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While we aren't able to qualify or quantify an individual, much less ourselves, into a few blurbs, I hope what I provide piques your interest or squicks the fuck out of you. =-D
Name: Epiphany. Also known as "Boo-boo" or "Woman!". Those who have earned the right and been given permission may refer to me as Ms. 'Piph, Mama E, or Sir. Otherwise, it is Epiphany.
Orientation: I am a bisexual, poly-oriented, sadistic dominant/parent type.
I am not looking for "a little fun" or "an adventure". I am not interested in online power-exchange or cyber relationships. I'm not looking for someone for us to sleep with. I am looking for someone worth our waking up to. "Us" is plural; I am happily married to Daddy Fang. I am not recruiting pussy or "toys" for my husband; he's not interested. Warning: if you don't have a fairly thick skin and skewed sense of humor, Daddy Fang will eat you alive.
I am looking for a long-term relationship, real-time, heart-mind-and spirit, with a girl that wants to build something wonderful and be part of our family and dynamic. Said girl is cisgender, not necessarily cissexual, service oriented, masochistic, submissive with slave tendencies, willing to work for the collar, her place, and her House. Said girl is not a doormat or dishrag. Said girl also does not have the flagrant "not a doormat or dishrag" attitude.
Prefer 25+ or a very mature 21+. I'm a sucker for curves, short stature, redheads, and freckles. Tomboys are encouraged, but said girl must enjoy the make-up routine on occasion. Dramatic make-up, "edgy" hairstyles, tattoos/body modifications/piercing (I prefer a semi-clean canvas because I want to mark you), are all wonderful!!
I don't mind "newbies", but you must have given this all enough thought that you have some idea of reality vs. fantasy and have a concept as to whether or not what I have listed lights your fires.
I love to teach. I expect something in return. I am not interested in whats between your legs beyond planting my boot there or slam fucking you with my fist or forcing orgasms out of you at my whim. My interest in you is for service, use, amusement, providing guidance, discipline, growth, belonging, affection, companionship, and feeding the little sado-maso demon in each of us.
You must be employed or in school, have your own vehicle, be willing to travel, not live at home with mommy or daddy, not be married or beholden to SO's or young children. I am a greedy bitch and I want your time, attention, companionship, loyalty, and obedience. Inevitably, I want a sliver of your soul. I promise, you will have a sliver of mine.
You must be "out" enough to enjoy PDA without recoiling, must be able to differentiate between proper and inappropriate public behavior (exhibitionism has its time and place), must be not only willing, but eager and able to physically work hard on projects benefiting Texas Conference of Clubs, and mentally/psychologically mature enough to give informed consent. You must be LGBT friendly and supportive. You must be HIV/AIDS educated, friendly, and supportive. You must show proof of drug and disease status, be it positive or negative. You must be safer sex and sex positive aware, educated, and supportive.
My favorite tools of the trade are my hands and your mind. In addition, I heart your fear, snot-slinging make-up ruining sobbing tears, cruelty, consensual non-consent, humiliation, degradation, mind-fucks, behavioral modification, ordeal, knives, needles, scalpels, clips, clamps, spitting, gags, belting, leather, bondage, boot blacking, ritual, objectification, body worship, domestic and personal services, rough body play, punching, slapping, kicking, biting, exhibitionism, voyeurism, foreign object insertion, fisting, breath play, and primal fucking.
I subscribe to the concept of RACK as opposed to SSC, and I believe in personal responsibility, honesty, integrity, and full disclosure. I am far from perfect and do not expect perfection. I do expect and respect effort. Respect, beyond basic common courtesy is earned and lost, not just given.
My vanilla bents are: cooking, gardening, NetFlix, reading, random research, Texas Conference of Clubs, Face Book games, Instant Message chat, spur of the moment trips to where ever, my bio-dog Brodie is my baby, and keeping Brian on his toes. I am a jaded, judgmental, cranky ol broad and I will call bullshit at the drop of hat.
Where I Am Coming From: I began exploring BDSM via research online on March 28, 1997 by following ThorneSoul into an AOL chatroom called DomSub Discussion. Yes, I'm part of the Internet BDSM influx. My world was never the same. Introduced my then husband to the concept and hooked up with a wonderful group of small town kinksters in Copperas Cove, TX.
