fantasy turn real Don't just take anything just to have it done for you will regreat the experience that you wish to have.
Being collared is not something that happens right away.  It is something that takes years of trust and dedication(on the Mistress/Master and slaves part). One person can not expect for a Domme to just take you on your word.  It is something that I know will never happen from just talking online.  I expect mettings and also all details rules followed.  I don't want to haveto deal with posers and wastes of time.
Well I have had fun so far at a few Bdsm Parties a lot of willing subjects but not the perfect suject for me.  It filled me with glee to see so many men and woman begging to be my long time collared pet. To walk on a leash and show like prize dog.  I find it funny that these same people are the people I am not seeing on this web site.  I see here nothing but a bunch of men wanting to get there jerk on.  Not really looking for the real Mistress within.  It is sad.
Well I have had fun.  Found many little piss ants thinking that I am some Kind of Domme that is looking for a slave husband.  I laugh at them for I am Happly Married.  Yet It would be fun if the Husband was part of the lifestyle but sadly no.  So I keep looking for that one boi or girl that would like to experience a real lifestyle Domme that is not a Pvc, Leather top, money grubbing poser Domme.  It is hard to find true people in this lifestyle so I weed out the posers looking for the true gold. Lol
I know they are out there.  Just have to find one that will not waste my time. IN the lifestyle it is not the DOmme that choose the slave it is the other way around.  It is just excepting the advances.  And so far the advances have been very bad. 
Boy do I hate my job.  I got shipped out of the country and I was making great progress. NOw I have search all over again.  So I am hoping to find that one little slave boi.

Do you know the difference between sub and slave?  Do you really know what role you play in this lifestyle?  Understanding your role well, will help you in picking the right Mistress/Master for you.  Don't just pick the best picture.  Understand what they are looking for. Know that they filled out their profile in full for a the right person.  Understanding that will make you more helpful in picking the right person.  SO you know I AM LOOKING FOR A SLAVE NOT A SUB!

Well the position was filled.  Oh boy will he be filled by many of my wonderful friends.  And he will like it.  To bad when it is over I will be returning him to the wild.  I need to find a full time slave soon.
It is so said that i cant even find one well hung slave stud for service at an all woman party.  *I am still taking auditions*
As a Domme I must establish a good relationship with my slave learning its weakness,beliefs, assest and also strengths. Knowing that this is an intense emotional situation it is up to me to know where trama may develope.
 A Master?s goals for the education process are to:
foster a slave?s re-socialization
 
overcome a slave?s negative feelings in order for her to feel ?at home? in her slavery
modify a slave?s views and goals and change faulty motivations
develop a sense of being owned in the slave
develop her skills into a better contributing slave to her Master


These are things that I work with when I find a true slave. Being a slave does not mean being stupid it means understanding your place and finding" home".


ANd that is why I wish for a true slave.

What does it take to get true honest slaves.  Well for one it seems I need to fuck you little pigs.   Ha! thats never going to happen.  I am not here to find a fuck toy...I should say one where I am on the recieving end.   I personally am not looking for a limp small dick man. I would like a stud service.  Yet so far out of all the replies I have yet to find one that does not feel that this is a part-time experience. I am looking for Long-term results here.

Oh what fun the Bahamas had shown me.  The sites sounds food and most of all the swimming.  Now if only I can get the taste of salt water out of my mouth and the feeling of still being on a boat.  And no I was not on the Carnival boat. "Liberty."  I was greatful to not have gotten sick.  Hopefully next time I go I will have a nice little slave with me for the nights I don't want to do a stupid dance on the main deck. 

I want every slave that looks at this pic to read my Profile. If you fit the mold and you really want to be owned not waste your time with newb wannabe's Take a woman with 10+ years experience someone raised from a youth into the lifestyle.  I am your Mistress but don't y ou dare leave me a three word sentence expecting me to answer if you really are intrested you will send more the HI.

