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I'm on this site in particular because I do prefer the rougher side of life and the more man-in-charge kind of lifestyle. Beyond that, I really have no idea what I like yet because I'm completely inexperienced. Completely unsure of where I fall in best yet, but lean more submissive, with dominant tendencies rather regularly with certain men. Situational, I spose.
Sexually, I definitely prefer not being in charge, that means I'm swimming without a cage among sharks on this site, so, being in such a vulnerable position, I call the shots as to who I meet and who I give my body to until proven trustworthy. If you have a problem with that, please don't start calling me a man for not proving I'm submissive by showing you my tits. I'm sorry, if we don't fit, we don't damn well fit. Leave me alone.
Beyond that, I'm very friendly and if you're interested in me as anything more than a pleasant conversation then I require the respect that I am a human being and not your property [yet]. Obviously that may change with the right Dominant, but not until I say so, and will not be called or treated otherwise until then.
Different note, I don't consider a dom/sub relationship the same as a typical couple relationship. Don't get me wrong, I like to look nice whenever I leave the house and love the flavor of vanilla, but if I'm to be kept around, I'm a huge sucker for physical affection of any kind when alone. Even if it's cuddling while arguing over stupid television shows, kind of thing. But as to the bedroom: toys/ideas would be up to Him not me, as long as introduced and clean, because hopefully he knows what he likes and how to make me like it too.
My age range right now I guess is 21-30.
I am completely STD free/not pregnant/no kids currently and plan to keep the kid thing this way for plenty of time.
You are in control of my sex life and the basics around it, not my future. I don't want a daddy [and especially not a grandfather] to feed or dress me, I don't want a man for his money-I want him for sex. Someone to take me out to his social occasions in a lovely dress I own that I can wear for him that he can pull up over my hips when we're alone afterwards and remind me my body belongs to him. However, I'm not trash. If you can't look me in the eye or kiss the mouth you shove your cock into, I'll probably raise hell. Sorry slave owners-Not my thing.
I am incredibly loving but very independent, I have places to be and people who expect to see me, I can't just vanish. That doesn't mean I can't make someone my priority, but there needs to be limits, all the cards placed on the table. If I'm in a cage overnight I expect to be let out for work, that sort of thing. I'm not sure if I'm kidding about that or not yet..
And no, I won't be relocating anytime soon. I'll travel, yes, but no, I don't want to see your dungeon on the first, second, or third date. A bedroom however, or co-op on your XBox- We can talk.
I ask a lot of questions and love to learn. [I also ramble, working on it though] If you can't handle an outspoken female when she is unsure about a situation and are not willing to work with me on easing into something when I'm scared, then I'm not for you. I need to be able to say no. If I feel like you won't respect that, you won't be getting a reply. Hence the switch rather than slave.
For now I'm seeking easy going Dominants, or maybe even the right Submissive, interested in anything from a few nights to long term. Friends of all kinds are good too, I get a lot of messages though and can suck at replying.
I always like an honest, direct answer in what you hope to come out of our interactions, very helpful.
Which reminds me, I don't believe in ten commandments, I believe in promises, trust, fate, and karma. First two people have control over, if either of those are broken, I leave you to the other two and you will never see me again. I expect all of my human interactions to be honest, especially with the ones closest to me. If you're sticking things in my vital spots, well, I consider that close to
If you want me then aim to build me not break me. That's all. |
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