I am in the process of producing a local-access TV show that will present non-vanilla sexuality in a positive light and I'm looking for educators, vendors, practitioners, fetish models, etc., to have on as guests.
Each show will cover one specific kink (CFNM, cross-dressing, bondage, BBW, leather, latex, feet, tattoos, bod-mod, hosiery, whatever) and will include a speaker who is well-versed in the history of the topic, the fashion and/or props related to it, and demonstration.
For those with privacy concerns: some participants may appear with masks or off camera.
This is a great opportunity
• to promote your business and services
• kink events
• craft
• and for others to share their experiences trying to find satisfaction in vanilla relationships. What has worked for them and what hasn't.
Shows will be pre-recorded at a local Boston studio on Saturdays from noon-2pm. Free parking is available.
Once the show is completed, it will be presented late night on TV (time slot TBA) and then archived on YouTube.
A release must be signed - even by those who wear masks - to participate.
This is effective immediately so please share this with people you think would be interested.
Private message me with your questions or your area of interest if you are certain you want to take part.
Thanks
Yes, I will be at the Fetish Fair on Saturday. PM Me if you want to meet.
The holidays were a busy time and then I needed a break
Thanks to the person with the initials FCB, whoever you are. I received your wishlift gift this afternoon. Was that something you'd like used on you? :)
My friend will be in town next Thursday, Sept 20, and we are scheduling sessions for "Two Girls and a (torture) Table" starting at 4PM. Contact me if you're interested in getting worked over by two imposing Dominas.
I'M BLOWN AWAY!!! My house bitch, the executor of a Memorial Trust, made a generous donation to my favorite charities in my name. Many. many thanksfor giving to the Spay/Neuter Assistance program of MA and the Animal rescue League. He will be doing more good than you can imagine.
Was told I'm pretty and friendly with a cute personality. Soft, girly, sensual... and deceptively rough. Is as a bad thing? ;-)
Now why would someone email me to tell me they had a hot time with a Domme that doesn't need 48 hours notice? Was that supposed to make me feel badly or something?
Excellent session with a very obedient pain whore last night. Lovely person eager to please and serve. Made that bitch mine. ;)
Thanks to slave for the lovely massage table I've had an eye on for a long time. Can't wait to tie you down to it :)
Open your mouth. I need to pee... and don't forget to clean me.
Obedience is learned and not something that can be feigned. Submissives tend to want to top from the bottom until the rules are made clear. This is when the really starts to know their place. https://.com/users/884523/posts/1149407
I can't help but think that "50 Shades of Grey" is going to do to BDSM what "Saturday Night Fever" did to disco. It is to BDSM what Old Navy flip flops are to Louboutins. Once edgy stuff becomes mainstream it loses a lot of its allure.
house bitch likes humiliation and shits himself when he gets it. Check out love photo #3, I think. It had to take the trash out in crotchless panties and a frilly apron :) It did such a lovely job cleaning the house, I rewarded it with a lovely paddling to Wagner's "Flight of the Valkyries." I love culture, don't you? :)
The blunt but very wise Goddess Bella Donna speaks for me. If you want to know exactly what I think, take the next 12 minutes and watch this video
A house bitch got locked up, sucked on different sized strap ons to see what a real penis feels like, did dishes, and now is sorting and doing laundry in his CB-6000S... for small. It should be M for mini... for that petite dicklet. Completed his blackmail application like a good little piggy. Check out the main photo. :)
I get so many emails offering to "serve" me, whatever that means. When I ask them to define "service," there's generally very little in their definition that adds to the quality of my life in any way. More often than not, it's something vague and one-sided to their benefit. Those who have become my pets are generous servants that adopt my expenses and chores in order to make my life easier, in exchange for being in my company and used for my amusement, whim, and friendship. They move at my pace and not the other way around.
They come to me to experience their fantasy with someone non-judgmental who knows exactly what it is and exceeds their expectations.
