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Male Dominant, 40, South East
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Male Submissive, 22, Las Vegas, Nevada
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Male Switch, 50, ARLINGTON, Texas
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About curtiswbarber
HIM: 37yrs, stands 5'10" ruggedly handsome with piercing hazel eyes, a strong square jaw and an intellect that could make your head spin. A smooth shaved head, sometimes goatee sometimes full beard and a cunning smile. Broad shoulders that make the Mrs. a little weak in the knees (giggle)and a fantastically tight ass that the Mrs. can't stop herself from pinching. He's warm, literally, with soft dark curly hair scattered over his body. His manhood is luscious and has no issues rising to the occasion. He is a strong one both in physique and personality and his sense of humor is dry and somewhat warped but always present! His interests outside the boudoir are vast and include: camping, fishing, reading, movies, swimming, music, entertaining, etc. When asked what famous personality he most represents, his answer... The Tasmanian Devil. He is bi-sexual, experienced and comfortable with it. He is a versatile bottom (sexually) who loves good fucking and sucking. HIS INTEREST IN BDSM IS AS FOLLOWS:I guess a good way would be to describe myself and introduce myself. My name is Curtis and I am the male part of a married couple that are bi-sexual, secure and have a great relationship. I am looking to explore and experience (with my wife's knowledge and blessing) a relationship / friendship in the bdsm scene. I am first and foremost a man. I am not a boy nor am I feminine or beautiful. I have been described as ruggedly handsome and have a strong physical presence that is fairly dominating. That being said, I am the dominant / assertive man who has to take control in my family and my life (not in a domineering bossy way but rather as having to be the provider and protector). This is a role that we have agreed upon in our family. As well, in our sex life I am the initiator and the one who makes sure she is safe and secure. This is a role that I have always been in for many different reasons. I am a very intelligent, strong willed, driven man who does not stand for weak, insecure, or uncertain fools. I love my son and wife with all my heart. Recently though I have become aware that I want to explore and bring to light something inside of me that has always been there but I have never felt safe or secure enough to expose. I want someone else (particularly a strong, dominant, intelligent, sexy and beautiful woman) to take control and to allow me to submit to them. I have to always been the one in control in my life or at least the one "attempting" to control my life and submitting to a deserving woman is something I definetly want to experience. I am interested in exploring the physical and mental aspect of myself that wants to submit to someone else and be controlled in a "respectful, sensual and firm" manner. To give you an idea of what I mean, I used to fantasize (when in my early 20's) of being seduced by a female vampire and of "belonging or submitting completely" to her - in all ways – sexually, physically, intellectually. I am brand new to the bdsm scene and have never had ANY experiences with it. It has been hard to describe to others exactly what is attracting me to the world of bdsm and specifically being a submissive. I have tried to put into words what I am searching for and when I hear the terms or words "My Pet" it strkes me as being exactly it. To explain - I love my dog. He is a 90 pound rotweiller that I rescued from the pound. He was 5 weeks old and starved and beaten and left in a park. I am the world to him. He submits to me when I see him (he actually urinates in submission) and craves my touch and love. I respect and care for him, but I own him. He is mine. I am responsible for his health, his well being, his play time, his well being and happiness. But I demand obedience from him and if he fails to give it, I make him remember who is in control and who is the boss. I don't beat or abuse him or do anything to make him feel that his trust in my taking care of him is misplaced. I want someone to call me "Their Pet". I want to be look at you with the same desperate look in my eyes and crave your touch as he does to me. I can not shake this feeling inside myself that I want to kneel before a domme and have a lead attached to a collar around my throat. I am a strong dominant man that has no patience for insecure or stupid people. I do not give control to anyone in my life but rather control my life and those in it. But when I think of the above situation and giving someone that control or dominance over me, I get a tightness in my chest that is equisite and scary.My wife is aware of what I am doing. She is a woman who is also strong but is not into any type of pain or being controlled (due to past experiences). She normally lets me be the "director" in our play with others and when we are together. She is beginning to learn to enjoy being more dominant and in control with me in the bedroom and would be interested in exploring the above with me. Sooo.... that being said I am also willing to explore this part of myself on my own - as long as my wife knows and is comfortable with whom I am with.
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