NO MORE ONE LINE MESSAGES! If you have nothing of quailty to say don't say anything at all. (that means don't send me a message)
I had the biggest laugh today.  I was talking to a slave for 4 days and I decied to put him through a tough online test.  One that only few have passed.  And he end up failing and then said I was annoying...I laughed becuase it was funny.  Being a slave does not make you stupid but it does not mean you know everything. DOMME's and Master all have ways to know if the Slave is going to perform or not and mostly they don't but then it is truthfully their decision on who they want as there master.  But even they choose you.  It is better to know if that slave is right for you.  Although he was right.  It is better to know up front before it is to late.
I had the biggest laugh today.  I was talking to a slave for 4 days and I decied to put him through a tough online test.  One that only few have passed.  And he end up failing and then said I was annoying...I laughed becuase it was funny.  Being a slave does not make you stupid but it does not mean you know everything. DOMME's and Master all have ways to know if the Slave is going to perform or not and mostly they don't but then it is truthfully their decision on who they want as there master.  But even they choose you.  It is better to know if that slave is right for you.
So many wannabe's It is just funny to read the mindless dribble that comes for these people.  The intelligance is that of a 5th grader. And that  surprises me that I am getting messeges from so called DOMMES and MASTERS like that.  Have I gone back in time and landed on  a playground of fools?  I Don't think I have any more emotions to be angered.  I have already stated my dissappointment at todays lifestyle I know there are many out there that agree with me. And I know there are many out there that really are proving that this lifestyle can out live most ideas.  I wonder why it is so hard to see that if your not really into the lifestyle that your really hurting it.  Grow up and get out.  If you want to play just play but don't drag someone who really lives for this 24/7 down into your games.
Nothing to say I am tired of complaining over the obvious.  I will say I am happy that the vaction time is coming....OH yah baby 1 week in the bahamas It can't get any better then HOt sun in the winter time.
Oh how the pickings have gotten slim.  To many part time Slaves/subs Not any real hart.  I am So disappointed.  But I see it this way If a real sub comes around and knows what he really needs He will come to me.
My little kiddes due to the past events in the news.  My current job has spread my happy talents to london.  On what fun I had on my off days.  To think I almost did not want to come back.  I left many men and women wanting to come home with me.  But I still want my american home grown slave. No I did not like finding out that in another country it is easier to order up what you want in a paper.  Then be at home.   But all is fun in Spankings and chains. 
I have found many things very disturbing in the past few days. Many of the things I have not only listed in my profile but even in my journal have been ignored.   IT has pissed me off.  People I will pick and choose what I want.  I will not sit and have a slave, some lonely urchin cry and tell me I  need him.  I don't need anyone.  If I want something I go and get it. And right now my search is Slaves.  SOmething in a white caucasian female would be nice,
*READ THE DAMN JOURNAL AND PROFILE* How could you even approach me and say you know what I am going through and you still do what I ask you not to do.  NO I am not taking anyone that has to relocate. If you can't be my slut or cum slut or a piece of clay that I can mold to my liking don't bother me.  I am not here for money I am not here for compionship.  I not a lonely housewife or poor lonely soul.  I am a pissed off Mistress that is tired of reading lame waste of time emails with on content.  I want a true submissive.
Yes everyone wants to serve yes everyone is new to this.  I am tried of hearing the same old SH$T. I am not looking for you to try to lure me with words I want action.  If you cant give that to me then pass on. I MEAN IT! LEAVE THE FCUK ALONE IF YOU CAN'T DO WHAT I ASK! http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0284.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
(Tick Tock) Over and over again that is the sound I hear listening to men and woman say they want a Goddess to serve.  I don't hear there words becuase it is all just white noise.  They repeat the same thing over and over again that the person before them states.  Nothing new, nothing worth hearing.  LIttle content.  Just words to get the foot in the door but nothing else.  I still feel this whole lifestyle would be better if there was a stamp over a persons head expressing what they really know about the lifestyle.
Well as I have been away for some time. About 2 weeks. I have met some sorry excuses of slaves.  One that did not even know anything about the lifestyle just wanted to fuck.  People I am not a lonely housewife looking for a companion.  I have that! I am not even a housewife! I am an experienced Domme.  And yet I have not found my slave.  I will not give up but I will not give in to anything.  And will not except anything less then what I want.