Domestic sissy boys are so much fun to have around. Sometimes they're brilliant and we discuss everything from politics to science to history while they work. If they get too engaged in conversation and dally, time flies and they don't get to wash my panties. Often, even extra tribute won't buy you more time because I have a life. Schedule wisely if you want to wash my delicates.
Great session with a domestic sissy this week. Worked the little bitch to the bone and my place is spotless. I made him walk around in crotchless panties with his tiny clit exposed and let him wear a sundress to take the trash out. HAd him beet red and sweating like the pig that he is. How fun.
Loved the tribute and gifts too, too. :)
You say you want to please and serve but what do you do that is completely selfless - especially for a proDomme?
I hope everyone had a happy Fourth. I certainly did.
Anyone into Executive Bitch feet that have been in nylons and pumps all day? I am currently taking appointments for office sessions for those wanting to serve under my desk. Message me to reserve your spot.
Landed in the ER last night with abdominal pain that was building up for the last few days. A few hours and some IV meds late, I'm feeling better. Hate being on horse pills for the next few days though. Yuck. https://www.collarspace.com/js/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-frown.gif" alt="Frown" border="0" />
I'm strrrrressed out. I need to decorate my new place.
So happy to have the move done with but this dreary weather isn't allowing me to enjoy to my new place in the middle of everything.
Moving next week and haven't had much time or focus to dedicate to anything else. In fact, it's been like this for a while. I haven't scheduled sessions r/t, on cam or phone. It's not that I'm ignoring anyone but priorities, you know? The middle of next month should be good for all of that. I will be sessioning with my usuals but now also interested in domestic slaves that know the meaning of spotless.
Here's an entry I contributed to a thread on Financial Domination. Re: the bratty, insulting approach. Feel free to message me with your thoughts.
It's kind of interesting how you're describing women pre-Feminism; before we decided it was a good idea to compete with men on the social and emotional level as well. Before we confused them about the best way to treat us.
Jackie O is a wonderful example of this as were all the famous concubines in history. These women didn't have wishlists. Their every need provided for, jewels were showered on them, allowances given, drivers sent.
Many American women think going Dutch is normal and the way to go, yet it's one of the many ways we take away a man's desire to please (in a non-kink context). It's how these misguided women express their independence, as if that was all there is to it. They don't seem to understand how truly submissive it makes them - the women, I mean.
Not only have they've turned men into lazy takers, they've thrown the baby out with the bathwater and lost all the material benefits of allowing themselves to be "served" and "pleased."
Many financial Dommes have taken the insulting-brat route because they don't know any better. Doing it differently would be awkward for them because, after all, it's all most American women born in the late 60s and 70s (and their daughters) knows. Using natural feminine wiles then becomes awkward and many need to treat is as role play.
In my experience, refinement, polish, and femininity still trumps brattiness.
I need new pictures and I'm looking for a photographer in the Boston area. SERIOUS inquiries only. Contact me with a link to your gallery.
American men are funny.
Many have a problem paying for play and think that their enchanting personality should be enough to get them what they want.
And yet, they see nothing wrong staying with (and handsomely providing for) a partner that not only doesn't fulfill their fantasies but also doesn't deliver on the basics.
It's really interesting thinking: Reward the person that makes you look elsewhere and screw the person that accepts you.
See my profile picture? That's how I left a session with a sandal lover today... and I didn't notice for a couple of hours. That's what happens when you don't check your feet before leaving. LMAO!
A lawyer wrote to me today to say he's submissive and interested in sissification but only in his mind because he's never acted on it. My response:
It's nothing to be afraid of but it helps if you find the right chemistry with a Domme. Unfortunately, like anything else, you have to try to see who you have that chemistry with. Can't keep it in your head alone. Maybe someday you'll get the nerve to try. As a lawyer, you're used to having the upper hand. The right Domme is like a therapist that allows you to let go and relax.
