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I do not give out personal information to people I don't know. This includes my name and my Yahoo ID. I'm happily collared to my Daddy, Ken, and I'm not here looking for playmates. I just want to learn.

I keep rewriting this part, because I don't want to seem nasty or disrespectful. But... I'm here to meet people, not to play sexually in PMs. I would -love- to talk to you, but if you are only interested in sex, and not my mind, then you should really look elsewhere. :)


I'm new to being a slave, but I'm smart, and I feel I have a good grasp of the psychology of submission. I know why I am the way I am, and I like myself.

I like men who are strong, who know themselves and control naturally, not through mind games or manipulation. I dislike men who think typing "Me" makes them a Master and that me typing "i," as opposed to "I," makes me any more of a slave.

I'm mulling over what else to write here.. and I mull slowly. But, in the meantime, you can find a lot of info about me at:
http://recklesskajira.wordpress.com


In some of the chat rooms, there is someone who lurks. He watches the room and makes his selection. He then logs in another account, and changes his nickname to one more suitable, one intended to deceive his victim.

He may pretend to be your owner. He may pretend to be your owner's friend. He may even pretend that he is your friend. And a quick glance at the top of the PM box may make you think it's true.

Once you believe, he'll ask for things. These request will range from the simple to the not so simple, depending on how much he thinks you will do.

In order to make sure this person doesn't deceive you, here are some tips:

Make sure to set up a code word between yourself, your owner and all of your friends. It should be a word that is used if you are ever in doubt about who you are speaking to.

This cloner will not have a profile. So right click on his name in the room and select "view user's profile." If the page comes up as "profile not found," then that person is using a nickname and you should ask why.

Lastly, you can see a person's IP by typing /whois theirname into the room chat. If that IP matches that of someone else in the room, you have found a cloner.
I have met some really nice people on this site, so please understand that I am not directing the following comment to any of you.

But some of you guys are real creeps.

Do you really think that lines like "Show me some more skin so I'll pick you" will make me run to you and kneel at your feet?

Do you really think I am stupid enough to meet someone a few hours after chatting here, hand that person a whip and say, "Yes, I trust you. Please whip me."?

Honestly. It doesn't work that way, or it shouldn't, not for me. Men should be picky about their slaves, and they should also be picky about who they play with.

I am not looking for a collar right now. But you can bet that, when I am ready, I will make sure the man is a good person, with the right skills, before I beg to be his.

And it won't be someone who tries to dominate me without knowing who I am, or someone who tells me to pick him.