My touch is sexual but my words hurt like a mac truck at 45. My skin feels like dow feathers.  My hands leave you red.  Don't bring me to expectations if you don't want to deal with a True Woman.

Just a bitch boi that is not a reloatee. How hard is that to find.  I know you see my pic and think I will take you even though your a sub.  NO! like anything you have to be what I want.  I if I entertain the though to talk to you in anyway you damn well better be honored.  I don't waste my time.  Real time.  I don't like online adventrues.   I just want people to understand this is my dream.  Not yours.  If your submissive be that....NOT A WASTE OF MY TIME!

Little by little I see the weak men who really need control but then I see the mistakes the fakes and losers just wanting to jerk off.  I don't go looking for a quick fix I am real time long term.  I even read the profiles of some of the dominate females here and I laugh for some are only looking to get paid. It is said no one has the time for this lifestyle anymore.

  I want a bitch boi with no resitance to my demands. Completely under my control.  With big puppy dog eyes.  Who knows my only requests are to please me.  Nothing illegal nothing dangersous.  But what I get are men who try to make demands on my methods that have not faulted me  with all my other Slaves.  Turst...people come on you have to see it for what it is.  IF you can not understand the lifestly don't try to join it.  I am tried of explaining this.
How can this be...people with no real concept of what it means to be submissive.  It is not a role that you play it is what you are inside.  I am looking for somones innerside to shine and and come get me.
I guess I will Have to give up on my search. i have seen nothing by waste of time men only into roleplaying And I am not into playing a role. I am looking for someone into a life change. Not making demands on me.  I seen through many false clams and have given them the foot.  And now I have seen the ones looking at this as a last attempt to get laid. All I asked was for a sub to mold and shape in my vision. All I have got was rocks of crap.  You can shape that if you tried.
I am not looking for someone who thinks that right out of the blue I am going to collar them or take ownership of them.  YOu have to show your submissivness to me.  Gain my trust and love.  Devote yourself to the honor of my training and skills.  Leave a little message will not get my attention.  Telling me what you have to offer is something that will get my attention.  I am looking but that does not mean I am Desperate for your attention.  I can wait.  Cuz this is nothing but the waiting game.
To me a pleasure slave would be nice if they where in shape. But if I was to take a pleasure slave it would be a female.  I would teach her the poses of a slave.  Her role chores and life would be a lesson everyday.  She would be dressed to looking royal but she would know what it means to be a true submissive.
I have been looking for a suitable Little sub and so far I have found nothing buy excuses and waste of times.  nothing has been worth even a facial contact.  I am begining to realize that my lifestyle is just not what it used to be.  To many slave with demands.  I don't do Demands.  To many men thinking they will get sex.  THis is a Lifestyle people.  I may be a pro Domme but I am looking for something long term.  I want my pet.  I want a pain slut ,money slut or just plan slut would be nice. 

Location Location Location.  If your not from Michigan why bother me.  IF your not from the United states Why even contact me.  I am in a lifestyle that requires change.  For a submissive you have to understand the in order to in which you lay your role.  YOu also need to understrand stating your going to relocate needs to be more then words.  Long distance only works for moneySluts.  And if you want to be a money slut find but don't ask for anything else from me.

