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DarKKDesiress

Male Dominant, 45, lawsonville, North Carolina
Male Dominant, 39, Karlsruhe
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Female Submissive, 30, Los Angeles, California
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Yes !!!!! I'm the one, you know the one I'm talking about. The boy your father wouldn't let you date. The man your Mother warned you about when you started dating. The man all your girlfriends said would hurt you. Well they were all right!!!! Yes I will hurt you because deep down that is ONE of your many Dark Desires. I'm the Master your always fantasizing about when your slip away to that private place too dream. Dreaming about those dark desires you don't even talk about with your closes friends. Fearing they will look down on you, calling you perverted, twisted and sick. The dark desires you fantasies about exploring. But you have yet to find a Master you can trust to even talk about your dreams without being thought of as less of a person. Let alone act apron them to enjoy the pleasure or pain that is part of your dark desires.



Super Glue: Now here is a new and very interesting play toy. What can one do
with super glue. (1) How about gluing your female submissive's cunt closed.
Now your saying isn't that dangers. Yes if you glue her pee hole closed. But
that isn't what we are doing. We are gluing her labials together so she is
unable to masturbate. Your next question is how dose she go pee? you have to
leave a small hole at the bottom of her cunt so she can pee the first time
you glue her closed. I have glued my slaves whole cunt closed in the pastes. But
that is another lesson in control. we are talking about allowing her to pee
this time. Your next question is how do you get her cunt unglued. That she
will do when she pee's The acid in her pee will undo the glue the next time
she pee's. But in the mean time there will be a fear of peeing not knowing
if it will hurt, So she will hold her pee as long as she can. Even to the
point of pain. The first time is a true mind fuck. After that she knows how
it will feel. So the next time I glue her cunt closed it will becomes painful
to pee and open her cunt.

This weeks Dark Desire (Ginger Root Play) also known as (Figging) Figging, anal play (or torture) what everone choosies to call it depending if your the user or receiver. Using ginger root, seems to be an art that is increasingly ignored. Maybe it's because there isn't enough information passed on about it or perhaps with the advent of fancy salves, chemicals and potions that can mimic ginger, lifestylers don't want to take the time needed to prepare for this activity. Either reason precludes a pleasurable and memorable experience. While there is still controversy as to the origins and reasons to figging, it is fairly well agreed upon that it dates back to the Victorian era. Mentions of figging can be found in some Victorian literature. Back in those days, the Victorians were a fairly bawdy, perverted, kinky bunch behind closed doors (ya gotta love them). Caning, a very popular form of punishment, especially for the female miscreant, was elevated to an art form itself. There is evidence that figging actually had its beginnings when ginger was used in a caning victim's anus to prevent her from clenching her buttocks during punishment. While I'll expand on this later, clenching one's butt while it hosts ginger causes an intense burning sensation. Now why the Victorians didn't want to see the victim clench her rear is beyond me. I mean, that is one of the best parts and furthermore... oh, yeah, figging. Sorry about that. Somehow, the practice was picked up as a technique unto itself in the lifestyle. I have practiced figging for many years and have turned many subs onto it. While it is a fairly easy technique to master, some care is necessary and proper preparation is required. So, let's delve into the world of ginger (or Gilligan and Mary Ann). Ginger, in its natural state, is sold as a "hand". For you non-gourmets, it's called a hand because it somewhat resembles one. The protuberances from the hand are called, yes Martha, fingers. Unfortunately, many supermarkets now precut the hand into fingers and package them as a convenience. What's the matter with them! Don't they realize they are making it difficult for us Doms to torture our subbies butts??!! I mean really... sorry again. Stay away from the precut stuff unless you've had enough experience to safely play with small fingers. Celeste, no wise cracks here!! Find a place that sells a hand. If the supermarket doesn't have any, visit any oriental grocery store.