He wrote back to say I am uncommonly an reflective sort of dominant. My response to that was: I understand people because I pay attention and I know myself. You can't be self-absorbed and reflective. It's just not possible. You'll meet someone when you're ready, I'm sure.
I really wish everyone had the wisdom and patience to find the right chemistry in their vanilla and their kink lives.
Back on 2/6/2012 12:09:24 AM, I asked my admirers to consider donating to the yearly fund drive for V-Day, a charity I am involved with. Yesterday was the culmination of the drive and a few of my generous admirers came through to the tune of $425. Thank you so much for your generosity. 100% of the proceeds go to the local V-Day chapter to help provide shelter and services to battered women and their children.
Got the most interesting call on NiteFlirt. A naughty schoolboy who loves rain boots. Miss Diva teased him with hers and gave him the strap while he was on his knees with his pants down writing lines. Naughty, dirty boy. Next time his punishment will be administered in front of the class. https://www.collarspace.com/js/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-wink.gif" alt="Wink" border="0" />
Last night, I deleted just under 200 pages of email from my CM mailbox. Many of the emails were from the same people who just want to play online and fantasize.
Some were from people who use two or three different profiles. No comment on these.
Some were from "Secret Santas" who have sent gifts from my wish list with no intention of ever meeting.
Some were from guys who write from their male AND female profiles. I guess they want to see how the other half lives here.
Some were from other fabulous Dommes.
Some were from vanilla men pretending to be Dommes. No comment on these either.
Some wanted committed relationships.
Some were from foreign countries who wanted to relocate for me. Sorry boys, my initials are not USCIS.
Most never read my profile. This is disappointing because there's a reason we create one.
All and all it's been an interesting study in human behavior. I only kept about 25 pages consisting of April mail and mail from people who have stepped up to reality and become clients and friends. All this was only since October 2011 when I signed up.
I've thought long and hard about this and I sincerely don't intend to offend anyone. It's more an effort to clarify MY own position on the matter and encourage potential slaves to read profiles carefully.
pro-Domme - aka a professional dominatrix, i.e. a female who is trained in the art of female domination for BDSM role play (and, in my case, foot play), and charges an hourly fee for sessions with male submissives.
In the old-school definition, the slave is denied sexual release and, if this is what they seek, they should contact another type of sex worker who may not be experienced in domination and not concerned with acts that would fall under the legal definitions of prostitution.
Additionally, as a pro-Domme, I choose not to entertain anyone under the age of 40 when many "slaves" are still not comfortable with the exchange of a fee for service and prone to thinking that domination is a service that can be substituted by a common booty call.
And, let's face it, if finding a willing companion to indulge your fantasy was easy, you wouldn't be here looking. I do, however, wish everyone finds a wonderful companion to explore their fantasies with.
By special request, I've decided to create a youtube page where I model shoes sent to me by admirers, slaves, and those hoping to be slaves.
If you want me to create a shoe video for you, email me the link to the pair you'd like to get for me and I'll get back to you.
Added Bonus: Since I only have so much roominmy closet, you get the shoes back when they're all worn an ratty lol
This is a BAD START for aspiring slaves lol Learn the lesson to avoid not being dismissed...
The last month has been stressed-filled and that's why you haven't seen me here. Well, I'm back and all the happier because I got 3 new pairs of shoes yesterday. My summer shoe wardrobe is almost complete. Sweet.
I hope you get a chance to come to Boston Footnight on the 11th and say hello. :)
OBSERVATION on Actions Speaking Louder Than Words: I have never met an unconditional financial sub. You know, those guys that claim to want their wallets raped? I have however, been at the receiving end of subs who give without me asking and without expecting anything in return, and those who go in my wishlist and send gifts just because. Their selflessness gives them a chance to earn the right to be my bitch... and any Domme/lady would be lucky to have them.
One of my submissive friends shared this with me after a conversation we had about so-called "submissives." I experience this scenario at least a couple of times a week and feel the same amusement (or frustration) every single time.
I had a problem with pixelated graphics but the conversation is something pro-Dommes and "submissive" can definitely relate to.
