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First things first... As of 1302010 I am owned and collared by My Lady, Miss Jae.

While I loathe labels, Im essentially a dominant masochist. But I must admit, I am submissive(ish lol) to only one.

Ive got a wicked sense of humor. I love to laugh and make others laugh. Im a big goof. But I know when to be serious... if I somehow forget, My Lady has no problem reminding me.

When I look at myself, I see Baloo from the original Jungle Book movie. (Voiced most expertly by the late, great Phil Harris). Baloo is me in a nutshell, he feels the music in his veins, hes funny, fierce, protective, caring, rough, and tough. While his demeanor is that of playful, fun, and easy going - he takes no shit. I am also all of those things and more.

Bagheera: This will take brains, not brawn.
Baloo: You better believe it, and Im loaded with both.

All that said, totally down for making new friends in the area as we are active within the Tampa Bay scene.
Originally, as announced at the July TNG Munch, Blasphemer and Zenyth were supposed to be presenting on Impact Play.  However, due to a scheduling conflict they are unable to present for the August Munch.  In lieu of the Impact Demo, we present to you...

Needles 101: I've got a box of needles, now what do I do?!? with MissDawn




"We must all go through a rite of passage, and it must be physical, it must be painful, and it must leave a mark." ~Captain Howdy – Strangeland

My favorite quote from Captain Howdy. While he was a psychopath who did not believe in the other person’s consent being given or even needed, the above quote speaks volumes to me. For me, needles have been my rite of passage. It most definitely is physical. The physical touch of the Top on the bottoms skin before the needle pierces the skin. Pain, oh sweet enduring pain. Pain, of course, is a relative term and we all feel and process that feeling differently. Some laugh, some cry, some do a dance with their feet (that would be me by the way). Lastly but definitely not least, marks. Mmmmmm. Marks. It can be as simple as small little dots on your skin to bruising to designs left by the needles. Again, as with pain, marks are as different as you and I.

So come join us as I present Needle Play 101 or I have a box of needles, now what do I do?

We will be covering the following:

  • Safety
  • Bloodborne pathogens
  • Needle basics
  •  What should be found in your needle kit

Do you want to experience a needle piercing your flesh?

Do you want to experience piercing someone?

This is the time to do it!

Participation is not required but I would like for people to partner up so we can do more of a hands on demonstration!



About Our Presenter




Miss Dawn has been active in the Florida community since 2006. After moving to Tampa in 2004 from the Florida Panhandle, she ventured out to her first Munch in 2006 after receiving an email on CollarMe from Sandy (MichellesAlpha) who helped run the West Pasco County Munch with Master Michelle. After attending that first munch, she's never looked back. She has been active within many groups in the Tampa and Jacksonville areas. Miss Dawn calls Fetish Circuit in Tampa her fetish home and family with extremely close ties to The Woodshed in Orlando. Miss Dawn is also active with community outreach concerning HIV/AIDS, Blood borne Pathogens, LGBT rights, and foster/medical foster children.

Miss Dawn first experienced needle play at Bash 2007 from Sir Talon (Thank you!) and instantly fell in love with the release and the purging that came with the pain. Being poked soon turned to poking others and she learned as much as she could from Sir Talon. Miss Dawn enjoys various aspects of needle play. From the artistic designs to the twisting, pulling, and smacking sadistic side.

Education is a very important part of Miss Dawn’s life. She has presented different variations of her Needle Demo to the Jacksonville TNG, A.L.E. Munch in St Augustine, Jacksonville Kinksters, The TNG Take Over One and Three at The Woodshed, and at The Florida Bash 2011, 2012, 2013.



Please remember - NO OUTSIDE DRINKS. By bringing in outside drinks, you're jeopardizing their liquor license.  The Boot Rack opens their doors to our group free of charge. Please support them by purchasing at least one drink and tipping Louie the amazing bartender.


