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i am interested in being a regular house slave or domestic servant to a dominant Woman, plain and simple. i have experience and i would like to find someone local who can utilize my services and train me to their taste.
humbly,
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Finally, i found a piece that i wish as my cleaning uniform.. http://scorpion-frog.com/product/4271/Anal_Plug_Harness_With_Cock_Ring/KL-635
Happy New Year! |
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Just had a short chat, and this is what i wish to say and have said:
My pleasure to have touched creation. Sweet dreams. |
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Sometimes, we need to explain all these new terms, such as sapiosexual. For example, i do not need to talk about books, get into too much detail nor name drop. But, if you find a link, such as this one, interesting (as do I) and do not YAWN, then i would love to hear from You: http://www.av8n.com/physics/chemical-physical.htm ... |
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Getting the Most Out of Your Domestic -- continued, II. --
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Here are some tips to get the most mileage out of your male servant.
5) The watering hole. If any of the earlier FOUR suggestions can not be fulfilled, then You may wish to add this one to your domestic's training. You ask him periodically if he is thirsty. Well, if he says YES, you ask him to crawl to You. When he arrives, You pour water to his surprise doggie bowl, which will remain at Your feet.
For an extra good hard day of work, You can provide a 7th inning stretch and with it, perhaps some watered down red wine (bevanda, it is called, where i was born). Or, if you feel extra giving, pure red wine.
6) When he is exhausted, and he has successfully presented his achivement and You have approved. Ask him if he wishes to do the next and final thing. He is allowed to say No and You are happy with that. Bring out the shoe shine, a few shoes and let him know that he can polish them before You. The benefits, include: a) he can sit or crouch; b) he can be next to You c) He can look forward to or wish being stroked by Your feet or nudged or lightly kicked d) he has quiet time with You and d) it will be similar to snuggling after love-making. Maybe not the first time, but in time, he will learn to love this part. |
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This is an example of what interests me:
http://www.templeilluminatus.com/group/bdsmleatherspirituality/forum/topics/article-on-sacred-sexuality-bdsm-power-exchange-a-union-of-love-w
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Getting the Most Out of Your Domestic
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Here are some tips to get the most mileage out of your male servant.
1) The Golden Rule. Before beginning, make it clear that the expectation for Your servant is to please You, first and foremost. There are no expectations. This way, from the beginning, the relationship unfolds with service in mind, as well as the goal of pleasing You, always.
2) Energy Bypass. If Your servant is crazy for You (and i am sure he is, in order for him to approach You and willingly submit to You, providing service), think of a creative way to immediately funnel sensual and sexual thoughts into work. The easiest way to do this is via ritual (work begins and ends by kissing Your hands and feet, for example) or symbolism (put on a collar, perhaps with a leash). Another very powerful tool is discomfort. Some of the ways to create discomfort could be via a spreader bar (making simple tasks more challenging), lightly applying nipple clamps (so all work immediately is under Your control), or a chastity device, one that immediately cuts off the male energy and power. The latter is the most powerful. Similar to the meditation phenomenon. If someone says during your meditation, "Do not think of food," inevitably your mind will wander and play in the pastures of food thoughts for a few minutes. I wasn't thinking of food. Why did the group leader say that? How did he know? Was I thinking about food. I could use a sandwich, but I can start with an apple, so I don't absorb as many calories. Ooooh, I am doing it. Now I have to stop. Fades out, eventually. But with a chastity device, it comes back. This enables You to reinforce Your divine feminine energy and power even while You are napping, snacking, finishing Your office work or pampering Yourself. Why is that? Well, because while You are away and he feels some discomfort, he is thinking of You and he will inevitably think that the only way to Your heart or favor is by doing a great job. Oui la, the work becomes primary and primal, and trust me, he will get INTO it. He will find the benefits of scrubbing (muscles) or the benefits of repetitive action (so glad I am not working my office job, alone, in my usual place).
3. The Tree of Knowledge. This is an optional one. I have had it done to me and it is quite powerful. It commits the servant from another vantage point. Suppose You know that Your servant loves the colors of Your undergarments, or perhaps he disclosed to You that as a teenager, his next door neighbor, a cheerleader, had asked him to hand wash her undergarments, well You now know he likes them. He finds them erotic, it is a kink, which is nothing more than a thought that somehow connected or connects to his pleasure center. You could say, "When You do my laundry, You are in no way to sniff my undergarments. Doing so will cause severe punishment." Well, now, when he does laundry, there is an aspect of forbiddenness. It creates a mystique, temptation, and by obeying You, devotion and loyalty to Your word. Do not underestimate the power of this one.
Well, was that too easy or obvious, but You can not think of another? Maybe another example. You know he likes bondage and perhaps Your feet. You are afraid, based on his personality, that he may spray and waste Your cleaning agents. Simply warn him about that, explain how You want things diluted with water and rinsed. If You should notice he isn't thrifty or not rinsing the toxic stuff from the counter top, simply say: "You like my feet and therefore You must respect my socks and shoes." To which he will agree, even though something might be unpleasant in that sphere, maybe not. Then You hit home, "Well, don't put it past me that I may punish You when You are done by putting a dish rag in your mouth, taping it shut and tying You spread eagle and face first for a period of time, and You will be ignored."
4. The Long Arm of the Law. You have things to do and the last thing You want to do is micromanage or babysit. But You know he wants to feel Your dominance and power. What can You do? Many things. A leash can be extended with a string, that wanders off into the hallway. He is maybe in the kitchen or bathroom, but You now can give him a gentle tug, to summon him, whenever You wish. But more importantly, he will fear You and again, think of You being there, metaphorically hovering over him, and training him. Alternately, You can attach bells to his feet, or a bell around his neck like a cow off to pasture. Another possibility is communicating via text and he has 30 seconds within which to respond to any text from You, or there are consequences.
There are more tips to come ...
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