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Sophisticated dominant man,
I like refined powerplay, subtle pains in luxurious settings. But I am also happy in plainer places, or just hiking, if I am with the right person. I also have a faible for bondages that leave my submissive defenseless, but also extol her beauty and feminity. You would be surprised to see the beautiful knots an accomplished sailor like me can make.
Such a relationship is not just erotic and I like going out, enjoying culture and fine food together. I feel best on a sailboat, and I also like kayaking, hiking and winter sports. In a D/s relationship, there should a lot of pleasurable moments (orgasm control requires after all a lot of climax for the submissive).
There are romantic moments, when you just tell me what is going through your mind, while I stroke gently your head on my leap, listening to the music of your voice.
There are also moments of good laugh when you see the face I make because I chose again the wrong rope or because my scenario does not work.
Speaking of my face, you will always be able to read it like a book. I do not believe in secrecy as a mean to achieve dominance. There is also a lot of complicity; Imagine: You are with me sitting in a great restaurant, sipping a great Bourgogne, and to the others we looks like old friend chatting about the latest movie while in reality discussing fantasies that would sicken most of them. If only they knew…
I love to be a mentor, thus, I find a young inexperienced woman very attractive, as long as she is curious and open-minded.
I fall for the charms of more experienced women (read of my age) who I find to be highly attractive in all aspects of a relationship. I find it easier to build complicity and friendship (before going further...) when both went through the same share of their life.
A submissive woman is a rare, precious, gem. As such, you will be cherished, groomed, kept healthy and protected. This is a duty I take very seriously. While I think that a certain amount of pain is unavoidable, even desirable in some scenes, I abhor mindless brutality and profanity. Instead, I am firm, strong and I can ensure you that you will obey without me yelling. The names of the game are happiness and harmony, its goals to have fun; it is about growing you, bringing you to feel unusual pleasures, while having my fun too, of course.
Finally, I am not in a hurry.
As for my physique, I am a well built, sportive man in his forties, dark haired with green eyes, said to be good looking. If you want more and better pictures of me, just ask. |
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Finally, the bondage variant.
Here, the girl is again on her chair but this time, her legs are bound, she is spread and exposed.
The feeling I want to raise in her this time is just helplessness. I will caress her first, for quite some time, very gently, until she is nicely aroused and then make a big display of my riding crop, for example, exploding a rose in one hit (actually this I will NOT do, because the last time I did it, I got a crying sub and I ruined completely the play. Hitting roses -- even old ones she had thrown away -- is not cool)
Well, you get the idea, thus I will show restraint and make an example of her cute pet hamster ;-)
I will hit her then on her sex, with just the necessary force and speed to touch her mind, she will of course desperately try to get her legs together and will feel horribly -- or should I say exquisitely -- exposed and helpless... If she is into into, it can also become a good spanking.
With these three examples, I just wanted to show that with a bit of thinking, the same situation, with minor variations, almost no special equipment or violence, can be used to satisfy completely different kinks.
Henry |
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Still based on this very nice picture of a Swiss lady on this site, a more subtle domination play:
As a background: she sits on a chair, her knees raised at shoulder level, well apart (I let you imagine what is nicely exposed by this pose), her arms are bound to the chair. she looks down, between her legs, to be precise, and is a bit warry.
This time we do not let the gravity do the dirty job. It is not about pain and obedience either, although we will need a riding crop.
I stand next to her, outside her field of vision. The reason she looks very intensively between her legs is that she fears, rightly that I will hit her with the riding crop just there...
Hitting is a misnomer, the impact will be definitely noticeable to her as something more intense than a carress, but not painful, this is not our objective.
Our objective is for her to feel either submission or powerlessness. In the case of submission, her legs are still free and her instinct will be to close them depending of her reflexes, before or after the swat. I forbade her to do so, thus she has to fight her natural instinct.
Swosh, swosh, swosh, Paf! a fast hit after a few swing. Nothing painful but her feet are clutched on her sex. No cigar here, we try again.
After a few tries like that, she manages to keep more or less her posture. It is time to unbound her and give her a lot of nice after-care.... She has earned it.