Ages 18-40 ONLY



When:

Saturday, August 23rd
12pm - 3pm

Where:

The Bootrack
4751 Lenox Avenue
Jacksonville, FL 32205

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Please RSVP HERE - https://.com/events/272913

We are extending this event to the entire BDSM community in Jacksonville. It doesn't matter how old you are or what groups you're a part of; Please come out and educate yourselves on this very important topic.

The JacksonvilleTNG presents to you a very important presentation on a very important topic. This month, we are honored to have Rod from the Florida Department of Health with us. He will be presenting on HIV, AIDS, STDs and STIs.

He will also be performing FREE HIV RAPID TESTS for those that are interested in knowing their status.

For those that are unaware:

As of 2011 Jacksonville was 5th in the nation for HIV/AIDS infections and 1st in the state of Florida according to CDC statistics from 2008. According to the Florida Department of Health, Jacksonville is now number 3 in the US.

For more information, please see the article from CNN.com about Jacksonville's HIV epidemic. As HIV epidemic grows, Florida city grapples with fear and denial. http://www.cnn.com/2011/11/29/health/jacksonville-hiv-florida/index.html

This is a very important topic and I urge as many of you as possible to come out and attend this month's munch. Knowledge is power. Educate yourself and know your

status.

 

 


Please remember - No outside drinks. The Boot Rack opens their doors to our group free of charge. Please support them by purchasing at least one drink and tipping Louie the amazing bartender.



When:

Saturday, April 26th
12pm - 3pm

Where:

The Bootrack
4751 Lenox Avenue
Jacksonville, FL 32205

Please be sure to RSVP Here - https://.com/events/244349

 

About our presentation




Fiona and Shrek: How a pint sized "princess" takes down an Ogre! with MissDawn & forg0ttenclone
 
We've all seen the movie. The scene where Fiona and Shrek are walking through the forest. Fiona pushes Shrek and he barely moves. Shrek pushes Fiona back and sends her flying into the bushes.
 
This is the story of my life with forg0ttenclone, my own personal ogre.
 
So how do I, a dominant of short stature with small T-rex arms, top forg0ttenclone, a bottom the size of an ogre?
 
This class will give Dominants/Tops who are shorter and/or smaller ideas on how to top our counterparts who may be taller and/or larger than we are. From positioning to toys to the mental side of things.





Please remember - NO OUTSIDE DRINKS. By bringing in outside drinks, you're jeopardizing their liquor license.  The Boot Rack opens their doors to our group free of charge. Please support them by purchasing at least one drink and tipping Louie the amazing bartender.



Ages 18-40 ONLY




When:

Saturday, February 22nd
12pm - 3pm

Where:


The Bootrack
4751 Lenox Avenue
Jacksonville, FL 32205

Please RSVP Here - https://.com/events/228631

This year, we're lucky enough to have 5 Saturdays in November.  This allowed for us to have a munch when we, in the past, have skipped November due to Thanksgiving. It's been a few years since this presentation has been presented for the TNG.  I hope you all will come out and join us.  It's sure to be enlightening as well entertaining.

~clone




About Our Presenters

Blasphemer and zenyth live in Jacksonville, FL and have been pursuing a D/s path together for over four years. We have been honored to present a variety of demonstrations in Jacksonville and Orlando, including heavy impact play, knife play, and interrogation/torture. We’re thrilled to teach and share with the JacksonvilleTNG. We look forward to seeing everyone there!


Knife play




  • What kind of knives they play with
  • Sharp vs. dull
  • Techniques
  • How to avoid accidental cuts/wounds
  • What happens if you do.


For people who are blood squeamish, although they do not anticipate deliberately spilling zenyth’s blood (for this class anyway), there is a likely possibility she could be nicked and scratched to the point of slight bleeding.

The knife play portion of this class will be followed by a section of class designed to be interactive so bring a knife and a friend.



Please remember - NO OUTSIDE DRINKS. By bringing in outside drinks, you're jeopardizing their liquor license.  The Boot Rack opens their doors to our group free of charge. Please support them by purchasing at least one drink and tipping Louie the amazing bartender.



