dufferdavej

About dufferdavej

I believe in life we are all given a role,
Some are born to lead,
Some to follow,
Others give nothing, but take all.
Others give, but keep some for themselves.
Others (like myself) have to give their all.


I am a sensitive, submissive male. A submissive with the heart of a slave. I am seeking an Intelligent, Decisive, Dominant, LOVING Woman for a long-term, hopefully life long relationship. A Female Led Relationship.

Perhaps I've just caught your attention, perhaps your curiosity or hopefully I've just awoken a deep hidden desire within you. Maybe you've always felt this craving to be more in control, to lead a relationship. Have you ever felt deep down that you knew what was better for you, for the man you love, for the relationship itself? Only for the man to obstruct the growth, the trust, the commitment, the passion and love?

This is NOT about man-hating, or getting even. This may just be the opportunity for you to unleash what you've always known you've desired. To be in control of your relationship, to be truly listened to and heard. All done with the love, caring, nurturing and passion you've kept within for fear of being misjudged.

How do I know about the males role in the demise of relationships? Well, I was that male. Not knowingly though, more or less raised with the belief that this was the mans role, to be in charge at all times, to be the leader at all times, "Father Knows Best" mentality. Can you relate to this?

Now, I am a free man from this due to my acceptance that I may be a leader at work, a strong decisive man in my community, but in the home, in my relations with women I do not know what's best. I can lead, in general outside the home in society. I am intelligent, mechanically inclined, good business sense, great organizer, but in the home, I have an uncanny way of being the opposite.

Once you've accepted your flaws as I have, no one can use them against you. So I submit myself to having the woman be in charge, in the bedroom, the house, the relationship, which includes when I'm away from her out in society. Devotion to her 24/7, always keeping in mind I am Hers, outside the home with and without her company, I represent her. Never to shed bad light upon her through my actions. Through this submission, this surrender, I actually have gained inner freedom.

I am submissive, I adore strong powerful?women who appreciate attention and are naturally in charge. I am aroused when doing simple meaningless tasks for a woman. Because I feel a sense of wholeness when under the care and direction of a woman.
I am submissive with the yearning and desires of a slave. What i mean is that Society & Reality dictates that I cannot be a 100 percent owned slave, I hold employment, I have family responsibilities these are the things that hold me to being only submissive.
But, I am looking for someone to take the other 98 percent of me.

I am a seeking to serve a Woman, Mistress, Goddess and to submit and serve to any of her desires, kink or fantasy. And to share and accompany her in the vanilla world, to also be a companion but never an equal partner. In that she will always be the one in charge, the final say, the decision maker.

I seek a good loving Woman that will also discipline me when called for. The Discipline may be light or if You wish, severe, as long as my endurance would be expanded over time.

Domestically i would be Your servant or houseboy, clean your house, cook for You, (i was an executive chef for 30 years), wash your car, do your yardwork, clean your bathroom, laundry, home improvement?projects, anything You wish.

My wishes, should You grant them, are that You keep me nude in the home, keep me in chastity and Love me enough to Discipline me.

Looking for that special someone that would put me in long-term chastity, own my genitals, my orgasms and be the Keyholder regardless of distance.
I am in every sense normal and within the vanilla (outside) world I am well liked and respected at work and within my community. I am private and very discrete. I would be an asset to Your household and ease of life. A willing houseboy for service and amusement NOT OUT OF FEAR BUT FROM DESIRE to please You. Out of sheer devotion and love only a submissive can give. A wonderful companion out on the town. I am obedient simply because I desire to serve You.

TABOOs:
Nothing illegal,
No children,
No incest
No animals

I am DD free.