Greetings girl,
Thank you for viewing my profile. I hope you found it of interest and encouraging enough to begin a conversation discussing mutual expectations, desires and needs.
A person only gets one chance to give a first impression. I want to be as accurate and expressive as I can, so a girl understands my intentions, expectations, and potential. I believe in being transparent and guileless. I am for real, single, educated, respectful, and honest.
A D/s liaison is a fit for my personality, intent and goals. A long term relationship based on parameters mutually agreeable to both is preferred. The relationship I seek to create has strong elements of a ‘partnership’. The girl’s input is substantial and necessary; her intelligence is mandatory. Full submission is compatible to the paradigm.
I seek a relationship that is healthy, pragmatic, fluid, functional, structured, and mutually physically and psychologically fulfilling. Such a relationship is most likely to be brought to fruition if the girl has an intensely “submissive” personality.
I define such a woman as a ‘good girl’ out of respect and personal linguistic preference.
A “good girl” has behaviors that define her personality; femininity and submissiveness. These innate, fundamental aspects of personality and sexuality are satiated by appropriate behaviors and mannerisms that are preferred, even ‘natural’. she wishes, and craves, exhibiting her preferences as self-expression. she desires to obtain a level of integration that fulfills her, and needs a Man to validate her.
Male guidance is appropriate, but is not crucial, due to her inclinations; she innately knows how to behave. The Male role is to encourage. To legitimize and substantiate. To instill verses impress. To show appreciation and give validation. To aid and encourage expanding her personal growth.
The learning curve has culminated in the realization that conceptually and fundamentally I Stand Apartfrom the majority of those referencing themselves as ‘Dom’ regardless of philosophic orientation.
I am conceptually uncomfortable with aspects of M/s. The relationship is maximally asymmetrical; all Him. Science tells us that such asymmetry will statistically fail. Homeostasis is the preferred state of all physical entities. I see this as a foundational premise of what I seek to create with a good girl. It allows a stable, mutually beneficial platform on which life can proceed.
To me this relationship is not about ‘power’, ‘control’, abeyance, physical or mental supremacy; even though the relationship will be composed of these elements to some degree and combination. It is not “theater”; nor ‘social’; but intense inter-personal conduct.
I see the relationship as akin to that of the classic “Guru”/ ‘devotee’: with both; “Bliss” is the End:
“By His mere glance,
Bondage becomes liberation,
And the knower becomes the known.”
----- Jnanshwar
