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The Responsibilities of a Master and one born to serve...
...::: Before I begin, if you want to talk, by all means send a message. I have no intentions of wasting my time writing to a spam folder. :::...
The Master:
It is my responsibility as a master to guide you to be the best you can be. I have raised teenagers and Rottweilers successfully and certain principals are common to both. They both need boundaries and expectations to be set, they both need to be loved, encouraged, and rewarded, they both need discipline when they cross boundaries, and they both need stimulation to develop into something better than they are.
Certain things are different. When a child is very young there is a certain art to predicting their needs, they can't tell you when they are hungry, you just have to know. In the case of the dog this is lifelong, but as a child grows they become more self sufficient, and are given more responsibility. It is the duty of the Master to guide you, not to treat you like an animal and then be frustrated when you act like one.
The one born to serve:
You are a unique gift to humanity. You are valuable and to be cherished especially here, in this culture. While the rest of the world runs around trying to find their "piece of the pie" in your heart your desire is to sacrifice your desires for another's happiness.
Unfortunately society views this as strange. Mother Teresa was seen as an oddity, but her sacrifice came from a servant's heart.
Expectations:
The fact that we are here, on this website means that you have a desire for sexual play that some people would consider unusual. Hopefully this isn't a manifestation of an unresolved psychological trauma (too often is the case). I see no issue with having survived the trauma, I obviously have no issue with the coping residue of sexual play, but the demons do need to be put in their place for the sake of sanity.
I understand that sometimes pain can be a coping mechanism, endorphin's feel good. I've been there myself. That said, I will not tolerate mis-behavior for the sake of getting attention. If you need a spanking you are expected to ask for one... I will gladly give you what you need, not out of frustration or anger, but because I understand that you need a catalyst to break the barrier and let the tears flow, and then you need to be held.
I understand that being bound and used for someone else's pleasure can sometimes "reset the mind" that feels out of control and spinning in confusion, it's just letting go of things you cannot control by giving up control.
If we are to meet, it will be after quite some time. I'm not looking for a sex toy although they're fun to play with from time to time, there are far easier ways to obtain one. I'm hoping for someone who's strengths and weaknesses I know.
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Final question for the night... I need some terminology.
I hate referring to myself as "Master" (sounds too much like civil war slavery), "Daddy" is probably more appropriate, but as I have kids it's more of a turn off for me.
For the record, Pedophilia is the fetish that I will NOT "live and let live", I will turn your ass into the police.
So what's the term? |
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What I'm like sexually:
I have a voracious sexual appetite... so if you're interested in a long term relationship you'd better be able to keep up!
Spanking - Honestly I can take 'em or leave 'em, if you bend over in front of me I'm likely to swat your butt and leave a red hand print, but that's just being playful, not necessarily sexual. But if you're over my knee and getting a good firm paddling, and I find your jeans are soaked... well, that's the good stuff!
Bondage - Love it! Very symbiotic... you giving up control absolutely, and me having total control. Expect to be teased to the edge of orgasm and not be allowed to several times, then being given permission to with a time limit, and then distracted so that you can't... Don't worry, I'll let you eventually... and then after you do and you're sensitive, being teased some more. It's also a good opportunity to see how many orgasms I can extract from you.
Clothes - I'm a sucker for a pretty ass in a thong framed by garters, corsets too. Stockings kind of go without saying after that first sentence. Outward appearances I lean more toward the conservative, you can look great in that business suit or jeans, and I'll know what you have on underneath. Love those "sex in the city" panties that have a string of pearls that run between your legs, and even more those panties with a remote controlled vibrator built in, if you have masochistic tendencies, they probably make one that shocks too. <evil grin>
Anal play - If you love it great, no further explanation needed. If you hate it... don't worry my dear, I'll teach you to love it. I've experienced being on the "Sub side" of it, and I wouldn't ask someone to do something that wasn't mutually mentally and physically erotic. On a side note... I love the look of those jeweled butt plugs.
Oral(Receiving) - Oddly enough, not a must have all the time for me. It's certainly erotic to have a pet with her head in my lap unzip my pants spontaneously, and there is a certain power that comes with watching tears come and the gasp for air... but like I said, not a must have for me.
Oral(Giving) - I will admit that I've met one or two women that don't enjoy oral in general, but it's very unusual. I personally really enjoy teasing a woman tied to my bed mercilessly with my tongue and fingers.
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So I didn't say anything in my profile about the superficial part of me. It was intentional because I didn't want to sound like someone shallow looking for a piece of ass.
It occurs to me though that there's a high percentage of men out there that talk about discipline but don't have any self discipline. By that I mean they can't control themselves long enough to learn enough to land a decent job, or control their eating habits to maintain a healthy weight, or get to the gym and build some muscle.
Well, I have a decent job... I work in IT and telecommute to a job at a Fortune 500 company. In the past I've worked in construction, managed retail, and been a mechanic, I'd rather do those things, but IT pays better, and I don't miss working outside in Texas summers. I'm slowly building a business on the side.
A couple of years ago I dropped the extra weight I'd gained over the years since I left the Army, and I'm happy to say that I'm can wear the same uniforms I did when I was 19. I lift weights semi regularly, not obsessive like I'm going into competitive bodybuilding or anything, but I can bench press more than my own body weight.
I hate running, but usually run 3 or 4 5K's a year.
I have some grey in my hair, but when I look at some of the other men in my family, I'm happy that I have hair.
Anything else feel free to ask. |
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Can someone explain to me writing on someone else's ass? I just don't get how fucking an ass that has "Slut" written across it is erotic.
Not trying to judge... different strokes and all... I just don't get it. |
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