Buy the largest hand you can find and scurry it home. Keep the entire hand in a cool dry place until you are ready to use it. The sooner you use it, however, the better the effect unless you age it properly which I'll get to later. When play time rolls around, I usually like to have my sub bound, face down on the bed over a pillow. No blindfold here. I make it a point of allowing her to watch and hear me prepare the ginger. The anticipation is spectacular especially if she's never experienced it before. The gyrations generated from the anticipation alone are well worth the experience. Now you are ready to cut a finger of ginger from the hand. Unless the fingers are very long, do not cut the finger off at the joint of the hand. Remove the finger by cutting down into the palm of the hand so that you get a long, uniform width finger. I like to use a finger no smaller than 4 inches. Longer is better. Take a paring knife or vegetable peeler and remove the brown skin. Make sure all the skin is off as well as insuring that all the bumps and knots are cut off and smoothed as well. Try not to remove too much meat underneath, as you want to retain as full a finger as possible. Take your time and don't rush this step. As you work, rinse it under cold water periodically to help wash away pieces of skin. Ginger is fibrous and sometimes takes a little time to prepare properly. If you're into oriental cooking, you'll love the delicate ginger aroma that is released as you do this step. The smell is a great stimulus for the sub as well. It heralds things to cum (yes, pun intended). After you have the skinned root all smooth and nice, you now have to perform the tricky bit. With the paring knife, about two thirds of the way down the root, carefully carve a concavity around the finger. This will act as a retention device. Similar to a butt plug where the sphincter locks around the tapering portion of the plug, the concavity will do the same thing. Make the ring no more than a half-inch wide. Remember; do not taper the finger all the way down to the end. You want full circumference of the finger two thirds of the way down, a half-inch retention ring and then full circumference continuing down to the end of the finger. Do not carve out too much however, as this will weaken the finger and increase the possibility of breaking it while in the sub. You don't need a very deep ring for retention.

After you have carefully completed this step, rinse the finger off and dip it in cold water. Make sure the tip of the finger is sufficiently rounded. You can always touch this area up with a knife or peeler. Now it's ready to insert. Unlike your own finger, you do not use lube with a ginger finger. Lubricant acts as a sealant and prevents the ginger moisture from doing its thing. Instead, use the cold water to keep the finger wet. Slowly insert the finger into the sub's anus. DON'T RUSH HERE. TAKE YOUR TIME. Wet ginger is slick enough to slide in with care. When the anus finally opens and accepts the ginger, slide it in up the ring and let the sub close around it. The beauty of ginger is that it takes a little while for the effect to take place. Once it begins, it builds steadily. While you are waiting for the fun to begin, go wash off your hands. You don't want to touch your eyes or your sub's eyes by accident with ginger on your hands. Now sit down in a comfy chair and enjoy the show. Most submissives will become rather vocal as the ginger works its magic.

Depending on the fortitude of the sub, the potency of the ginger and how much of a mind-fuck you prologue with, the reactions will vary. A few subs have reported that the ginger doesn't do any more than, let's say, Ben Gay, however, they are far and few between. Most subs report that the effects were far greater than they imagined. Different strokes for different folks. To increase the effect, pinch your sub's buttocks together and hold them for a minute or two. This causes a big boost in burning sensation and if done every so often, keeps your sub awake. The effects of the ginger will last approximately twenty minutes or so, after which, the effects diminish rapidly. The nice thing about ginger is no matter how intense the effect on the sub, you won't hurt her/him and it is short-lived. Once the sensation ceases, remove the ginger and go about your other session business. Ginger also has a property that puts it far ahead of any ginger wannabe substance. The juice of the root has the ability to cause incredible horniness. I have had subs begin to sob, begging to have something inserted into their pussies and to have orgasm. The reaction is tenfold if the ginger juice comes in contact with the clit. Cut a small slice of ginger, making sure it has one flat side. Place this side directly onto the clit and hold it there. Depending on anatomy, some women will be able to retain the slice on their clit without assistance. Apply ginger to the clit while the ginger butt plug is in place and watch the fun. I have experienced some of the most stunning results with subbies using this technique. I don't have a perfect scientific explanation as to why ginger causes such an aphrodisiac effect but suffice to say it works.

