Ay up,
As honesty is the best policy, I'll go out and admit that I'm fairly-new to the world of 'speaking to other people who are kinky'. I've been slowly emerging into doing the sort of things I love with willing victims partners for a while now, so I can't pin-point where it is it all began. What I do know is that I have a very basic need to be in control, and take a visceral glee in making pretty boys do my bidding.
(Also, their faces look ever so pretty when the wince as you spank their arses or poke something long and girthy up there when they're tied down...)
Most of my kink is based in the bedroom, and I want to form a strong emotional bond with my sub. I want to be able to still go out and pass as 'nilla, and to be able to have a laugh about how daft it all is. And I want any guy who I'm with to be my intellectual equal, and someone with whom I can look with affection at the very least, and care for. Not that I won't do the 'restraints and spanky-ouchy-stuff' - I just want to be able to hug you after, and watch a film with you curled up on my lap giggle about geeky jokes and kiss it all better.
I'm not a massive fan of brattiness - what's the point in pushing back against submission? I know it works for some, but I'm not into topping from the bottom. I'd rather have the sensible, talking approach about what-you-want, what-I-want, etc.
I don't go in for 'Mistress-this, Ma'am-that' from the word go - you're not mine yet, and haven't earned that relationship.
Menfolk, please note that, if your profile picture is of your dick, I won't talk to you until it's grown a body, face and personality to go with it. I'm not impressed with it - I probably own at least one dildo that's bigger and harder * *oof* *. Believe me, if I wanted to, I could get penises really, REALLY easily. I'm not too interested in your cock; I'm interested in the person attached to it, as that's the bit I really want to play with...
Please don't message me with a massive list of "I really want to be tied down and have you stretch yourself over m head, will you do that for me Miss?" - that's about YOU, not me. If that's what you want, go pay for it with someone else.
Also (as I keep on being asked about it), just as not everyone who speaks English is from England, so not everyone who speaks Russian is Russian themselves. Please don't make an erroneous assumption on that basis.
I'm a polyglot. Some people enjoy it. I've been known to make one guy nearly faint by the mere use of my voice when speakin' forrin (it was awesome...)
If you've made it this far, have a cookie. ;) Come say hi, I don't bite without express consent...
