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I'm romantic, I'm caring, and I genuinely am concerned about the other person's enjoyment. Does this really make me less of a Dom? Had a few comments from people that make me wonder about what the expectation really is. I see profiles about subs wanting a caring/loving/thoughtful Dom, and yet it seems that so far the ones I actually meet are wanting something more raw and less loving. I'll keep looking and hope to one day find that one for whom D/s is as much about love and caring as it is about control, punishment, and torture.
Guess that's the good thing about being a dreamer - there's always the hope.... |