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I am currently in, CO,but can relocate
I seek a relationship where the woman is either a dominant or dominantswitch partner and I her muse. I find fulfillment and happiness through learning and exploring creative ways of showing my appreciation and devotion to a Mistress who in turn fills my needs and trains me to make my will her will, my wants her wants. For me switching is not a desire but simply another way to serve my Mistress. In another words I seek a FLR with a Ds component, but can role play as a switch if it gives My Mistress pleasure to do so, but she controls it. If she loves oral worship often this sub will strive to please always in all aspects of our relationship. I admit that chasity is very effective in maintaining my focus and desire to please.
I am intelligent, creative, educated, fit, and have traveled and lived all over the US and in other countries. I can fix or build almost anything, and am also a computer engineer.
I find sexual dominance, power exchange, submission both exciting and fulfilling. I understand that training can involve punishment or proving a willingness to submit and endure, that reward and punishment go hand in hand.
I have many years of experience both in play and exploration and have evolved to embracing submission, I began as a dominant but explored submission and found both sides to be sensual and erotic, but submission more fulfilling
I will be completely open and honest to any and all inquiries. My boundaries are safety, saneness, and adults only. If your profile is only complaining about all the fakes and posers, I suggest you get over it, it is the nature of online connecting. The benefit is a much larger pond to fish in. Everyone knows this and why waste words, be positive, if you want to find a true worthy sub. State what you offer and what you seek. You must seduce to get the best. When approached ask questions that will glean out the crap and waste your time. Once you have gleaned tell them you want to meet in a public place where you feel comfortable and interview them with thought out questions. Posers and fakes, no matter how good will usually balk at this with some excuse. This doesnt have to be hard, you are a Domme, take control, make it efficient. If you dont your perfect sub will be snatched up while you are wasting time.
Almost every question you ask initially should be questions to disqualify them as a potential sub, The last question should be how soon they can meet you for an interview. This puts no obligation on you, but if they are simply good at answering the earlier questions, this will make them believe you want to meet quick and if they a posers or fakes the excuses will come out, and it provides an easy out for you. Simply end the conversation with write me back when you are ready and available to be interviewed in person, then move on.
If you read my updated journal entry you will find that I have the will and ability to take the time to spend with a potential Domme no matter what part of the country she lives in. After all, isnt that what a true submissive should do, solve problems for a Domme, accommodate her needs, and make this process easier.
As a serious seeker I do not approach negative profiles, I have in the past and found myself on the defensive, wasting time trying to convince her I am real rather than her questioning me to see if I am a potential good fit.
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I retired early in December 2015. To facilitate meeting and getting to know a potential Domme I purchased a 30 ft camper and remodeled it completely including making it off grid with a powerful solar and battery system, think tiny house. If I meet a Domme on CS I have the will and ability to travel to where she lives and stay locally in a park or campground while we take the time to get to know each other and find out if we bond and I should commit to her. I often read that if you are not local not to contact. To me this was simply a problem to overcome and I have taken the steps necessary to solve it. I am committed to finding a FLR and will not diminish that chance and that goal simply because of geography. |
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3/27- The physical challenges of daily life have dramatically decreased over the last few centuries, so with it the need for men to lead; their lead by default no longer applies. |
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