I've spent time in community service at the Sanctuary Dallas, built friendships with an online group (Dom Sub Nation) of people from all over Texas that would get together on occasion, and I've spent years in research and introspection. It was during this time I was introduced to the concept, up close and personal, of Leather. Family, tribe, loyalty, integrity, belonging to something bigger than oneself. In the Spring of 2002, I relocated to Austin with long time friend, Daddy Fang. We've been together, for better or worse, every since. I have served, with his tolerance and support, in various capacities in the greater Austin and Central Texas area.
I am a former NLA-Austin Treasurer 2003, Texas Leather Pride XII (2003) Vendor Coordinator and web-bitch, NLA-Austin Vice President 2004, Texas Leather Pride XIII (2004) Coordinator and web-bitch, former member of the Central Texas boys of Leather, Supreme Kitchen Bitch for Touch of Leather's annual Wyld Fyre run 2008 - 2010 (retired), and unofficial assistant to Ms. Lonestar 2009 (retired). I was also a long time family member of what became Touch of Leather (resigned 06/15/2011). As of 10/03/09, I am an inductee to Kappa Gamma Mascara; the best sorority of drag queens on the planet! Former Texas Conference of Clubs Ms. LoneStar and Fan Favorite 2011.
For more information, please message and don't hesitate to ask around. Come at me with something genuine and valuable about yourself. Be authentic, be real.
Positive and negative references will be provided. References from you will be requested and checked.
*Extroverted (E) 58.62%
*Introverted (I) 41.38%
*Sensing (S) 50%
*Intuitive (N) 50%
*Feeling (F) 62.5%
*Thinking (T) 37.5%
*Perceiving (P) 50%
*Judging (J) 50%
ENFP - "Journalist". Uncanny sense of the motivations of others. Life is an exciting drama. |
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Thoughtful phrase of the day: "...specific flavor of judgmental bitchade." |
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I'm 40 and I've always thought of myself as a tomboyish bisexual with a strong preference for women. In the last year or so, I've started feeling much more masculine. I'd like a penis for several reasons (pissing my name in the snow being a big factor!), but I don't want to be a man.
I don't really know if a label fits, and I like labels cause then I can assign a definition and better understand what is communicated. Even if it means that definition is different between one person or the next.
I do know that I like being a female, with boobs and a 'gina. I don't like my boobs, but only because I wish they were bigger/perkier. Aesthetically, I don't like my 'gina cause its just not a pretty 'gina. There's pretty 'gina's and there's not pretty 'gina's. I don't like the havoc of my reproductive system, or the hair in places that regardless of what nature dictates, hair shouldn't be there! I like my fuller lips, my slightly larger nose, my girly lashes, little ears, and Barney Rubble feet. I like manicures and pedicures. I like my big ol butt (except its saggin with dimples), and my child bearin' hips.
I like putting on makeup and "girling" out on occasion, but for the most part its just too damn much work! I like dramatic makeup, crazy hairstyles/colors, corsets, and push-up bras with a see-through top. I also like button down shirts, wife-beater shirts, boy-shorts, button-fly Levi's, and cute or frilly underwear. I like heels but I prefer combat type boots or my pink Crocs. XD
What catches my eye in a potential female partner? Juiciness. Curves. Accented curves and a round little belly. Smellin' good, witchy eyes, full lips, longer hair (especially curly), and a hint of demure. Red-headed and freckled? Just shoot me. Mocha skin and braids/dreads? Bang. Shorter than me? Ah, hell.
What keeps my attention? She can be as comfortable getting dirty hauling downed trees as she can being a decked out service jewel at a dinner party and thrives in either atmosphere. She ain't no princess but she could wear a tiara. She can work without being afraid of breaking a nail or having dish pan hands 'cause the girl knows how and when to take care of those problems. Honest, down to earth without being rude and she can find amusement in the crass without being trashy. Picky; about who she serves and why. Her actions aren't determined from between her legs, but from between her mind, heart, and spirit.
What do I consider eye-candy? Butch (especially in a uniform or decked out in leather. Drool.) Amazon (tall, thick, and powerful feminine), Androgyny. Female/male impersonators! There's something attractive to me about these folks. |
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