DaveDomNC

I have participated in this lifestyle for about 5 years now, and have learned ALOT. With the exception of the first relationship I had (with a very patient, experienced sub), I have always been the more experienced (teacher) in the relationship. I am a very straightforward, open-minded, intelligent, mentally strong, caring, respectful, firm, powerful, gentle, wicked, humble, easy going man. My attitude is that a woman (sub or slave) is to be treasured. The act of giving up power and control is so trusting, that it must be met by a commitment to learn and refine the tools necessary to understand the submissive psyche.

I can't state EXACTLY what I'm looking for, because so much depends on how our personalities interact. I respect all hard limits and have many of my own. That said, I am VERY willing to try new things (as long as they don't have a high risk of injury or incarceration). I am generally looking for what we determine "works" between us, and since I am easy going I can imagine a lot of arrangements that would "work". I'm not looking for a 24/7 TPE right away, but growing into that would be the goal. I'm looking for a woman (submissive or slave), and you will be treated respectfully as such - not one who is naive or innocent, or who wants to act like they are, but one who is attractive, intelligent, adventurous, energetic (stamina REQUIRED), classy (in public), slut (in bedroom), straightforward, and not afraid of empowering Me with the truth about herself (WHATEVER it may be). Yes, I will make demands on you, challenging you both mentally and physically. I will do so, however, only with a keen understanding of your interests, likes, dislikes, fantasies, limits, and fears. If you ARE such a woman, then I would most certainly like to hear from you. For interested/interesting slaves, I do have a “House Rules” document that I’d be willing to share if we find that there’s potential compatibility.

A little extra about myself and how I am as a Dominant, for the earnest reader who wants to "figure me out". I have a growing appreciation for “impact play” and the “hard physical” aspects of the lifestyle. While I would never push that on an unwilling submissive, I do get an extra twinkle in the eye for one who can “take some”. Even the impact play centers around the sensual/sexual for me, though. I satisfy my needs by "taking in" my sub (or slave) through my senses (i.e. am highly sensual). Those senses are feeling her, seeing her, tasting her, smelling her, hearing her, and climactic release through her (yes, I know that I added a sixth sense there but, if you think about the context, it makes "sense"). I will sometimes focus on just one sense, up to any combination of all of them. The "intensity" of what I want to take in for a given sense will also vary (e.g. light, relaxed licking just to savor her flavor or to tease, up to deep licking/sucking, almost "consuming" when I feel I can't satisfy that taste sense enough). Please don’t interpret “sensual” as “soft”, either. Remember the "energetic" requirement? LOL (translated, that means the ability to “take it hard”). Anyway, to sum all that babbling up... I'm not that hard to figure out, yet not necessarily too easy to satisfy.