Ages 18-40 ONLY



When:

Saturday, November 23rd
12pm - 3pm

Where:

The Bootrack
4751 Lenox Avenue
Jacksonville, FL 32205

WARNING! WARNING!

~Incoming Muse transmission!

Good day Jacksonville TNG - it's time again for your friendly neighborhood Muse to darken the door of the Boot Rack. This time however, I am bringing one of my darkest talents with me. That's right! I am going to start a fire! <insert maniacal laughter here> No, seriously! I am! ...quit laughing!

Alright now that the Starcraft reference has faded from my brain, please allow me to cordially invite you all to my next TNG presentation; "Becoming Prometheus--The art and practice of fire" I look forward to seeing you all soon. I will also be taking volunteers once the demo is over to experience a minor bit of the wide world of fire play should they wish. See you there!

"This has been a Muse approved message. "Hi! I'm Muse and I approve this message."

-Muse




Please remember - NO OUTSIDE DRINKS. By bringing in outside drinks, you're jeopardizing their liquor license.  The Boot Rack opens their doors to our group free of charge. Please support them by purchasing at least one drink and tipping Louie the amazing bartender.



Ages 18-40 ONLY



When:

Saturday, October 26th
12pm - 3pm

Where:

The Bootrack
4751 Lenox Avenue
Jacksonville, FL 32205

It's that time again folks... Time for our September TNG Munch!

Ask and you shall receive, it was requested that we have an old school style munch - no demo, no presentation. Just a group of like minded kinksters getting together at a private bar.

For those that have never been to a munch, this would be the perfect munch to come out to. I urge everyone to come on out and hang out with our motley crew. It's the perfect time to get to know each other. We have a great venue and an amazing bartender.

Please remember - NO OUTSIDE DRINKS. By bringing in outside drinks, you're jeopardizing their liquor license. The Boot Rack opens their doors to our group free of charge. Please support them by purchasing at least one drink and tipping Louie the amazing bartender.

Ages 18-40 ONLY



For more information, contact me privately.

JacksonvilleTNG's May Munch featuring Muuse!


"Is Muse gon' have ta slap somebody!"


Ages 18-40 only.

 

We have all had that one scene or, at the least, that one person, that just pushes your buttons the right way.  The kind of person that you love to do all kinds of nasty depraved things to.  Lets say youre working said person over and all you get is "is your arm broken? Are you asleep? Did someone open a window, i feel a draft?  I should have asked Labyrinth to play instead.  Or my personal favorite; who are you and could you call muse back.  Some people would continue on harder.....i am not one of those people.  I am a firm believer that when my tools arent doing the job, then its time to use the hands!  The human  body is a wonderful mechanism and, just like all machines, has shortcuts and weak spots.  Through body manipulation and pressure points you can explore brand new worlds of pain.  This month I have the glorious privilege of seeing one of my favorite crowds; Jax TNG.  i will be presenting "play using body manipulation, impact, and pressure points.  More commonly known as "Is muse gon' have ta slap somebody? ??  Come on out and see, i promise to be horrifying, slightly charming, and as always; unhinged.

Please RSVP Here: https://.com/events/106841/v2

When:

Saturday, May 26th
1pm - 4pm

Where:

The Boot Rack
4751 Lenox Avenue
Jacksonville, FL 32205

This month we are honored to have Master Cecil from The Orlando Woodshed in town. He has a new presentation up his sleeve that he wants to share with us.

The Big IT

Have you ever looked at someone, vanilla or kinky, and said “They just don’t get IT”?

Have you ever looked at a scene going on and said “Wow now that’s what I’m talking about, They get IT”?

Do people look at you and say “yea you get IT”?

It is my opinion that in our D/s lifestyle we have a potential for a LOT more IT than the nillas. Our relationships are far deeper than nilla relationships because of… IT.

So what is this IT that you speak of? How do I obtain “IT”? What books do I study? What classes do I attend? How do you satiate what is now your burning need for… IT?