Tea my dear?
Henry, The Master with an erratic command of English. (or was it erotic?) |
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Here is a very basic idea, that the very nice picture of a Swiss lady here on the site inspired me. We are here at the level 0 of domination.
She sits on a chair, arms folded -- and bound -- behind the back of the chair. Her eyes are cast down, I forbade her to many any eye contact with me. She does not need to look at me to obey me. Listening will do, my dear.
A few minutes ago, I told her to raise her knees. I love this position for the great sight it provides. Of course, now the legs are getting heavy, and keeping her knee up for so long is really unconfortable... for her.
It is not unconfortable anymore, it is downright painful, but she knows that she has to wait for my permission to rest her feet on the ground again. It is a test of her obedience, of course, but also of her will.
Her legs have started to shake, her face, so peacefull a few moments ago is strained by a mix of pain and pleasure. She cannot hold this position for any longer.
I must now take a decision: either I allow her to relax and put her feet back on the ground, she had a success in obeying me, a treat would then be in order. I also can remain silent and let her fail. This last option would of course cause further punishments.
Decision time... |
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A nice looking Swiss girl states on her profile her profound displeasure at the guys who do not know what to tell her, especially to express what they would do with her. She also posted a nude picture of her on a chair. Somehow, I saw a challenge, decided to pick up the gauntlet and see if I could make some interesting propositions, based solely on this picture. |
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The sexually attractive woman of my age (read fourties) is for me a rather recent discovery which occured when I courted a young gracious thing that proved to be one year older than I (she showed me her driver license to prove it, not a classical figure in courtship, I must admit).
I learned something that day, and I have updated my profile accordingly. There is a lot of things I should add to it, like my personnal situation, when I think of it. But I prefer not, interested people only have to ask. |
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How to shave perfectly a sub, and why
Intimate shaving is for women like repairing a flat tire or carrying the trash can outside: yes they can, but having a man doing it is still the better option.
A bald sex seems to be de rigueur for a submissive, however, before grabbing the next depilatory cream, razor or tweezers, a bit of thinking seems necessary to answer two questions: what will be the effect on the submissive and why do we want to do it.
There is the obvious aesthetic point: a bald vertical smile looks always better than a bearded one ;-{) the nicer smooth touch invites the caress of the hand which will be felt better by her.
There is also a strong psychological point: shaving a submissive means taking away from the woman a symbol of being an adult, i.e. a responsible person who take care of herself. Symbolically, a smooth sex is a powerful reminder that she is not a person with the right and duties of an adult. It shows her that somebody else, her Master, as taken over these rights and duties and will now conduct her life. He will direct her toward happiness and she has given him both the authority and responsibility to guide her. Of course this may not happen in reality, but in her mind, it may help her to enter a blissful sub-space.
Here a word of warning: I always say that the mind of a submissive woman is like a diamond, a rare and beautiful gem, the highest prized possession of a man. There is however a big difference between a diamond and a submissive’s mind: the first one is nearly indestructible, the later is a very fragile construct. In that respect it is more like a rare and delicate flower that the Master will only touch after thoughtful considerations and treat with the utmost care.
Thus before shaving his submissive, the caring Master will inquire how she feels about it, without naming it, he should have in mind that his sub, the great adult woman tied on his bed may have been abused as a little girl and being put back in this hairless stage may trigger bad memories. It is sad that we must think of our submissives as former victims of such heinous crime, but who think that being a Master means mindless bliss is a fool.
After this bitter note, back to our pleasurable business. Shaving my sub starts with tying her strictly but comfortably, so that her sex is perfectly exposed on some towel.
Preparing her is two-fold: firstly soften the skin through the application of hot damp towels, like the ones offered in an airplane. Be careful with the temperature! Use your face skin to check the temperature. After ten minutes, her skin is softened enough. Better make it fifteen minutes and use that time for the second side of preparation: arouse her. Each sub-girl is different, but you can for example caress her gently, starting with her belly and tights and move slowly toward her sex. The experience will be both stronger and more pleasurable, if you shaved her well aroused.