I would like to say that I have giving up hope.  I don't know what is most  disturbing the fact that poeple play games and think this is a roleplaying situation or that I am strict and hard right from the start.  I am not the one flow by night whores that think if you just hit a guy a few times she is Dom.  Oh now their is more to it then physical pain there is mental pain.  It is sad that so many people have take a lifestyle that was so giving and just destroyed it.
When your a sub do you really know what a Mistress is.  I am not here to have sex with you.  I am not even looking at you in a sexual way.  I am only looking at you to handle and take care of my needs and pamper me.  I am not a commercial pin-up I am the real thing.  And I take things seriously.  I am not here to handle your role-playing fantasy.  I am THE TRUE MISTRESS!
If you want to be a pay slut there is nothing wrong with that.  If you want a session you will be a pay slut which is still nothing wrong with that.  But if your a pain slut trying to be a pay slut there is something wrong with that.  I am not cutting off any part of anyones body for money that is just a limit that any Master and Mistress should never cross.
If your looking for partime servitude that is not going to happen her. If you can not submit compleletly find somone into the partime once in a while sessions.  I don't have the time for it.  I am looking for a slave that can do what is needed when I want it.  Not when his schedule states.  I seem to have wasted my time on the males here.  There has yet to be one serious person here.  Role play with the posers and the wannabees.  I am not it. I have expectations and if it can't be followed why should you even look my way.
I have been more pissed then anything I have ever been.  How can slave look upon a Mistress tell her a bunch of slave language crap then when the time comes as if we can be friends.  Listen and listen good .  THis is not a Catch and release program for Mistresses. I will not be treated like a used car. I am not here to be trade for what you think is a better Brand. I will tell you know if your not committed don't waste my time!
Slave and former slaves...You will have to understand that if you have not been released by your previous Mistress/Master being under service of someone else is bad protocol. Which means Punishiment and double that time.  Oh do you know how pissed off that makes a Owner.  Trust me I am not to pleasant with that.
NO...Let me repeat NO! I am not going to answer any ad's out of the country.  I am not doing anything long distance like that.  Come on I see that as a complete waste of my time.  At least with someone domestic I can get them to travel more to me then someone across the country. Yes I know you can be all the sub I every want everyone says that.  Trust me everyone says that. Oh since I have been looking for a new pet I have been getting the same line over and over again.  People think of something new. Be orignal.  I have not seen anyone unique to even consider takeing as my pet.  Such a shame how this lifestyle has sunk so low.

No more, I am not taking any more Relocatees.  They are like refugees looking to crash. I am not doing this.  If you don't have a plan for relocating I will give you one.  And trust me.  I till not be nice.

Ladies and Gentlemen.  I am so tired of excuses.  Either you want to meet a real Domme or you want to run around in circles with posers.  You aske me to many questions, demanding to many things.  You have to right to demand of me.  You are only to sit at my feet and to everything I tell you.  And you better damn well do it.

Okay now that it is a new day.  I have answered in total 103 messages. Most onliners.  Oh and I hate that.  Words like "loyal and obediante will not get me to even look your way. " I am not looking to roleplay someones fantasy.  I am not looking to be your gf.  I am looking for you to be the dirt under my shoes.  The lowest of creatures on this planet.  And many subs dont seem to understand that.  Oh I do find out by using choice words and also situations to see if you will give yourself away.  Yes I know your mind and I know what your thinking before you even do it. I am not here to play games.  But I will let you know right off  I don't need you to fcuk with me.
52 Messages 52 I know I am not the only Mistress on here.  It must be that I am new...Well Heres is my over all Demand.  If you dont know what the hell it means to be a Slave don't send me a message.  If you want and know what it means.  One sentence is not going to do it.  You have to Sell yourself advertise to get my attention.   If you send me one sentence and just begging i am going to delet you .
People Listen to me and listen good.  Relocation is only good if you have established communication with a Mistress for more the two minutes.  I am very much looking for a pet but at this time relocation is not an option unless we have been in communication for more then 5 months.  I understand the need for a good Misress for I have a need for a good pet.  But I be damned if your going to move into my house or near me I have not assesed you for more then 5 months.  I have test to make sure your the right little pet for me.  And trust me a dedicated slave would pass. I have had relocatees, and it has worked out well But if I don't know you and have not gotten to know you your promises are empty to me. 

I know slaves need to someone to think for them so let this be the first lesson from me.  Now Understand you can still beg for my attention and you might be the lucky one I pic.

I find it very funny how BDSM lifestyle has changed for the worse.  It used to be something powerful and stronge.  Now it is like a submissive in a corner beging to hump my leg.  I am also very disappointed by so many posers claming to be Domme or submissive it get so you can't tell the True believers.  It saddens my heart that I can't even find a real true slave/submissive.  I was gone for only 3 years and come back to see this.  It is like I left my country to come back to find it destroyed.  I am just hurt.