After receiving some silly messages and emails recently, I have been prompted to write the following Journal Entry. I am sure many of you will be able to relate to this:
It seems that some subs, slaves, fetishists and kinksters do not understand what it means when a Mistress states She is a Professional Mistress (also known as a Professional Dominatrix or Pro-Domme). And the 'pro' is NOT an abbreviation for 'prostitute' and neither does it allude to prostitution!
I am essentially a Professional Mistress which means that if you wish to serve Me, there will be a fee for the privilege of My professional time irrespective of whether that is a real time session in My dungeon, a chat online, email training or any variation of these alternatives.
If I have a profile on a kink site, that does NOT change My status as a Professional Dominatrix which is always clearly spelt out (so don't give Me the bullshit about not knowing I am a Pro-Domme). If you want to "chat", "hook-up" or have some "kinky fun", it will always involve a fee for My professional time no matter what idiosyncratic description you give it.
It is My prerogative to play at parties or public functions I attend and I only ever play with My collared slaves or My devoted serving sub and toy who have earned that privilege. If anyone else wishes to book My time at such an event, a fee will apply.
Let Me clarify by giving an example as My attendance at parties often causes the most conflict with subs expecting free 'play'. Imagine you are at a party and you meet a Doctor who has been practising in the medical field for years. Yes, they are professional; no, your medical problem is not life threatening or dangerous. So what gives you more right than anyone else at that party to expect and demand a free medical consultation and diagnosis during their social time just because they happen to be a Doctor?
In that vein, do not foolishly try to quibble about My tribute or My expectations in requiring a fee for My professional time. If you do, you are in essence placing no value on My professional experience and highly developed skills in My craft, which in My case just happens to be domination and the broad parameters this entails.
If you want to seek assistance from a professional accountant, you have to pay for their time. If you want to pick the brains of a professional tennis coach to help you improve your game, you have to pay for their time. you want to benefit from My professional dominant experience either in My own private space or at a public function during My social time? Then you have to pay for My time. The setting is irrelevant and My time is no less valuable than 'professionals' in any other field.
Gratuitous exchange is not possible and no amount of flattery will induce a reversal of My policy.
If you don't like the fact that you have to pay for My professional time, seek a lifestyle Mistress who may be more amenable to your request, only if you treat Her with the respect She also deserves.
As a professional, I still have a life outside of My "work" and My private life is freely reserved for My family and close friends.
Today I attended a meeting for one of the committees I belong to. Our fundraiser kickoff is in a couple of weeks and I suggested the idea of dressing up in my gear and selling pictures of people "Spanked to End Domestic Violence" at different bars and clubs. The organizers loved the idea. :) 100% of all proceeds go to domestic violence prevention programs in northeast MA and it helps a lot of adults and children that really need it.
Donations are tax-deductible, of course. If you would like to help, here's some information. If you'd like their Facebook link, contact me.
V-Day is an organized response against violence toward women.
V-Day is a vision: We see a world where women live safely and freely.
V-Day is a demand: Rape, incest, battery, genital mutilation and sexual slavery must end now.
V-Day is a spirit: We believe women should spend their lives creating and thriving rather than surviving or recovering from terrible atrocities.
V-Day is a catalyst: By raising money and consciousness, it will unify and strengthen existing anti-violence efforts. Triggering far-reaching awareness, it will lay the groundwork for new educational, protective, and legislative endeavors throughout the world.
V-Day is a process: We will work as long as it takes. We will not stop until the violence stops.
V-Day is a day. We proclaim Valentine's Day as V-Day, to celebrate women and end the violence.
V-Day is a fierce, wild, unstoppable movement and community. Join us!
HELP US AND OUR CAUSE BY MAKING A DONATION, HOWEVER BIG OR SMALL. YOUR CONTRIBUTION CAN HELP SO MANY WOMEN, CHILDREN AND EVEN MEN IN NEED. THANK YOU.
