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Physical: tall, slender, and in great shape.
Non-lifestyle: educated, creative, and easily bored.
Lifestyle: dominant.
On dominance and dominants:
It seems to me that there are four basic types of dominants, and that each type tends to enjoy a certain style of power. The four types are based around the archetypes of the military sergeant, the police officer, the parent, and the teacher.
Like the drill sergeant, the military dominant emphasizes discipline. More than anything else, he or she expects obedience from the submissive. The police-style dominant is similar, but authority (the right to exercise power) is more important than discipline. The difference between the two can be seen clearly in how each dominant reacts to an ill-behaved submissive. While the military dominant becomes angry at the submissive’s lack of discipline, the police-style dominant enjoys the opportunity to enforce his or her authority. An ill-behaved submissive would be punished in each case, but towards different ends. On one hand, the military dominant punishes in order to correct the submissive’s behavior and doesn’t necessarily enjoy the punishment at all. On the other hand, the police-style dominant punishes in order to enjoy the authority to do so, and isn’t usually concerned with actually correcting behavior.
Conversely, the parental dominant emphasizes nurturing, rarely enjoying giving out punishments and often tolerating misbehavior. The parental dominant even enjoys a submissive who misbehaves in a cute way, so long as the submissive does not endanger his or herself or others. The parental dominant does enjoy teaching, but not to the degree of the teacher. That fourth type of dominant is primarily concerned with the growth of the submissive. Whereas the primary role of the parental dominant is to protect the submissive, the teacher’s main concern is to help the submissive to be the best submissive that he or she can possibly be.
Of course, most dominants have all four of these traits to some degree or another, and many submissives are attracted to more than just one of these archetypes. At the same time, most dominants will fit one of the types more than the others (I personally fall into the fourth category most), and submissives likewise usually prefer one type.
Just some food for thought. Comments welcome.
D.
What do I seek in a partner?
My partner could be many things, but two things are most important: We must have compatible sexual tastes, and you must have live a healthy lifestyle (or at least the sincere desire to start doing so).
I tend to be most attracted to women in their early to mid 20's, but age is so much less important than attitude. I look for and an attitude of reflection, self awareness, and growth. Even if you just want to be a slut, a whore, or a fuck-toy; you strive to be honest with yourself about it, and you want to be the best fuck-toy.
I am ultimately looking for a long-term, real life relationship; but I am not going to sit around on my hands waiting for that to happen. Online and/or casual relationships are fine with me, as long as they are interesting and fun.
Otherwise, I am always interested in meeting people with any of the following characteristics: Caring; Understanding; Empathy; Intelligence; Creativity; Generosity; Quiescence; Motivation; Compassion; Respectfulness; Sharing; Modesty; Moderation; Humor; et cetera. |
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