Have you ever watched a Dom and Sub that “Get it” interact? Have you noticed that it is a choreographed ballet that is set to music that is only in their heads and unique to them? THEY GET IT!

I could go on for hours teasing you and giving you examples but I’m really not that sadistic… Hehehe.


About Master Cecil

Master Cecil has been involved in the lifestyle for about 30 years, when at 18 years old he was picked up by a submissive and shown that a flogger, properly applied, is a good thing. He is now living his dream as the lucky owner and lead volunteer of The Woodshed in Orlando for the past 3 years.

Since December of 2006 he has been joined on his life path by his wonderful submissive, helpmate, and the real brains of the operation, his lovely Darcy, who has supported him and has made his dreams her own for the betterment of the community at large, and particularly the I-4 corridor.

Master Cecil became part of the public community when he attended the 2nd ever Orlando munch in the mid 90s.

For several years, he owned a company called Dungeon Designs Inc. and ran the circuit of Leather conventions throughout the Southeast United States as a vendor and sometime speaker, vending and having fun throughout the year.

The Woodshed is a dream that originated in the mid 90s after his first public play party that was held in a townhouse of about 800 square feet with at least 40 people packed into it. It was easy for him to ascertain that Orlando was in dire need of a safe place to play. His dedication to SM education was the other driving force in his desire to open an SM community center providing the community with a safe place to learn. Thus the dream of The Woodshed gelled in his mind and was refined by conversations with many people over the years and finally became a reality in January of 2008.

He has presented on the local and regional level and is now serving the Central Florida community as the owner of The Woodshed. He also works to make himself available to smaller groups, munches and TNG gatherings throughout Central Florida.

 When:

Saturday, August 27th
2pm - 4pm

Where:

The Metro (Boiler Room)
2929 Plum Street
Jacksonville, Fl 32205

 


For July's TNG Munch, we are honored to have Caro sharing her vast knowledge with us on the subject of Respect, Honor, Integrity, and Ethics - What's It Really All About?  I urge everyone to come out and participate in this important discussion/presentation.  In our kink and vanilla lives alike, these characteristics are vital.

This presentation/discussion examines personal and community (group) ethics (or lack thereof) that can be brought to bear in play, in relationships, or in a "community." On a personal level, consider this: Are coercion, humiliation, induction of guilt, threats of withholding affection/attention, physical punishment, reenactment of trauma, isolation, denial of food and or sleep brainwashing or training techniques -- or both? Is it "training," brainwashing, Stockholm syndrome, or any/all of the above? As a member of a group or community, what standards do you have? Expect? Enforce? Using this and other subjects in a dialogue/discussion forum, this presentation will examine and discuss the various choices that can be made.

A bit of information about Caro

With more than three decades of bi-coastal participation in Leather & BDSM/ communities,  Caro has been a titleholder, international presenter, contest judge, emcee, wrangler, coach, and keynote speaker. She is the recipient of a Pantheon of Leather award in 2007, and the Lifetime Achievement Award from the National Leather Association in 2009.

Caro began teaching classes in San Francisco in 1989 and since that time she has been a repeat presenter at various events in both the United States and Canada including: Beyond Leather, Beyond Vanilla, CLAW, DSF, Floating World, GLLA, IMsL, KCLU, Heart of America, LLC, Ottawa Leather Pride, Mr. Leather Toronto, smOdyssey, Spring Iniquity, TES, Tribal Fire, Twisted in Tulsa, and Winter Solstice, as well as for smaller groups such as House of Differences, Sanctuary of the Dark Angel, and WOLF. In addition, she has done lecturing for undergraduate and post-graduate level classes in creativity and sexuality at University of Pennsylvania, Widener University, and UCSF.

