Home
Home
Browse Profiles
Browse
Collarspace Video
Live
Join Collarspace
Join
Collarspace
Dating
Dating
Collarspace News
News
Collarspace Glossary
Glossary
Collarspace Mobile
Mobile
Alt
Alt
Safety
Safety
Extreme Restraints
Toys
Friends
Live BDSM
Resources
Resources
Welcome to Collarspace
Welcome
Login
Login
Vertical Line
Triskelion

elcd

Back
Back
Kinky People Meet
KPM
Interests
 Interests

About elcd

Deleted my profile before, now I'm back. Can be found on under the same name. This place seems to be filled with disrespectful twats with no regards for the general expectations and etiquette of the BDSM scene.
With that out of the way, Hi, I'm J.
I've been in the scene for a couple years now, and have a bit of experience in all things kink. Whilst I predominately identify as Dominant, I have a switch side I would love to explore more, as I believe you can only truly appreciate what you are doing if you've seen both sides of the coin. This isn't an open invitation for disrespect though.

I have an interest in bondage, power exchange, toys, ropes, tease and denial, flogging and plenty more.?
So I guess I could be a little less vague in my self deion. Let's shed some light on that shall we?
I'm a mid twenties guy living in Sydney, Australia. I work full time in retail, with a history and background in everything from events to logistics. What can I say - I like consistent and evolving challenges, and being a Gemini, I get bored sometimes. I'm random, unpredictable, cocky, arrogant, opinionated and intelligent, although I tend to act stupid so people will underestimate, and not feel intimidated by me. With a wicked (both literally and figuratively) sense of humour, a desire to see the best in people, a generous and caring nature, I guess it all balances out.
I live and breath music, though i enjoy chilling out and playing video games, watching movies, hitting the beach and just lazing about in the sun. I want to experience all that life has to offer, and I'm happiest when pursuing that desire.
If you wanna chat hit me up, I'm open minded and love meeting new people. But if you demand i kiss your boots or open up with a suitably lame one liner you can crawl back under the rock from whence you came :)

You want the world presented to you on a silver platter. You write essays on the ideal piece of meat. You show no respect, and expect multitudes in return. You think that you are right no matter the situation. You believe that the bottom has no rights, thoughts or opinions to offer. You care for money and financial stability. You define someone elses limits, and think it amusing to push them beyond their bounds of comfort in to the territory of harm.

That's what I see in the female dominant and dommes here, and it is a shame. A shame because I would love to explore my submissive side with someone, and if you think that you are not what I've described above, please do not hesitate to message me.

 

Otherwise, go back to your fantasies of a harem of wealthy pathetic pigs paying for your every whim. Your fantasies of inflicting grievous mental, emotional and bodily harm upon unsuspecting newbies and the rest. You're a vapid existence in my opinion, and I have little time for you.

I may be submissive at times, I may be dominant at times. But I am not a pushover, and I know exactly what I will and will not tolerate. 

Good and Bad rants ahead!


So let's get the bad out of the way first:
Wannabes, read this: Just because you think you are dominant, doesn't mean you are a mistress or a master, nor does it mean that you are automatically entitled to expect to be treated as such by complete strangers. Regardless of your experience, you're not M/my Mistress or Master, so don't expect me to treat you like it. Like it or not, you still have to earn the respect before you get the servitude you seem to crave - so lose the conceited attitude of self righteous entitlement, and you may just land that playpartner you're looking for. On the other side, subs - you're not door mats, and unless you are 24/7 slave with an agreement with your Master (or Mistress), you don't have to take shit from anyone. I really do pity some people on here, given what I've heard from my female friends with profiles. But I place the majority of the problem back on male dominants - seriously guys, we need to shape up.


With that out of the way, on to the good. I love my new job, life is fkn great. I'm about to move in to a new joint with two awesome randoms, and it's fkn awesome! Packing is a chore, but the outcome is well worth the effort!

Male Submissive, 42, Roseville, California
Male Switch, 18, haines city, Florida
Male Submissive, 57, boston, Massachusetts
Male Dominant, 40, East Haven, Connecticut
Male Dominant, 39, buenos aires
ElCid
Male Dominant, 34, Houston, Texas
Male Dominant, 23, Minneapolis, Minnesota
Male Dominant, 39, Athens
Male Dominant, 33, North Louisiana, Louisiana
Male Switch, 52, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Male Dominant, 49, NoordNL
Male Dominant, 19, Mesa, Arizona