feistyzen

~ ~ ~ I'm taken. ~ ~ ~


I do welcome friendship, however. If you know me, feel free to find me on FL under the same screen name.


And I do enjoy reading random people's profiles, so please don't be alarmed if I look at yours :)




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I seek a whole person. Someone with an easy sense of self-confidence and a large dose of humility. And I do mean this in the true sense of the word... that you have explored all of yourself, and you know your human nature to be imperfect.


I seek a man who understands the truth of Yin & Yang energies in Male/Female relationships, and who sees Power as pure energy. And all energy is power. All of creation is power. The Uni-Verse is power. All of existence is powerful.


I am tantric. Not by study or pursuit, but simply because I am. I was born into a body that knows how to move energy. Unless you've walked the path of self-knowledge and self-realization, you won't be a good fit for me. I live for Spirit. My body is my Temple.
But if you *have* walked this path, then you will know that when I say that I am a slave at heart, that my service to Spirit runs far deeper than my service to any individual man, woman or child.


My self-love runs deep too, and I won't set aside any of my needs for you or for anyone else. By serving myself I am better able to serve everyone else... and the only way this dynamic changes is when my partner prioritizes *me*... thus allowing *me* to prioritize *him*... It's a delicate dance of intimacy, trust, allowance and surrender.


I express myself better in the world when I am in direct relationship to a man. I *know* myself better when a strong male presence grounds me in my world. In his world. Because his world is my world, and my world is his world. We are united yet fully cognizant of our differences and individual needs.


If this sounds hoky to you, then we are not a good match. I am deeply spiritual, and... quite kinky. The two go hand in hand for me, and are inseparable. I can "play" for fun on a night out at a big fetish festival or small basement party. I was publicly involved in the "scene" for a handful of years. But I prefer one-on-one engagements. I prefer emotional intimacy and spiritual ecstasy to community show-&-tell.


I'm an introvert. I love my solitude and my quiet activities. I love socializing on occasion, in a balanced way. I'm not averse to crowds in the right settings. I'm slightly bisexual but not enough to label myself as such. I'm not into pain, but my threshold of pleasurable sensation is quite broad, especially if you know what you're doing. I love certain kinds of spankings and floggings. But for me, it all comes back to the intimacy. I'm not a fetishist of any kind. I've been around the BDSM block, so to say. I've tried a lot of things that I do not care to try again.


The right man inspires my devotion simply because He understands me... (and to Him I am a She, not a she... as a slave I am a Goddess incarnate, not the in the distorted sense of the word found in pro-domme BDSM circles, but in the true sense that every human incarnation is divine, and my Dom is my God as much as I Am His Goddess).


Ugh. Talking about all of this just makes me roll my eyes, even to myself. But it must be said, because it is a necessary filter. If you've read this far, and it resonates with you, then we might possibly be a good fit. Please use the subject line "The Tao of Kink" when texting me, just so I know that you've invested some time into my profile.


In the mundane world I am an artist. I am an empath, an intuitive healer, and quite a bit psychic. I have been known to talk to dead people (though I prefer conversations with my Spirit Guides). I'm Buddhist wrapped up with Christian mysticism and Pagan goodness. If I have to practice anything seriously, it usually ends up being Soto Zen Buddhism. I go through phases.


Spanking and bondage have never been a phase, though... I was born this way too.


I seek True Surrender within a committed L/T relationship. Mutual devotion, co-creative dynamics, and continuous romantic effort on both sides -- these are some of the qualities I value in partnership. I suspect that I'll only find the kind of person I'm looking for if I remain open to a long distance involvement. I live in Central America now, so I hope you like to travel...


Nonsmokers only, please.