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I guess this is where I put what I am looking for on this site.  I am a dominant but relatively inexperienced male.  All of my sessions to date have been with much more experienced females.  They describe me as a compassionate dom.  I know I have a lot to learn and I will be looking for a mentor soon.  Hit me up, who knows where things will go...
Man oh man did I have a scare this weekend.  Lucky for me my girlfriend knows CPR. 

Yes I have a girlfriend, our relationship is a poly one outside the lifestyle for the most part.  She is slave to someone else while we have a more "conventional" equal relationship.  She knows I am here and supports my ongoing discoveries in the lifestyle.

She and another friend were over at my house helping clean up and move stuff around.  They decided that as a guy I needed them to reorganize my living room.  They did ask for permission before anything was moved and I do have to agree it does look much much better.

However I carried some stuff upstairs and when I got there I was dizzy.  I sat down and that is the last I remember.  I woke up to my GF pounding on my chest and yelling at me to "breath damn you".  I started breathing real shallow and they gave me my asthma meds and then eventually I was OK.

I am still a little sore in the ribs and short of breath, a little weak too, but hey I am still alive although I may have to wait a few days before I start kicking (among other things) again.
Well I went to the doctor's and I have a pinched nerve in my shoulder, lucky me.  Can't over use my arm for a while, sigh.

On top of that I now have bronchitis, so I guess I will have to lay low for a while longer.

My life is still in a state of flux.  Just as I think I am going to be able to immerse myslef in the lifestyle and explore more of who I am, something else happens.  I am having some health issues that I will have to deal with before I will be able to dive in.  Nothing serious, I hope, but limiting all the same.