An international titleholder (Ms. Olympus 2005), she has judged local, and regional titles in the US and Canada, and international titles in the US including:  Mr. Leather XXX and International Mr./Ms. Olympus. Other contests she has judged include: South Central Leather Woman, Florida Leather Sir/boy&Boot Black, Mid-Atlantic Leather Sir/boy&Boot Black, aMid-Atlantic Leatherwoman, Mr./Ms. Beyond Leather, Florida Olympus, Great Lakes Olympus. and Great Plains Olympus. She has also judged  Ottawa Olympus and Mr. Leather Ottawa 2007.  Caro has judged the North American Pony/Trainer, which, in addition to judging the International Pony/Trainer, makes her the only person to have judged two national/international pony contests.

Caro’s served on the Executive Board of the National Leather Association and chaired the Education Committee. She is the co-founder of Women in Leather International, (her membership card is #2), Audeamus, and she is exceedingly proud to have been responsible for conceiving and participating in some of the first “Elder’s/Leather History Panels” (affectionately known as the “fossil hour”) at various events such as Spring Iniquity, Beyond Leather, and WILF. She is the co-founder of Women In Leather International, and currently serving as an adviser to the Transcending Leather Corps.

Caro is a proud member of Mama’s Family, (Mama’s Tyrannosaurus Regina) and since moving to Florida, has recently been dubbed, “God’s Older Sister."


When

Saturday, July 23, 2011
2pm-4pm

Where

The Metro (Boiler Room)
2929 Plum Street
Jacksonville, Fl 32205

Please make sure to RSVP @ http://.com/events/60820]

I am one of the group leaders for the JacksonvilleTNG. The Jacksonville TNG is a non-affiliated BDSM Social Group located in Jacksonville, Florida.

TNG stands for "The Next Generation." Ages 18-40 only.

We do many non-BDSM related activities as well as host BDSM events. We are a pansexual social group for singles, couples, subs, slaves and Dom/mes under the age of 40. We welcome anyone interested in kink or the lifestyle regardless of experience level. Activity participation, interactions and open discussions are always encouraged.

We are here to have fun, educate, learn, meet others, and socialize.

Feel free to message me for details.
There is a hunger within me.  One that has drowned out many other parts of myself.  It's a hunger for things beyond my control.  One that cannot be fed by me alone.  It is an insatiable beast; one that controls my very inner being.  With the more that i feed this hunger, the more i awaken parts of me within that have long been dormant. 

As these portions of myself re-awaken and become aware of their new existence, i am left fighting with these new desires.  How do i incorporate these new entities within me, into the already preexisting symbiotic relationships?  How do i wrap my head, and more importantly, my thought processes around them?

The journey that i am on, began with taking the first steps - all of which i have done.  I've given in to internal desires, lusts, and hungers.  I now bear witness to their strength and power.  As i give in to them... not only do i bear witness, i feel the power and strength within myself.  While at the same time, it is foreign to me.   The other parts of me cry out that it is not strength or power but weakness.

Thus the internal struggles are born.
How do i start this off?  Hrmm... That's tricky.  Well, i attended the woodshed for only the second time.  Generally i live by the phrase of "You only get one chance to make a first impression." While that phrase holds true with many facets of my life, i withheld judgment after my first visit.  the first time i went, i was none too impressed over all.  But, i was in a different mind set going in.

My first visit there, i accompanied my friend there.  It was pretty packed to say the least.  My second time, i went alone, but i was meeting a Domme there.  I was beyond nervous on both trips.  My first trip didnt turn out near as well as i'd have liked.  It was partly my fault when it came down to the scene... or quarter of a scene.  It was my first time attempting to play in public.  Unfortunately, neither of us could get into the right headspace.  But, it happens.

My second trip was simply awesome.  Most of the night,  i people watched.  I'm a people watcher.  That and i'm pretty shy.  So i wanted to wait it out and let people clear before playing, after all... it will be my second attempt at scening in public.  So needless to say, i was super nervous.  However, the Domme i was meeting helped to put me at ease.  Part of me was scared that i would not be able to walk the walk since i had already talked the talk, prior to meeting her in person.  (I know, i know.  I broke a cardinal rule.  I played the first time i met someone.  But the chemistry was there and i couldnt wait to play with her).