I let an admirer see me on cam and now I'm a "SUPER BITCH" lol
9:32:51 PM
cuck john: i don’t know what has me more excited you million dollar smile or hypnotic eyes
9:33:12 PM
MsDivaToes: oh boy
9:33:44 PM
cuck john: u fucking tease you are a super bitch i love it
The block button is a wonderful feature. Me likey http://cdn.collarspace.com/images/smileys/0011.gif" border="0" alt="{#}" />
Not often but, every once in a while, I am contacted by men claiming to be "subs" who like to Top from the bottom and men that are curious about being sub and treat it like a joke - and this especially applies to younger guys - because they're still not comfortable with those feelings about themselves. I've got two things to say to them:
Submissives do what they do because they usually lead high-responsibility lives and a lot is expected of them. The generally live very vanilla lives and interact with women that are either unfamiliar or unaccepting of their fantasies. They see Dommes to let go and decompress. To try to controll a Domme/sub interaction, too, defeats the purpose.
You can't lead unless you learn how to follow first.
Also, those mentioned above, if dont want to play for pay, that's fine. Many men find it humiliating to have to "resort" to that. Others are on a budget and, in these hard economic times, that's understandable. My advice to them is:
Read profiles carefully and if the woman says she's a pro-Domme, and you're not the type who is able or comfortable with paying, don't contact her. It's unfair of you to get angry with her because she won't give you freebies.
The diatribes that follow just prove you aren't a true submissive as no gentleman, especially a submissive, would ever be offensive to a Woman/Domme, and you ruin it for those that are.
Your online behavior speaks volumes about who you are when no one's watching.
Here's an interesting article about penis size someone shared with me on Facebook. All I can say is I'm not wasting my time with China and South Korea unless they're into SPH. There's a link in there to a piece about the correlation between penis size and IQ. Enjoy...
I read the The CUCKOLD Marriage Contract of Vows and I love it. It sounds like such a wonderful situation.
A Green fantasy: Selling all my old panties and delicates instead of throwing them away... and I'd want the new owners to send me pictures wearing them or with them stuffed in his mouth to prove they went to a good home. http://cdn.collarspace.com/images/smileys/0011.gif" border="0" alt="{#}" />
Cucks are so much fun. They truly are. I love when they dress me from head to toe so I can go on dates with better men than they'll ever be.
I just read the article about cucks and I wanted to share it with you. Drop me a line and let me know what you think.
Cucks are so much fun. They truly are. I love when they dress me from head to toe so I can go on dates with better men than they'll ever be.
I just read this article about
and I wanted to share it with you. Drop me a line and let me know what you think.
Sneakers just came off and my toesies are reeeeeeeeeeeeeking. Eww eww. I need them cleaned immediately.
Ooooooh so excited MsDivaToes.com is soon to be a reality. It's going to be a fun project.
Now I'm off to a little toe attention followed with dinner with one of my best girlfriends. Her famous chili with a wine pairing and lots of girl talk.
I'll tell her I'm planning CFNM gatherings where we can be served by nude subs. Fun http://cdn.collarspace.com/images/smileys/0011.gif" border="0" alt="{#}" />
One of my subs created a video for me featuring my film and voice clip, my photos, and my cat. It needs a little more work but it's a lovely effort. http://cdn.collarspace.com/images/smileys/0003.gif" border="0" alt="{#}" />
I'm a romantic a heart and this is the sweetest thing ever =0)
Finally saw "Avatar" and suddenly I want a tall, heroic, romantic, blue sissy. http://cdn.collarspace.com/images/smileys/0011.gif" border="0" alt="{#}" />
Went out on the balcony to have an uninterrupted phone conversation and I stepped in a puddle. Eww. Ran back in. Need to shower.
Looking for hot LOCAL subbies to worship my feet and serve me in pics for my new web page. You can wear a mask or your wig and makeup. Email me if you're interested.
Pedicure time. In Essie "Fishnet Stockings" of course :)
