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Hello Everyone,
I have decided to comeback and open an account here again. Hopefully I can find a real submissive on this site. I did have one a while back and did not have a great deal of success. However, if at first you don't succeed you might as well try again.
I have been in the lifestyle for nine years now. I consider myself a fairly strict and demanding Dominant. I am not looking for online play or a fun weekend every now and then. I am searching for a committed long term (hopefully lifelong) relationship. For me the lifestyle is much more about the mental and emotional aspects. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the physical aspects however the physical side can only take you so far. To succeed long term you need that mental and emotional connection. A real BDSM relationship requires someone to give themselves to another person mind body and soul. Not because of the fear of discipline. It is the knowledge that upsetting there Dom will bring them more pain then any discpline administered could.
A real Dom learns there submissive and what method should be used to train them. Some submissive respond better to physical discipline others respond to the mental types of discipline. That to me is what so many just don't understand online. A real Dom knows there is not a cookie cutter formula to train a submissive everyone is different. This is were you can tell the difference between someone who wants to have a long term relationship and someone looking for a one night stand. A real Dominant knows that discipline is needed in order to properly train a submissive on how to be obedient. A wannabee on the other hand uses punishment to get themselves off and not necessarily help there submissive grow.
If you believe that you might be the submissive I am looking for please do not hesitate to send me a message. Of course I am also looking for friends in the lifestyle so if you are interested in that you may send a message as well.
I will be adding more later however, this should help to give you an idea the type of Dominant I am. |
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