darkwaves

I am not a Domme-my profile says I am a switch which is only when I am completely comfortable with someone. If you want a Domme, please look elsewhere. Do not call me "Mistress" "Maam" or "Mother". I will not call you "Sir" or "Master" unless you earn and prove yourself worthy of that title. I am not your sub or your slave. I only respond to orders from people who have earned my trust and respect.

I am not a cougar. If you are below the age of 30, be sure you understand how treat women before messaging me. If you don't show that in your message to me I will not respond. It is not just about sex. It is about flirting, romance, chemistry and connection leading to sex. No one nighters. No random hookups. Very few second chances.

Good conversations are important to me so if you can't be bothered to say more than "hi" "how are you" or "nice pics" or something like that, I won't respond. I am looking for something in real life, not online and if we can't talk or I am having to pull conversations out of you, it isn't going to happen.

And if you made it that far:

Thanks for checking out my profile. I am a creative woman who is obsessed with history-particularly Renaissance and 1940's. I love to try new things, hang out with my friends, play games-board, and role play. In my everyday life, my passion is theater, mostly costume design. I enjoy creating a world for others to immerse themselves in for a couple of hours.

I believe that being open and honest is important. I don't sleep around and have to have caring and connection to make love with someone. I am not interested in married men. I want to be able to go to dinner, not hide out, and am no one's second best.

I have and have always had a male sex drive-I want it at least a couple of times a day-fast and furious in the morning and slow and sensual in the evening would be great. Anything from cuddling (I am definitely a cuddle slut) and caressing to much more is fine with me, provided we are friends. While I am open to most things, I don’t do one night stands. I feel that connection and trust are important and must be established before anything else can happen along with boundaries and expectations. So, I am looking for smart (big turn on) creative men to play with, talk to, and cuddle with.

I enjoy textures, smells and sounds. Velvet, lavender and waves or a waterfall would be my idea of a good setting. The smell of ginger cookies make me happy. The feel of a man's skin is one of the best feelings in the world.

It’s hard to sum my complex self up in a profile, so if you have questions, or want to get to know me, just ask away. I am honest to a fault and expect the same.

I took that quiz and I am sure suprised no one who knows me:

Switch
100%
Experimental
86%
Bondage
68%
Dominant
64%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur
39%
Sadist
32%
Submissive
32%
Masochist
21%
Vanilla
14%
Degradation Lover
11%