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:) I am a sweet kind and bubbly Submissive Lady, I am neither a whore, nor a Bottom... I do not have a problem with women that say that they are. I do not say those terms like there is anything wrong with either of those terms, they are simply not who I am. 
I wanted to introduce myself once again. I was forced due to some annoying person's behavior to eliminate my former profile and well...here is the new and more delightful one ENJOY!!
As i have stated before I am a sweet, kind,conciderate and loving Lady! I am extremely choosey as to whom I will and will not play with! I do not "bottom" I never have, I do not forsee myself ever being able to Play casually as a bottom does.
In actuality I lean more into the realm of being a slave, but due to my everyday life responsibilities of raising children, taking care of my home and actually paying my share of taxes that uncle sam seems to place upon us, there just isnt enough time to be able to do all that I feel is necessary to keep the man of my dreams truly taken care of properly.
I supposed becasue of my Irish/Italian Catholic upbringing I have old fashioned veiws of what a Lady should be, but it seems to me that my views of a Lady is exactly what a good submissive is. I guess my parents would be proud of me after all! well at least my daddy would be!
I lean more toward the worldy men that are out there. In that respect I do tend to be happiest and in return my partner's are happiest with me when i am in a daddy/daughter-like relationship. A daddy/daughter-like relationship doesnt, in my opinion, have anything to do with an actual age difference. To me it is more of a life experience issue. 
I was married at a young age, for a very long time, and i have alot (by today's standards) of children. I lead a very sheltered existance. I stayed at home most of my marriage and took care of the house and home. Basically I was Donna Reed. Okay if Donna Reed wore a leather corset with her garter belt and stockings!
I was happiest in that setting. I have been single and enjoying the new adolescence the i have been put into for the past 3 years. However, it seems to me that i usually end up in the same type of relationships over and over again...and in that respect I am truly happy.
I am one of the few people in the world that actually knows what makes me happy!
I am happy when I am involved with a Man that is single, caring, and has some life experience to him. I have best success with men that have children...or at least have always wanted to have children. Although I do not mix my men and my children....if things do work out down the road the two will become one and hopefully a family will be born!
I am open minded, but old fashioned...is that possible? well i believe it is. I am a firm believer in being true to myself and with my partner. I expect him to be as well. I am unable to be involved with liars, cheaters, abusers of any kind (alcohol, cigarettes, or people ).
ALthough I am not a very religious person, I do believe in God. And I do find it sacrilige for those that call themselves or others the term goddess.. In my opinion there is but 1 GOD and honey he isn't a middle aged, bleached blonde, gum snapping, whip shooting, wicked minded woman that beats on people's minds and bodies. but I am sure that you understand my meaning behind this issue.
Okay i have written about who and what i am about. perhaps you would like to know what I look like and all those other boring kind of things right?
Well I stand in at 4-10 on a good day 4-11, I have dazzling green eyes that are quite ugly when i cry (problem averted, don't make me cry)!, I have long red hair that does, I readily admit, get a bit of help from colorsilk. But at the age of 40 how many ladies can say that they do not chemically kiss any part of their bodies? I have delicate, lilly white skin that pinks up at the slightest touch (i am irish after all), I am curvy at the right places. my measurements are 43-29-43. I wear a size 6 1/2 shoe for those that like to know...when in doubt a size 7!
I live on the south shore of suffolk county,
I have a bad back, and I am retired from the health care field both courtesy of a car wreck a few years back. I am financially independant and would not expect you to financially support me and my children...but I do not want to financially support you either.
I am a two time survivor of breast cancer and have recently celebrated the first birthday of my girls! ( breast reconstruction) I am in remission for over 2 nearly 3 years now.  And because of that reason...the twins are off limits to be played with at all...they are too expensive to be broken, you do know that old saying right? you break them, you bought them!! well these babies are 10K plus a couple of months recovery! a bit too expensive to be broken!
If you have any questions of are interested in getting to know a true Lady, please drop me a note and i will get back to you. Please tell me about yourself if you havent written a profile that tells me about you. I have pulled my photo off for a little while but one of yours will get you one of mine.
have a great day
little red |
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Little Red believes:
It is better to be hated for
what you are
Than to be loved for
what you are not
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it was quite nice to see old and new friends last evening...some times it is the most fun when you leave things to chance!
