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Hi I just joined the site.
I'm a switch; in a poly relationship, married to a submissive Bi woman who, because of her submissive nature, cannot fulfill the submissive side of my personality. We meet and play with others together and separately. I've been active in the Detroit area for years.
I've been in the scene in general for many, many years both as a dominant and submissive. I started out as a submissive crossdresser graduated to being a dominant with my second wife and am now a switch. I'm mostly interested in sensuous bondage, mummification, vacuum beds, sensory deprivation -- Hoods, blindfolds -- sensory magnification, enhancement and sensory overload. Extended "teasing" is one of my favorites from either side of the ropes.
One thing that I am not is a pain slut.
I love role play. I was trained as a servant for a lovely black Domme and her cousin in NYC for about a year.
I've also been corseted and trained as a 'show pony' but never ridden nor hitched to a cart. But I'm now simply an old fart who loves "our thing" and both sides of the rope.
One of my long time interests in WIITWD is the use of hypnosis in the scene. I think that hypnosis is the ultimate form of consensual BDsm. If you think about it, *with their own permission* you can control your submissive completely. You can "bind them" with a command not to move. You can spank them without bondage, even if being spanked is not "one of their things" at present. You can command hours of "personal service" without the submissive remembering anything they did if you so command; or leave them with a yearning for much more, if you wish.
I started out as a submissive and today I'm simply a switch/submissive who sometimes enjoys wearing frilly silk, satin, high heels, and especially corsets which can "show off" my nipple piercings. I'm not really a transvestite any more in the "normal sense" of the usage because I can't really "pass" with a beard.
You will find me witty, if not a slight SAM, intelligent, and educated and extremely experienced. I tend to "speak my mind" which can be abrasive but I think honesty and candor is the best way to communicate. I'm also big on safety and in fact have a Yahoo list for safety in the scene.
I'm glad to be here so let the games begin. 
Blessed be, switchy
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