All in all, we probably played for two hours.  Id never really played for too much more than an hour any other time ive ever scened.  The first hour and 15 min was spent goofing off while restrained in suspension cuffs to a whipping post.  I was laughing, giggling, singing along to music, and having a ball.  Then it happened.  -Zonk-  I was off floating.  I didnt understand it.  My mind was going nuts trying to understand just what was going on and what i was feeling.  This was new to me.  No longer was i responding to the Evil Cane or paddles against my backside.  No, no.  I was gone.

Now  i've never experienced subspace in the 3-4 years i've been in the lifestyle.  I've played with almost a handful of Dommes prior to last night.  but, i'd never reached that point.  So i always thought of subspace is this mythological place that i  was not capable of reaching.  I've always been the cynical type anyways.  So suddenly last night, here i was in this strange headspace for lack of a better term.  I can't really describe it, but it was amazing.

Just wow.  that is all i can say.  Well, naturally other than a hundred thank you's to her... I'm really at a loss for words.  I had an absolutely amazing time that was unlike any other.  There was a quote i once read "Subspace is my perfect paradise vacation from busy-mind... blessed is the Dominant who can stamp my ticket there."  All i can say is Amen.

The Jacksonville TNG is a non-affiliated BDSM Social Group located throughout Jacksonville, Florida.

We do many non-BDSM related activities as well as host BDSM parties. We are a social group for singles, couples, subs, slaves and Dom/mes under the age of 40. We welcome anyone interested in the lifestyle regardless of experience level. Activity participation, interactions and open discussions are encouraged.

Our goal is clear. We are here to have fun, educate, learn, meet others and socialize.

More information can be found at http://www.jacksonvilletng.com

 

Since i've had a chance to start playing again, i've been finding myself feigning and craving that next chance to be on the receiving end of whatever instrument She chooses.  It's becoming more and more like a drug to me.  It's almost like a crackhead needing that next hit or that next high. -laughs-

As time goes by it transforms from being something of a want to being a dire need.

Pain is now my drug of choice.  

There's nothing like waking up the morning after a good beating, it's like a hangover that covers the entire body.  Looking into the mirror you're able admire each beautiful knot, mark, bruise, or welt.  Running your fingertips over them and savoring the feeling as you wince from the soreness.  Ah! Pure Beauty!
Ladies and Gentlemen, it's that time again. Here comes another rant from yours truly!

What is with people and the misspelling of "boy?"  Do Dom/mes think that because they spell it as "boi" it is somehow demeaning to male submissives/slaves?  Does it somehow make Dom/mes feel more superior?  I mean seriously. 

Now then, if you want to feel superior or be more respected; Use proper grammar, spelling, and punctuation.  Sure, you may be able to impress the fakes, flakes, and trolls by calling them boi, worm, or whatever wanna-be derogatory term you can come up with.  But anyone with any sense would laugh at you.

Just for future reference...  It is spelled "boy" B-O-Y.

This spelling lesson brought to you in part by forg0ttenclone and viewers like you.  We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming already in progress.
For the first time in a long time, i played as a bottom to a Domme.  While i've played with a handful of Dommes in the past, the experience was different with each one.  This experience is no different and certainly stands on its own.  While it was the first of what i hope are many more experiences with Her.  I had a blast.  I don't think i've ever laughed so much while being beaten, ever.  That in itself is part of what makes it stand out.  Prior to, any other time i've ever "scened" it was always so serious.  For once i was able to laugh, giggle, joke, and just generally have a -great- time.

Part of it seems like a blur.  Time just flew past so quickly.  It was like wow, it's over already?  As they say, time flies when you're having fun.  While i am not one to "kiss & tell" as the cliche goes.  However, hearing her girl-ish giggle from behind when using certain implements was quite a different experience.  At the same time hearing and feeling the music running through my veins mixed with the endorphins being released... Ah! the rush! It gives me chills!

