Each time I try to pinpoint my first stirrings of kinky behavior, it seems that I can always remember another instance that preceded it. Kinky sex started for me around 1973 with hot candle wax and warm rice wine-filled navels and the mood-augmenting substances that were fashionable at that time. I've officially been in the Scene since I joined The The Power Exchange 1999. I served as a Board member for that organization. I have also served as Director of MAsT.
My sexual identity is a hybrid that leans toward Queer, however, my LTR's have always been with women. I'm a Dominant Daddy and big proponent of structured relationships. Lately, I find myself taking on the mantle of evangelizing the Gospel of the Power of Daddy. Not age play. I am referring to the relationship structure of Daddy and his charge. Not the warm and fuzzy Daddy that tucks his charge in at bedtime. I am the Daddy that causes your pulse to quicken upon hearing the door slam when I return home from work. It's up to you to figure out whether your heart is racing from dread or from delight.