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Roper, Rigger,?Kit Maker, Event Organiser.

I am a tall, slim, single and professional person and easy to get on with. I have?no been quite honest?about my age here.?I am best known for my rope bondage but thats not all there is by any means.?
I enjoy private, club and outdoor play and have woodland in North Yorkshire to play in. I prefer suggestive pictures rather than explicit photos - I do have an imagination.
I can be found on 'Fetlife' more often than here, usually looking at event listings.I'm delighted when I get memos so if you want to make me smile don't hang back. I am however not looking for? contacts from outside the UK.?I am interested in people and my friends list contains only people I know.?I'm not looking for a shagfest or any sort of polyfuckery.

My list of 'interests' is just that and not a 'must have' list, and vanilla interests are as important as is the fun factor. I am careful about safety and personal discipline is important to me. AND it's got to be fun.
Vanilla life is a significant factor. ?I like the outdoors, mountains, sunsets over seas, grass under my feet. Red wine and endless cups of tea, cooking and music and art. I enjoy 'making' and like to employ my imagination to realise BDSM equipment -?Pictures on FetLife (as well as more mundane items).
I like? the cane and?paddle but crop or flogger or improvised items as well. Hands are always best. I enjoy spontaneous and adventurous play. I am proficient with ropework, suspension and restraint. I teach rope work,?and can also?be seen giving demos at events for rope, needles, impact play and wax among other things.
I believe that people involved in D/s relationships should develop an honest and intimate knowledge of each other based on mutual respect and equality and this I am prepared to take time developing.?If not in my woodland? I can be found at munches?such as?York, Harrogate,?Leeds, Manchester??as well as BBB, Tension,?Nemesis,?The Facility, Peer Rope?Workshops?and other clubs as well as 'The Portal' events that I am involved in running. Just sorting equipment for 'Sexhibition' & 'Dystopia'.Do call and say hello, here or FetLife.
Eric Stanton

Two of my favourite events coming up - Sheffield Rope and York Rope. 
Somebody put another bob in the meter. This site is running like a three humped camel.
A great event on Sunday. 'Cirque de Chaos' is always worth the drive to West Bromwich, though it's a long drive home.
Play Club (Manchester) now runs for 15 hours.
Sheffield Peer Rope is an event I rarely miss.
The Facility (Walsall) I cannot visit too often.
BBB I treat as a big munch.
Xtasia has some good events.
I like Reform Club
York and Harrogate munches
Running events in North East and North Yorkshire soon as well as DM'ing various events and building kit.

Busy
Just heading off to SMUG, an event in Durham. Suited and booted.
I wonder why people enter UK as a location. The UK is over 600 miles long and it is easy to give a general location without giving too much away.
Blackpool this weekend - Birmingham next  (https://.com/groups/2428/group_posts/5945736).  The Unit, BBB and Sadistic String. Reform Club to come before the end of the month as well.
We had a beginners event at the weekend at 'The Unit'. Quite the best so far and good fun. I enjoyed doing the demos and had a great time. Next considering a 'next steps' event with some edgier play. Perhaps in the spring.

About to set off to Sheffield - Peer Rope

I have always enjoyed rope bondage. From the moment the kit bag opens - it starts. Putting the rope on is very much part of the play and though I rarely bother with 'pretty' bondage outside of demos and workshops, it can be a tantalizingly slow process. More than prep for play.

Although I have always enjoyed taking the rope off again recently this has developed into a major part of the play, sometimes left for some time later and often taking as long as the rest of the play. Slow, sensuous and erotic, and in contrast to the harshness of canes, sharps and blood it takes me into a different dimension and endorfin led responses.

The next Rope Bondage Peer Workshop takes place at Caesars Club on Sunday July 19th from 5pm until 9pm. (The same day as BBB)
You will find a mixture of beginners and more experienced people, most of whom are there to share their knowledge.

All with an interest in rope are welcome. This is a free event but non-members of Caesars will need to take temporary membership of £2

There are further details on the IC profile page and the website.http://www.rope-peer-workshop.co.uk/

The Peer Rope Workshop takes place on Sunday. Perhaps my favorite event and its free and runs from 5 to 9pm. There is always a good turnout and there is a real mixture of experience and plenty of people willing to show beginners some basics. 

I get a chance to try out new things and swap ideas with others or problem solve. 

Its the same day as BBB so all in all a good day out.

  http://www.rope-peer-workshop.co.uk/
Kinkdom has turned out to be quite a special event. Held in Huddersfield it's a 12hour event and the only fetish market in the North of England. There is also a play party in the evening, several demos and food.


The 5th event is in the planning stage and Kinkdom is held on the 1st Sunday of the month starting at 1pm.


Recently two bdsm events in the north have had to close and low numbers were part of the problem. Use it or loose it!
Only a week to go to 'Kinkfest' at Conway Hall, London. It looks like a good program of workshops and demos.  A good day out and LAM to follow. http://www.unfettered.co.uk/   http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/weblogs/unfettered/198715/
This event for 'Newbies' was over subscribed last time - and a great success.

http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/boards/ukevents/192565/


Take a look.

Was I wise doing a self suspension workshop?  Swinging about suspended by one foot may be impressive - but better if the rope comes free at the moment you want it to rather than jamming :)

York munch is a nice munch but ....
I'm not sure I dare go again.

Last month while I was there my son set fire to the oven and this month the toaster suffered a similar fate.

The microwave is looking decidedly nervous and the fridge freezer has asked if I go next month can it come with me.

So next month I may turn up, after Ive been to the chip shop, with 'sub zero'. That is if the mysterious disappearance of my eldest son goes unnoticed

I often get asked to do workshops and demos - mainly rope work and suspension. That's nice. I like attending them and I like doing them. I think workshops on all sorts of things are valuable and I always learn something.

I was asked to do 7 back in November and I'm often asked to do 3 or 4. I'm usually at a munch at the time or in a club whacking someone with a big stick and so I always say the same thing ... 'Certainly, but memo/email me the details so I can plan it around my kids weekends' etc. Then I often forget about it and get on with what ever I'm doing

Often there is no follow up. I assume therefore that it was just a passing thought and perhaps it will be followed up the next time we bump into each other.

Sometimes plans go ahead and I still haven't heard anything. The assumption seems to be made that I can be there.

Now as I say, I like workshops, and I'm pleased to be asked. I'll do it if I can and I dont want people to assume otherwise but please 'keep me in the loop' and drop me a line from time to time.

Cheers

Eric

Another enjoyable trip to BBB Lots of friendly people and plenty to see.  The bacon sandwiches seem to have got smaller and I spent far too much money on toys. Ah well.

A change is as good as...you make it..               
Well I've just written a letter of resignation. Only the second time I've written one.
Strange feelings. The paper seemed especially blank and seemed to fill up very slowly.
Its a bit like walking into thin air after climbing to the top of a solid rock face where every hold was known and tested.
Can't see the new horizon yet but it'll be there, no doubt when I land.

The older I grow the more I recall how little I knew when I knew it all.

 

The  Invitation

 

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.  I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

 

It doesn't interest me how old you are.   I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

 

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon.   I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain.  I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.

 

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.

 

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true.   I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.

 

I want to know if you can see beauty, even when it's not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence.

 

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes!"

 

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.   I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

 

It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here.   I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back.

 

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.   I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.

 

        I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.  
 

Oriah Mountain Dreamer