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*BE SURE TO READ EVERYTHING.*
That includes journals. If you would like to see more of my little world,then go to F3TLIF3 and search: Spand_xxx and/or 1FetishMaster I spend more time there than here. Here I stop by for a good laugh at the increasing fakes and wannabes. Straight Male. Dominant. Also known as The Fetish Master.
What you see in my pictures is really me.
Have questions? ASK!!! I am an open book and dare to be different.
Want to be rude or pre-judge? GO FUCK YOURSELF!!! ~Instead~ Why don't you find out what kind of a person I am? Just because I dress this way at times doesn't mean I look like this 24/7. I actually lead a normal life outside my fetish and this lifestyle. Have my own businesses and work very hard to maintain my businesses. Once I get to know you better,pictures of the real me will be gladly exchanged.
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A Dominant is a Ruler, but never a Tyrant. But to rule requires understanding and understanding requires humility.
A Dominant has Pride, but never Arrogance. But pride requires dignity and dignity requires humility.
A Dominant commands Respect, but never Fear. But respect requires serenity and serenity requires humility.
A Dominant employs Strength, but never Force. But strength requires knowledge and knowledge requires humility.
A Dominant criticizes, but never derides. But criticism requires insight and insight requires humility.
A Dominant receives, but never takes. But receiving requires giving and giving requires humility.
A Dominant completes, but never tries to alter. But to complete one must be able to see what is there, not what is missing and THIS most of all requires humility. NOTE TO FAKES AND SCAMMERS!!! I DO NOT want your email address or want to chat with you with the first message you send me.
NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!!
Fakes,scammers and wannabes,I can smell you a mile away.In some cases,a kilometer away.
SO JUST STAY AWAY!!!!! |
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People often stop by my little profile,to which I welcome.
I know you are just a little bit curious about me and what you see.
If you are curious,feel free to write me and/or ask questions.
I promise I won't bite.https://www.collarspace.com/js/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-innocent.gif" alt="Innocent" border="0" />
Questions will be answered and you will be shown respect,from Dominant to slave.
If you have to be rude,ignorant or judgmental,do us all a favor.
Move on and take your pathetic,miserable life somewhere else.
I am what I am and like what I do.
To answer some questions.
YES:
All the pictures are me and only me.
NO:
I do not look like this or dress this way 24/7.
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The pictures of me are edited with PhotoShop.
Since I donot have a photo studio,I use the program to take out the background adjust lighting,etc.
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Being a Master in a D/s BDSM relationship comes with its share of responsibilities and expectations. When you claim another and place your collar on them you are signifying your commitment towards guiding another soul through life. This commitment does not begin and end with what society’s idea of the lifestyle is or represents. In fact being a Master means different things to different Dom’s. For me it means the following. It means I’ve committed myself to being a protector and not just of what some perceive as property.
For me it means protecting someone from not only the day to day agitations but from themselves as well. To protect another means to teach to guide and yes if necessary to punish. But it also involves trust. My slave by choosing me as her Master is showing not only devotion and love, but complete and total trust. This trust is placed in my hands in the form of her entire being. She trusts that I will be there during any strife that comes her way and to share in every joy as well.
It means I have vowed to guide her in the ways that I expect her to be through allowing her to be totally true to her nature. Her expectations of me consist of insuring that wrong choices are not made and conflicting emotions that would stagnate the thought process are separated and labeled for what they are, distractions. It is that muddled mind that I’m committed to clear. It means that I will treat her as I would a rose in that I will administer the proper care and encourage her to blossom into the beautiful garden that is desired. It means I have accepted the responsibility in making sure that she is healthy and happy by giving her the dominance she desires. It means I will weed out all the bad habits that in the past have led to negative and irretrievable consequences. From the moment a decision to enter this is made I committed to shaping her into the woman she desires to be. It means control. Control of not only her but of the shared destiny we both crave. To take control of another being brings strength to me in the form of an example. It causes me to reevaluate my own life and my own choices and to transfer those to her so that she may benefit from them. It means I must now lead by example. And never falter in any endeavor that is undertaken. To gain control like this brings power to me. The kind of power needed to be strong in my convictions and grants me the freedom to truly be who I am through all of this it is she who has given me that gift. |
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Dominant's Creed
Above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest of all. He is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to him, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.
He is in control of himself first and foremost, so that he may control others. As a stern and demanding Dominant, he can cause his sub to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, he will then kiss the tears away, without ever stepping out of character.
In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a submissive to put him before her career, or family, just to satisfy his own pleasure.
To win his submissive's mind, body and soul; he knows he must first win her trust. He will show his submissive humor, kindness, and warmth. He must also show her that his guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, and trust his direction.
He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, he will fight for his ladies' honor. He proves to her that he is someone she can lean on, and depend on.
He is old-fashioned enough to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect his woman. Quick to point out the differences between them, he also knows there is no inferiority in those differences. When it comes time to teach his submissive her lessons of obedience, he is a strong and unyielding professor. He will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from his student. Never does he use discipline without good reason. When he does, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.
He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern. He knows how to use pain to extend the bounds of pleasure. He is a mentor who can bring her to the edges of her envelope, and gently show her the inner courage to reach new heights.
He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of him grows, so will they.
He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She responds to him out the want of pleasing him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violates the trust given to him.
He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life. Courageous enough to accept assistance. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit and soul with a little help from rope, paddle and blindfold. He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of them know that love is the only binding that truly holds.
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Submissive Creed
I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and I from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm. I will not try to manipulate my Master. i will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not accustomed to or comfortable with and expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being. I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Master, and will do my best to fulfill His wishes and desires. I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused, I know that submissive does not equal "doormat".
I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives, I will share my knowledge and experiences with others in the hope that they will learn from where I have been I will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.
I will be responsive to my Master, I will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that I may assist Him in His responsibilities as my Authority, i know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not expect my Master to know thought or feelings which I do not share.
I will never think myself a "better" submissive because I choose to submit on a different level than another. I will not be boastful of experiences I have had as a sub. I know that my actions reflect upon my Master, and will do my best to help others see him in a positive way; I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Master.
Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with honor, I will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or subhuman. I will take pride in who and what i am, and will never show myself in a negative way.
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