Being an equal opportunity lifestyler, I don't want to forget the male sub and his Domme. Ginger is dynamite for CBT. Cut a julienne slice of peeled ginger. It should be approximately 1/8-1/4 inch wide by at least 1 inch long. Make sure it is smooth and that the edges are rounded. Use the paring knife "gingerly" for this task. Make sure your sub is tied down face up. Dip the ginger in water and slowly insert it into the urethra of the cock. Make sure you leave enough sticking out to be able to remove it easily. The effect of ginger in a cock is almost immediate and the sub will react quite vigorously. The burning is incredibly intense. If it become too much for your sub, remove the ginger and give him a minute's rest. When the ginger is removed, the burning sensation drops dramatically. You can place it back down the cock to resume the fun. Eventually, the sensation will wear off but not until the sub is spent.

Now for a little technique that will "turbocharge" your ginger. Using your ginger soon after you buy it will assure potency. Storing ginger, unprotected, for long periods of time will rob it of its "zip". However, if you have any ginger fingers left after playtime, place it in a sealed, plastic bag and place it in the veggie bin in the refrigerator. Now, like the aging of fine wine, forget about it for a while. After a few days, check the ginger. If things are going well, the inside of the bag should have moisture on it. If a little mold has formed on the ginger, it's time for play. If not, put it back in the bin for another day or two and check it daily until mold forms. The mold is harmless and does not penetrate the tough, fibrous skin of the root. Peel and prepare the ginger as before and play as usual. But look out! The juice of the ginger has increased dramatically in potency. If you think you had a good time when the ginger was new, wait till you play now! Any unused ginger should be discarded at this point. Two words of caution. First, if your sub is allergic to ginger (I haven't run into one yet), don't play with it. You can ignite an allergic skin reaction. Not good. Second, if by some chance the ginger breaks off in your sub's butt and you can't retrieve it, don't bother with emergency rooms. Just turn to enema play and everything will come out OK. 

This weeks Dark Desire ( Enema Sex ) One of these "love it or leave it" Enemas are used for different purposes. To clean out before entering into fisting, as a punishment, as a form of training, a form of humiliation or  for plain (sexual) enjoyment. No matter what purpose, one objective is common, to make your partner refrain from expelling the content of their bowels. We are going to talk about enema sex. Having sexual intercourse as one is receiving a enema. First: place a rubber sheet over the bed, if you are planing on using the bed. I have found a shallow plastic wading pool is good and can be used anywhere in the home or outside under the stars next to a tree where you can hang the bag. Second: Make sure the water is NO hotter then 109 degrees or colder then 95 degrees. colder can be used for punishment or humiliation. But NEVER any warmer the 109 degrees, it can do damage to the inner body parts. If you wish to clean out your partner that will be receiving the enema during sex play or intercourse. If you have a hand held shower it is best to do so in the shower or bath tub. Just remove the shower head and use the hose with warm water at a slow flow. This allows the beginner a chance to get use to the full feeling. Also it will let one know just how much your partner can hold before having to expel. After your partner is clean and softened up. Fill the enema bag with 1/3 more then what your partner could hold before they expelled. Now hang the bag  out side under the stars on the tree or in the bed room. After placing the tip of the hose from the enema bag in your partner anual and starting a " slow" flow then start your fore play. As your gets turned on your partner his/her mind will be going back and forth from the full feeling from the enema bag to the pleasure you giving from the fore play. There should come a time when your partner will want to orgasm/cum but will hold it longer then most times because of 'NOT" wanting to expel the enema and be humiliated. The longer one holds the enema in the greater the orgasm/cum will be. I have had partner reach a orgasm and expel the enema at the same time. Letting me know in not so many words they were enjoying themselves. Be aware of the following. Everything here is for information, not individual or general medical advice Always communicate with your partner before trying anything new together. So read, learn, try and enjoy
This weeks Dark Desire ( Needle Play) Have you thought about it at all. Have you ever said (Never or No f*^#ing way) The first thing you have to learn and understand about (Needle Play) is that it isn't about pain. Needle Play is about the endorphins that your mind creates when you look at your body and see needles sticking out from places you said (Never) before and just can not believe. If your thinking about trying Needles Play here is a test you can do to find out if Needle Play is for you. In many states you can buy a Insulin Syringes and needle at your drug store or if you wish off the internet. To start the Needle size should be 29ga or 31ga with a 1/2" (12.7mm) length needle (Note the greater the number 29 or 30 gauge the smaller the needle size) Once you have your syringes with the needle attached your set to start. Find a comfortable place where you can feel relaxed. When your comfortable take the syringe in your hand ( Do Not ) take the cover off the needle at this time. Now drag it over your body (Drag Not Push). Get the feel of moving the syringe over your body. Once you are comfortable with doing this. You will start to wonder what the needle will feel like. At this point in time you may want to take the cover off the syringe. Now again (Drag Not Push) the needle over your body like your have already done. At some point in time your curiosity will get the better of you. You will start to wonder what the needle will feel like and reaching a point where you will (PUSH) the needle into your body. If you reach this point you are ready for Needle Play. Just remember the Needle Play isn't about pain it is all about endorphins and pleasure the mind brings you through endorphins.