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I look forward ot seeing you all at the holloween party next weekend at Paddles.. The costume...now the fun begins?? lace... leather...chain...thread...it should be great!! |
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I was given a quote when a friend and i were speaking of an issue that concerned the two of us...
It is better to be hated
for what you are
than to be loved
for what you are not!
I thought that to be quite profound!! and basically it put a new look on some things that have been going on in my life as of late!
i shall put that one to memory...If anyone can tell me who wrote it i would love to be able to give credit where credit is due!
little Red
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I happened upon the birthmonth thread in the message board and decided to post mine in here since i felt that it bears a very close representation to who i am. The majority of the time i do not even bother with the hocus pocus type of things
Your Birth Month is February
 Peaceful and harmonious, you seek the gentle side of life.
Your warmth and consideration touches many.
Your soul reflects: Purity, modesty, and faithfulness
Your gemstone: Amethyst
Your flower: Iris
Your colors: Purple, yellow, and light blue |
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It was nice seeing you all that attending the munch on sunday..It has been so long since i have been out and about. After all taking care of life's business can get in the way. And well it was nice meeting new friends, THANK YOU so much for coming all that way to meet people that you didn't even know Sir! And ending up an hour past the place muct have just made your day! I only wish i could have given better direction.. i guess that is why they invented Map Quest! Well once again I just wanted to say hello and grrat to see you all!
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I was wondering why people feel the need to comment on peoples weight and looks...I happened upon a profile the other day , and someone made a comment concerning the weight of "some pathetic bitch" I honestly have worked very hard to pare my weight down from nearly 200lbs 2 years ago to the 140lbs i am now...and I would never make a comment about someone;s weight...or looks for that matter.
What I found to be the most amazing thing is that this woman seems to feel that she is a godlike person and well as I do not make judgements of other people's appearances I must just leave it to say that I really wish that she would have stuck to the addage "people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones"
I also would LOVE to have the Mirror that this wench looks into to say that the particular person gained alot of weight! i believe as women we tend to be the harshest on our selves...and well I just want her Mirror...it must be a carnival mirror that warps her features into one that she feels are attractive.
To me an acne marked face& back and having pictures where your fat bulges are showing .... well I just do not feel that that is attractive at all particularly when this is the person making comment about somone else.
I happened upon a few profiles of women that I concider to be actual Beautiful Big woman... I know i was always one. At the age of 18 I was 4-10 and weighed in at 195lbs and was miss teen of NY so i was actually a BBW with a crown and a sash to prove it!
I feel that people that make snide remarks take them selves down 3 pegs on the attraction scale...I may not be a perfect 10 on the physical beauty scale, but i do hope that my inner beauty surpasses what nature gave me and creates a total beauty that all find attractive!
To me a size 7 with a 22 inch waist doesn't make you attractive...I have met more than one stunning to the eye woman who turned around and said something and she became Instantily Ugly as sin. It is my hope that My inner beauty is seen by all, because as another saying goes...beauty is only skin deep...but Ugly goes straight to the core! and well my core i do hope is beautiful!
well have a great day
little red |
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Have you had your mamography yet??
The Twins turned 1 on thursday!!!
It was so nice to see all of my friends at the fetish fair on tuesday evening! It has been eons since I have seen most of you. Thank you for your kind compliments on the reconstruction I had done. I too am pleased that "The Girls" are back and perky! Yes although breast cancer took them away Modern medicine can replace them, silicone I am told feels just like thereal thing! And so I a quite thankful for the 200cc of saline wrapped in silicone sitting in each side of my chest!
While they are tiny by my point of view...(when one is used to being a 36 G/H a C or D cup is really Tiny!!) but i suppose it could be worse I could be left with a paultry A/B cup.. and well when one has a tiny 29 inch waist and a curvy 42 inch hip well one wouldn't want to be a voluptuos 49 or 50 inch bust anymore would one? And after waiting close to 2 years for the reconstruction and wearing a pair of prosthetic boobs for the duration, I cannot tell you just how much better I feel now. It has been one year since i had the reconstruction, yes the twins turned 1 on thursday.
