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Greetings:

Thank you for reading my profile.

I will be blunt... I have a pantyless fetish.

If you hate wearing them, a desire to be trained to hate wearing them, or have a submissive desire to dress as I instruct, let's talk.

Would this be 24/7 ? Honestly, that would please me to no end. Realistically, there are limitations, such as a work dress code, or when needed when mother nature's monthly reminder arrives.

If I have not scared you away, and the thought of dressing and serving for my pleasure excites you, I would look forward to hearing from you.

CtrlChief

The first meeting...

She was meeting me in person for the first time.  It was a public place, about equal distance from where we lived.

She dressed as I instructed.  A simple summer dress.  I was pleased.

We entered the restaurant, ordered our meal, and I handed her a note.  The note said to slide off her panty and hand it to me.

Within a minute the slightly damp intimate garment was in my pocket.  The order arrived, and we dined.

I was certain that this was new to her...  She was aware that I would require her to perform a simple submissive task while with me.  

After the meal, we went to see a movie.  I teased her clit and pussy during the film.  Afterwards, we talked some more on a bench near the parking lot.  She was now relaxed and confided that being directed was turning her on.

Before the night ended, we planned our next meeting.

Distance can be your enemy.  I have recently texted with a submissive woman that embraced my fetishes, but lives near 2,000 miles away, and cannot relocate.   
It makes you wonder how many Christian d/s couples are attending an Easter Service with his Submissive Wife locked in a sexy corset, plus wearing a garter belt and hose, open and pantyless under her long dress, unable to sit still in the pew with a princess butt plug firmly in her ass, all underneath a devoted conservative Sunday church going dress.
I had an interesting conversation last week...

Which is more of a thrill ?  

Modifying a submissive's behavior to hate wearing panties, or having a submissive unconditionally obey my desire to have her pantyless at all reasonable times ?

I have had submissive women near both ends of the spectrum.  

In regards to modifying behavior (pantyless = pleasure), I had one submissive tell me a year after we broke up that she still hesitates when tries to wear them.  

The other, pack all her panties in a grocery bag, and gave them to me as a symbol of her obedience.  That was powerful. She also was on fast track desire to get married.  Eventually, that dissolved the relationship.

Both are awesome thrills....  still hard to choose a favorite.  

Late last year, a friend of mine asked me for my definition of discreet submission.   Some of the actual examples that I have used:
  • Requiring her to be pantyless at all reasonable times.
  • Lock a small chain around her waist.  
  • Have her wear a butt plug and remote bullet at a restaurant or movie.
Until you do it, you do not realize how much of a turn on it is when she lifts up her dress, and shows her submission.