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Male Submissive, 32
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Female Submissive, 27, Tumwater, Washington
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Male Submissive, 19, kersey, Pennsylvania
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About DarkSucubus
Your mama warned you about girls like me!
I am 5'10" tall brunette. I was introduce to BDSM at the tender age of 18. I have been both sub and Top. Delightfully discovered being a Dominatrix when I was 32. Since then I have enjoyed my Dominate side. The more I learn about myself the more I am in control with the direction of my vanilla life. I have discovered that I am good at Dominating and enjoy the control of my subs. I just really enjoy controlling the submissive and the energy direction in which to take them. Kind of like a game of chess. Once they reach subspace it is like checkmate to me. As for my submissive side it pops out once a blue moon.
I truly enjoy people who have experience and knows what they want and not afraid to tell me because communication is key. I cannot do 24/7 lifestyle more of a weekend warrior type, due to the fact that I do have responsibilities in my life. I am not into head trips and Drama bullsh!t. I am an active person who likes to get out. I love the outdoors as in camping, hiking, hunting, fishing, boating, wild woman at heart. I love to travel and see the world when I can. I do know how to play well with others in a session.
I am STD free and have always been that way and plan on being that way for the rest of my life. Yes, I do use protection if there is sex play involved. I do have a life partner who understands my wild ways but is happy to share. We are both looking into expanding into an open loving poly household. Together my partner and I are exploring a new relationship. Creating a triad household. So I am a bit distracted these days enjoying them both. If you want to know more, write me and ask. I do write back.
Took that crazy quiz farm test here are the results for those who are interested.
100% Switch
86%Dominant
82% Voyeur/Exhibitionist
75% Experimental
68% Sadist
54% Bondage and
Submissive
46% Degradation
43% Masochist
11% Vanilla
"If she's amazing, then she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If you give up, you're not worthy... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for."- Bob Marley
This is recommended reading for anybody I play with,
1. Any medical issues such as strokes , heart attacks, Asthma. I need to know about any blood borne pathogens a partner has. I need to know any physical injuries you as a play partner might have. All of this is confidential and will not be discussed with anybody with the exception of my primary life partner.
2. You can choose to not agree to a scene if your not sure you're unable to be a part of it, I can scale it back to where you can handle and if you view it as fun we can take it up a notch the next time we meet.
3. I do NOT do hard beatings that are meant to leave bruises. There are times in play it happens accidentally or incidentally, but bruising a bottom is not my goal in life, don't ask me to do so for the sake of having bruises. I will mark you when it serves a purpose.
4. Safe-word is banana split. If you are gagged and tied up then the hand signal is tapping your tapping your index and middle finger. if you are in my straight jacket then you need to blink several times in a row. Please try to use words to communicate on what is going on with you after the safety has been deployed. I don't want to play with a bottom/sub who is too proud or stubborn to say the safe word before a body part becomes injured or if there is some aching part, pain in the chest, lightheaded etc.. Play partners MUST communicate openly about how they are.
5.You have to clearly communicate your boundaries before a scene and discuss afterwards if any of them have changed or discovered new ones after a scene. I will do anything and everything I can to help a partner. Playing is under the condition of making sure there is no major injury and discovering what you have learned or enjoyed.
6. I need to talk to you directly the next day and hear how your doing. Please do call/text/email me or I will call you. Communication is key and your safety is very important to me.
7. If you feel there has been a violation of a boundary or have an issue with me in the past, talk to me about it, communicate about what got missed in negotiations or did we misunderstand the other persons needs. COMMUNICATE. If you feel I didn't hear or didn't respect a boundary you have to talk to me about it.
8. If either one of us decides we don't like playing with the other person or have a falling out for any reason, its personal business and neither one of us should speak poorly of the other out of respect of each other.
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I am not an online type of Domme person. Personally like the hands on approach when dealing with my submissives male or female it does not matter to me as long as they are real and willing. |
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