This month Dark Desire (Labial Saline Infusion) It's the hottest and newest temporary Female Genital Modification. Straight, Lesbian, Bi, the sexual orientation doesn't matter. It's about causing the female body to change, grow; pushing it to new limits. You will love it. It is unbelievable to see and even more unbelievable to experience. Are there dangers? Is it safe? Does it hurt? How long does it last? How often can you do it? How is it different from a scrotum infusion? Good questions. Will try to answer some of them.

Always lay out the necessary supplies before you start. You will need warm, sterile, IV grade, .09% sodium chloride known as saline; a 60cc sterilized syringe; sterile hypodermic needles, usually 21-23 gauge x 1.5 "; antiseptic cleaning wipes; clean latex gloves and a succulent cunt. Never attempt to inflate body parts with any other liquid or air. Saline is 100% compatible with the human body and that is extremely important as the body tissue is going to absorb it. As with any procedure that breaks the skin surface, I am going to create a "sterile" field and be as clean about it as possible. I wash my hands and I am ready. The latex snaps at my wrists as I pull on the first pair of gloves. I like sound effects. Gently wiping the labia and clitoral hood with the antiseptic wipes, I see my victim's clit began to swell with anticipation. She has been warned that she will be taking a minimum of three injections, one in each of her labia minor and one to the clit hood. Body tissue is not connected in this area which necessitates the multiple injections. The saline will not travel or migrate from one lip to the other; it stays in the area of injection until absorbed. This procedure differs from a scrotal infusion where only one injection site is necessary for the infusion.

Sometimes I use a 60cc syringe so that I do not have to keep refilling as I inject; one full syringe will usually be sufficient for an initial inflation. One could use multiple small syringes, but the big syringe looks so intimidating and creates a greater sense of anticipation for the woman being infused. I like creating anticipation and trepidation. Amounts of saline injected will vary woman to woman, and at different times a woman may take more or less.

Sometimes I will hang a 1000cc bag of Saline to do a slow drip in each of her labia minor and one to the clit hood. so she can feel the Saline Infusion taking place and watch the bag as it empties

I tell my subject to relax, but it's not going to happen. She waits eagerly. The saline in my syringe has been warmed in the microwave to just above body temperature. I make a point of holding the syringe high so that she can see me squirting the saline from the needle; this rids the syringe of air, which I never want to put into the human body. I like to play, not risk potential damage. "Left or right?" I ask. She knows I am playing with her, both sides of the lips are going to be filled no matter what she says. I decide on the right. Gently grasping the first lip, I roll it between my fingers. I am looking for the hollow area in the center. This is the area where I want to direct the saline. I slide the sterile needle into the labium until the tip is in the hollow area. My subject catches her breath and moans; it is an intense sensation. Gently, I depress the plunger on the syringe, sending a small amount of saline into the labium. It swells. It glistens. It hungrily sucks the saline from the syringe. Each labium can take about 10-20cc's of saline for starters. I repeat the procedure on the other side. When I withdraw the injection needle there is a small drop of blood. The site also leaks saline and blood drops mixed. What a lovely sight, lips swollen so large they look like male balls. I decide to inflate the clitoral hood to look like a small cock. If my victim has balls, she may as well have a cock to go with them. I insert the needle at the edge of the hood directly over the clit so that the saline will fill the hood evenly. Again, I am looking for the center, the hollow between the two sides of skin. I fill the hood very slowly as I did the labia. If done too quickly it can be quite painful and fill unevenly. I put 15cc's into the hood.

