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We live in a dualistic state throughout most of our lives, to think otherwise is to mislead yourself. Although I'm seeking a long term, committed and mutually fulfilling relationship with a submissive woman, I will come into that relationship with baggage. I am currently in a vanilla relationship that I have no desire to end. Hence my dualism and my selected profile name.

To be clear, I seek an also attached woman for a discreet, committed relationship where our complimentary needs and kinks will be fully explored. I know many on here will be shaking their heads as they read this, as my profile may indicate to them a dichotomy and not an duality. Simply pass me by then, as I am truthful about who I am and what I seek. I will not tread on you, you simply should not tread on me.

In terms of who I am and what I offer, I'm firm, yet know when to bend; strict, yet very much a Daddy type; I enjoy the corporal arts (bondage, spanking, etc), but am not a sadist. I will firmly control, yet love the sensuality of touch with a cared for one. I expect full submission when I am with my one, yet also know that there are times where than is not appropriate. I make no assumptions and play no games (other than Ds inspirited games that will delight us both).

Besides being also attached, you should also be intelligent, fun, very submissive and have an open mind. I'm looking for a woman of personality, so physical appearance and age is less important that chemistry and how 'WE" are together.

I work hard at being fit and strong, I watch my diet and I spend a lot of time in the gym both doing cardio(not my favorite thing) and lifting weights(love this). I may be older, but I am stronger and more fit then most, regardless of age. I work out with great intensity (i.e. I don't stand in front of a mirror doing curls). Having said that, I don't expect you to share my strong workout and diet ethic, just know it's a big part of my life. I'm also a weekend musician, so I have much time and effort invested in that activity as well.

Please understand that I'm not looking for a one time little fling, nor am I looking for a stable of submissives. I hope to find one other dualist female submissive that can share and explore our mutual and complimentary needs. Please feel free to say hello, conversation is always welcome. One never has too many real friends..
Good luck in your search..
DD