With that, i offer Her a very big thank you. I had more fun than i ever imagined. =D
How do you deal when you wake up and everything within you is calling for something you cannot get?  When your inner being awakens and calls, feigning out for food.  My monster inside, what i call my own personal Hulk, there are times it awakens.  When it does, it rattles the cage of my outer being.  It calls, growls, and it yearns to feel the cleansing of pain.  You feel it, you try to ignore it, but it affects every part of your being.  From your movements to your thoughts, even your aura. It's all affected by this need.

How do you deal?  What do you do?  Where do you turn?  It is a mystery to me.  I turn it into anger, into frustration and try to get it out other ways.  But nothing is able to truly cleanse this internal wickedness like the cleansing kiss of pain.  Nothing can quite compare to the rush and the relief you feel while feeding your inner masochistic beast.  It's almost like the glow a vampire experiences after feeding.  To finally relieve yourself of the weight of the world, which you carry upon your shoulders.
It's that time again...

To all of the morons out there, that lack the ability to use proper grammar - this is for you.

Ladies & Gentleman, boys & girls...

Let's get something straight here.  First there are the definitions.

Dominate -  Verb (A word that indicates an action)  

   1. To govern, rule or control by superior authority or power
   2. To exert an overwhelming guiding influence over something or someone
   3. To enjoy a commanding position in some field
   4. To overlook from a height


Dominant - Adjective (A word that modifies a noun or describes a noun’s referent).

   1. Ruling; governing; prevailing; controlling; predominant; as, the dominant party, church, spirit, power.


As we can see, we have similar definitions.  However, there is one startling difference.  To DOMINATE is an ACTION.  It is something you DO.  To be DOMINANT is a description, it's something you are.  

For example: "I'm a dominant person"  NOT "i'm a dominate person."  "I like to DOMINATE others."  NOT "I like to dominant others."

Some of you may be reading this thinking "WTF?"  I know, i often think the same thing when i read profiles of men and woman across the internet.

Today's vocabulary lesson - Brought to you in part by forg0ttenclone and viewers like you!

A while back i responded to a posting that posed the question "What motivates you to submit?" This was my answer to that question. I found it to be fitting for a journal entry.

"For some, it's not always about submission, per se. It can be about a cleansing of one's self internally. The releasing of stress, anger, sadness, and many other emotions that have filled to the brim in a flooded heart and mind... only to be released and emptied through tears brought on by the kiss of a whip, paddle, or other implement.

During those times, you're finally able to make the great escape you've longed and yearned for. You're able to finally lay that burden down, even if only temporarily, to feel true release from the weight of the world.

While for me, it is not a matter of submission. It's a matter of masochism. The love of the pain. The ability to wrap yourself in its sweet embrace while becoming consumed by the intoxication of the endorphins being released.

That's what it's about for me."

Ok.  So it's been quite a while since i last added an entry.  Alas, here i am for another rant. -grin-

The term "Domme" and the pronunciation there of.  The correct pronunciation is that of "Dom" not "Dom-may" or "Dom-ee."  In and around the lifestyle, you often hear the mispronunciation of the term.  Maybe a little too often.

I've been called a grammar nazi before.  That could very well be so.  While i do realize no one is perfect, the "Dom-may/Dom-ee" thing just drives me nuts.

Now some may argue the pronunciation, that's fine.  But let's take into account a similar word.  The word "femme" is pronounced as "fem."  It's the same thing.

So for those that are unable to pronounce it correctly, maybe it's time to relearn how. -smirk-

Cheers!
I rarely do this journal stuff.  So here goes a rarity.  Often times when browsing through this site, i see people proclaiming to be a "pro" others "non-pro." 

My question is, what designates someone as a "pro?"  Simply expecting a "tribute" does not make someone a pro.  Is there a certification process?  Is there a test or course to be an official Domme/Dom?  Do you get a nice purdy framed certificate of Dom/me-ification?  Now pardon my ignorance on this, but c'mon.  I can't help but laugh about it.

I doubt many will read this, but for those that do, i look forward to a response that could possibly shed a little light on this question.  Naturally, i mean no offense to those that may take offense.  Generally, the only way to find out answers is to ask questions.  So there we go.