The saline in the labia absorbed into the body rather quickly but they are still swollen. They look like glistening little fruits. They feel cold to the touch and spongy. They will stay like this for about 4-8 hours depending on the individual. Many subject's lips are fully closed off by the giant lips. Pressing inward, hanging downward, they are beautiful. I stand her up and her knees collapse. She looks lovely. I have her look at the swollen lips. I tell her to touch them. She says she has "amazon" genitals. She feels "all pussy." She will stay like this for several hours.

Is the procedure safe? Yes, as long as caution is exercised. A medically clean environment is required, as is sterile equipment. Never reuse needles on more than one person. Will this procedure cause your favorite slut to have larger lips? If done on a repeated basis, it can lead to permanently stretched labia and hood tissue. It takes quite a few times with maximum filling. Will it hurt? Probably. Injections into the nether regions tend to feel like any other shot. The actual filling and stretching can be painful if done too quickly or overmuch. Can you have intercourse in this condition? Please do. Touch, taste, lick, suck, enjoy all the things you would normally do, it is going to feel wonderful

 
Another Dark Desire (Fisting) Have you fantasized about it? Thinking what it would feel like to have a hand deep inside your cunt with finger touching all the places you try to reach with your personal BOB. Have your ever wondered just how it could be done. Then read on. Fisting is a team afford of two people working together to enjoy a different kind of mutual pleasure. The male/female pleasure comes from knowing he/she is giving there partner pleasure few have ever done before. The female/male receives there pleasure from the fingers that touch and probe so many different places at once. How dose one go about fisting there partner? (First)  Make sure your nails are cut short and filed smooth. (Next) Have some latex gloves to put over your hands. the smooth gloves will make things go easier. (Next) Have lots and lots of lube ready. Don't be afraid to use the lube lots and lots, on your glove all over her cunt. Your desire is to give her pleasure. (Next) Have her lay naked on a warm rubber sheet in a warm room. The lube is going to get messy. (Next) Remember me saying it is a team afford. This is were the team work comes into play. men if your right handed, start  stimulating her cunt. With your left hand take her right hand and ladies communicate your feelings. Tell him when it feels good. Men SLOWLY and I mean SLOWLY push deeper playing and stimulating as you push. Ladies communicate your feelings. If you want him to go deeper PULL his hand SLOWLY. If you want him to STOP but not pull out, hold his hand still. Remember to communicate all the time either by voice or by hand movement. Lady's when your ready for him to push more communicate your desires by voice or hand movements. Now a word of warning you may not make it the first, second or even your third time. But when you do you may become addicted to enjoying FISTING like so many other females and males have done.~ENJOY~
This Weeks Dark Desire question: Are you submissive or slave ??????? So many enter this lifestyle calling themselves submissive or slave. Not truly understanding what each mean. It is MY thought a submissive retrains the right to say NO if there Master, Dom., Mistress or Domme desires them to do something they don't feel right about doing. Many times they say NO because it wasn't explained to them properly, or the scene is moving to fast for them to adjust. But a submissive must also understand if they say NO to often or show a desire NOT to try new things to please they will end up being released by the Master or Mistress. A slave on the other has ONLY two rights, First one being the right to choose the Master or Mistress they desire to serve the rest of there life. But ONLY doing so after a reasonable time of communication. So that the one submitting as a slave fully understands what will be excepted of them with out any questions that haven't been answered. Once they agree to being the Master's or Mistress's slave. They NO longer have the right to use the word NO fore they have given up that right. Second and most important right. The right to leave the relationship if it endangers the slave's life or the life of any children that the  ( female slave ) might have in the relationship. There are many different definitions of a slave in this lifestyle. Webster's Definition of a slave: ( 1 ) a person held in servitude as the chattel of another. American Heritage Dictionary Definition of chattel: ( 1 ) An article of personal movable property ( 2 ) A slave. So one should think long and hard before they say what they are submissive or slave. A submissive by any other name is still an submissive. A slave earns that title and wears it with pride.
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