The tools: key for the razor is the state of the blade(s). A fresh one is always to be preferred. In doubt, try it for your own shaving: if it pulls, even just a bit, it may be still good for your boar bristles, but not for most delicate part of your submissive’s anatomy. The second tool is the shaving brush. I am partial to the coarser ones made of boar bristles. They produce good lathe and are also quite good at stimulating the submissive (more of that later). Finally, the soap should be a pure product not or only light sented, like the excellent soaps of Le comptoir des Savonniers.
The action: Start producing a good firm lathe and put it on her, using the brush in fast movements to deeply impregnate the skin, then start shaving, rinse after each shaving movement. Never, ever go twice on the same surface with the razor without first re-lathing it! Having the brush handy is an hindrance until you notice that nature gave the woman a perfect place to shove it. I let you guess where, for the slow thinkers among us, let us simply say that putting the shaving brush there (with the hairs upside!) gives the submissive a great occasion to perform her Kegel exercises.
Once the shaving itself is finished, I usually lathe a lot her clit-hood until she climax. a good orgasm is a nice way to finish the shaving and ensure enthusiasm of the submissive for the next session!
We also must cleanse her sex with hot water and make it germfree. Two options are available: either an aftershave, which will give her quite a burning feeling and an unnatural scent, or wound disinfection product, which are odour- and painless. I personally prefer the second option, because I love the smell of a freshly aroused woman.
Finally, once she is untied, the submissive may want to touch her freshly shaved sex. I forbid it strictly, which further arouse her. Since she is usually quite stirred by the whole process, a nice cuddle after-session is in order to help her process her emotions…
Have fun,
Henry
The Master with an erotic command of English. (or was it erratic?)
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A few practical tips for the modern and discerning dominant gentleman.
We all experience this problem of modern D/s households: The dominant open the fridge, find a bottle of champagne and want to have a nice drink, but the champagne glasses are all in the dishwasher, or dirty in the sink from the party last month.
In such a situation, a good submissive woman is exactly what we need. Let us call our highest prized property: Tie your sub so that bottom is on the top, legs should be well spread, Make it comfortable for her, since the rest will take some times, a few pillows will support nicely her back, for example. Her sex should be as vertical as possible. Caress her so that her peach becomes really juicy. This position is excellent to give some attention to an area often neglected: the lower side of her breasts, it is very sensitive and erogenous: stroke it gently. If she is more into it, you can slap it too. The idea is to get her as juicy as possible.
While she is impatiently waiting for you to penetrate her, get the bottle out of the fridge and open it with the usual care. Delicately push the little lips of your submissive so that they build a sort of funnel. You can use the cork (it is practically sterile) to widen the entry to her vagina, keep caressing her but avoid bringing her to orgasm or near it. Pour the champagne in her, slowly. A mid-sized sub has roughly the content of two more conventional glasses. She will find the sensation of cool and prickling very interesting. The prickling will further arouse her while the cool will have the contrary effect.
The oenologists among us may wonder if it is such a good idea to drink champagne in a rather warm glass full of additives not usually found in wine. The temperature question is easily answered: most of us drink white wines and champagne much to chilled. Her love juices will give some nice, animal touch, to the champagne, especially if you chose a typical one like the Laurent Perrier. Also a “sec” will be better than a “brut”. Be sure that it is rather fruity. Dry, mineral or floral ones will be crunched.
Now your drink is ready. It is crucial that the sub does not orgasm now, because she would become a fountain. Also this is a wine and not a martini that should be stirred or shaken or whatever Mr. Bond says. Moustachioed men, like yours, truly, should be very cautious, as their facial adornment, tickling the vertical smile of the submissive may cause a climax and they would be facing, literally a geyser. It is surely worth a good laugh, but it is nevertheless a waste of an expensive wine…
After a few sips, you may also consider that your sub is thirsty too. Of course, even the more gifted contortionist cannot drink from herself, but you can take a very small sip and kiss her. Once you had your drink, you can untie your sub, bring her to climax (the shape of a champagne bottle is very adequate for this, by the way)
The practical advices from Henry, with his erratic command of English (or was it erotic?) was brought to you by the Association of Kinky Champagne Maker.
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