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I have not been around here much. I get virtually no responses. I guess I live in a part of the country where everyone believes in chicken fried food, loves the missionary position. and prays to Jesus. A lot of people tip the scales at well over 200 pounds too. I dont mind a woman who has a little extra. I try to eat moderate and walk a lot for exercise.

No matter what orientation a woman has, it is the freaks I get along with the best. So if you are unisexual, asexual, bisexual, polysexual, WhoTheFuckKnowsSexual, we are probably compatible.

Message me if anything here piques your interest.


NO PICTURE? Will provide upon request. I am decent looking, but not a raw Hollywood hunk. I dont want my photo hanging around in cyber-kink space.Thereis anunreal,vast sea of women who are seriouslyin poor physical conditioning, andseriously overweight.I insist thata woman needsto be reasonably fit. Am I asking too much? If so why?Do you just want to fantasize,get wet and masturbate? (Not that there is anything wrong with masturbation.) Or do you wanta real non-vanilla relationship? Take your fingers from ummm...there...tohere on the keyboard, and tellme about yourself!



Having said the above, I am firmof opinion that orgasm is like food for the soul of a submissive woman. Sexual pleasurefuelssubmissive desires, making a submissive womaneven more so. To starve asubmissive woman of orgasm is to deprive her.By the way, I am into a good intimate friendship. Marriage and a full time lover is probably neither feasible nor desirable. But a quick fuck is not what I want either.Tell me what you like, what you dont like, etc. A Dom needs to know where the lady is coming from. The more heknows and understands, the better!Looking for long term relationship. Ineither smoke, nor do drugs. I am single.I ameducated, professionally employed and I am a decent guy. I am not mean.



I would consider a woman who is not ready for more than a part-time or casual friendship. I am single, but you do not have to be single so long as you can convince me that your relationship will not result in some kind of turmoil.I seek a sweet, caring woman who knows that she is very much a pleaser. She is submissive because that is how she was born. Sheis a woman whose gift includesat least somemasochistic qualities. I am intrigued by the netherworld ofpleasure as pain and pain aspleasure. ...And we all know that the greatest concentration of a womans pain-receptive nerve endings is between her thighs. . . .

I am not intoextreme pain and punishment sessions, or other activities that are dangerous or unhealthy. Butexploring that line between pain and pleasureisvery much a part of our wonderful world of bdsm. Also, it is fascinating to explorethose mixeddreaddesire fantasies, and that is something that will be fun to talk about---and to act on!!! Iseek a relationship that grows. Extensive experience is nice, but not required.The curious feel free to send me a note. By the way, I enjoy a quiet woman. Shy is great, butnot required. May you figure out what you are looking for, and thenfind it !!!I will provide a photo upon request.

Let's make 2012 a great year!

If you have a submissive bent, why not check me out? I like the idea of pushing little by little so that you and I get to explore your deep down feelings. Are you interested in being a nice slut? Just to please your Daddy? AND to explore a longstanding fantasy?

Well, it is after Christmas isn't it? 
Hmm, are there any nice subs who got left behind in 2005---but want to match up in 2006?
Hmmmm?
A little of the lustre was taken out of this lifestyle, by a couple of passive-aggressive sometime-subs that I have met online in here. I view a relationship as a romantic thing; not sure there are many in CollarCom who share this notion.
I LOVE it if you got a sense of humor :). I HATE it if you don't! 

Hmmm. Is there an epidemic of women who think they are submissive, but who are really bipolar!?

I have made a discovery! There are definitely women in this lifestyle who are psycho and who are flaky. Lest there be any doubt, flaky and psycho are not sexy!
Today I saw a submissive's profile. I liked what it said: "I do not believe submission is a gift. I believe it is a personality trait.  I am inherently submissive because it's who I am. I know that isn't how it works for everything, but that's how it happened with me. It is as inherent as my love of books, my heterosexuality and my blue eyes."
I guess I prefer the quiet type of woman---and of course the type who just loves to please.  
Have you noticed that those who call themselves "switches" and "slaves" are almost always spoken for? I am not looking for a woman who already has a partner.