One of the best parts about having brand new Tahtahs is that I do not even need to wear a bra the girls are just up there and perky...at the age of 40 I feel I look better than alot of women half my age.. but let me end there about how good my boobs did turn out, after one year of time they have settled nicely and well unless you knew otherwise you wouldnt know at all that they are replacements! They aren't fake...they are mine! I bought and paid for them so that makes them mine...they may not have a long life expectancy but well I will happily take care of these girls for the 7-10 years that they are expected to last! and when they need to go that red bag in the sky I will have them replaced again. A lady usually has Boobs!
I haven't mentioned it before but since i didnt realize that some people didnt know that I had had breast reconstruction due to breast cancer. I felt it necessary to tell mention, after all October is breast cancer awareness month: HAVE YOU HAD YOUR MAMOGRAPHY DONE?? |
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I have, over the past 5 days, repeatedly been told to delete my profile ...why i don't know!!!! i had already done that after recieving harrassing emails and getting followed on an evening out. With the person that insisted that i delete my profile..
I deleted my profile at alt the same evening due to a sneaky witch like person somehow getting into my accounts. Yep I was one of those stupid people that used the same password for both accounts...hey why shouldn't all of my alternative interest have the word kinky as a password? LOL well this would be that reason...they get one password they get them all!
Well anyhow i was told
"DELETE IT NOW",
and want to know something? I didn't.. Call me willfull I suppose i am. I do not plan on deleting anything for anyone anymore ....In this case it really doesnt matter.
MY trust is gone in this particular situation. I am a person and I was not respected....What is he going to do? It isn't like i feel that he has anything to offer me anymore!
True colors have been shown, the man that i believed wanted to be my partner showed me that to him I am not important enough to confront the one who is harrassing me. And so I have once again made the choice for him!
I am worthy of a truly wise man, one that is able to as in the words of my great gotee wearing friend of mine "keep his women inline".
It fails me to think why he would think that i would want to be involved with someone that cannot keep his ladies inline.
I encountered this situation a long time ago and how it was handled was that all invoved got kicked to the curb. That I could handle, at least i wouldn't be the one singled out and told to sit and be quiet and behave. Basically o be expected to be someone's dirty dirty little secret.!
I may be little but i will not be anyone's dirty little secret!
.. I wonder there What is me deleting my profile supposed to do? As i said I deleted my profile about a month ago. When i deleted my alt one..My great picture was lost but i still have the account and well i still have the first ammendament right to have my free speach out there for any one who chooses, to read it!
and so The profile was deleted..funny that the person that was harrassing me was as well. Perhaps the one who insisted that i cancel the profile is trying to keep his ladies in line?
The sad thing is that this one isn't staying in his line anymore, and i was the only lady that was in the line to begin with! |
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Unfortunately due to the harrassment i have been recieving by some foolish person i have had to take a back seat in my search for the one true servable Dominant. While i have a very good idea.....and minimal proof of who the said person is, I have had to readjust my profile. I have decided to eliminate her chances of annoying me.
It seems that this particular person is so insecure that she feels the need to consistantly write Untruths and Innuendoes. and statements bordering on threats. I have not changed who i see and how i behave. I have just eliminated her modes of being able to "get to me" I continue to see who i wish and play with whom ever i wish.
And in that respect she has NOT impacted my life! There is THE hint of control i maintain in this situation. I continue to have my ongoing contact with the Dom i choose to interact with...and he continues to be pleased ...actually he is more than pleased ...judging by the smile on his face after we finish playing. And so that is my little payback. I have managed to make the man happier then she ever has or could!
Everyone knows
you don't tug on superman's cape,
you don't spit into the wind,
you don't pull the mask off the old long ranger and you don"t mess around with GEM!
So im sorry if you are missing looking at my delectable pictures that normally are on my profile....if you wish to see one...dont hesitate just send me a note and if i feel that you are worthy i will send you the pucture that used to be one of the top viewed picturs in this site!
yours in leather
little one |
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