Firminius

I'm your genuine nice guy . . . but be warned that there is often an unspoken darker side to 'nice guys'. On this forum that side has its chance to glower. Of course I remain 'nice', but perhaps the word's meaning takes on a more fluid shape,

I already play with my switch wife, the soul who opened me up to this realm. It is at her suggestion that I have joined this site . . . and yes there is scope for the right people to play with us as a couple.

I am looking for some mutual connection at a playmate level. Domminance/submission happens in the brain, the physical manifestation is just 'stuff', so there has to be the connection. With the connection, the particular 'stuff' can be negotiated, explored, refined and enjoyed.

My predominant interest is for cuddly sized women with a desire to explore their inner painslut and a need to be held, cooed and stroked afterwards.