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Cross101

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About Cross101



Dominant Male seeks playmates for real time play. I am seeking open minded sub/slaves who want to play casually at first and attend kink related functions with My poly family.
A little about Me, I'm 32, career military, married and poly. I have over 8 years experience in the lifestyle. I'm a Sexual Sadist meaning I like My pain giving to have happy endings.

I am seeking playmates first and then eventual consideration for inclusion into Our family. I am not seeking a live-in at this time.
Some of My primary fetishes are, spanking, humiliation, tit-torture, anal play, orgasm deprivation, bondage, sensory deprivation and body service.

I don't have time for game players or fantasy seekers, if you're not interested in seeking real time intense play, please don't contact me.
....And then there was one. I have granted a request of release from my girl sacred. I am saddened to have had to do this, perhaps it was for the best.

On a more positive note, I will be returning from Iraq in six weeks. I can't wait to be home!

Cross
********WARNING*********

Be on the lookout, people, there is a very Nasty little oxygen thief on here trying to screw with people's relationship's in the worst possible way. Here's the general, she's 29, in DFW and claims(sickeningly) to be a slave. Want to know the particulars? Message me, I'll expose the little piece of garbage to anyone who cares enough to know.****************

~~~~~~~~~~~~LEAVE 2008~~~~~~~~~~

Eighteen days is not really a lot of time. But as often happens in life, you make the most of what you get. I have been in Iraq 10 months. I got to come home for 18 days. I get to go back to Iraq for another 5 months.

I spent my R&R doing as much of the things I enjoy, as often as I was able. I also spent some time relaxing and just letting the stress melt away.

I saw my girl Kari a few times and had some great scene time with her, god I missed that thrill I get when I'm with her. We had some feverish moments, no doubt. I really needed to reconnect and work off some serious tension. She's worked so hard for me, this deployment, it was great to be with her and remind her how much she is valued. I already have plans for her, when I get home in 02/09, a sadist's mind is never idle.

Seeing Flame again was as wonderful as always. Just touching her again, was enough to move me. She and I got wrapped up in some hot scene action too, but it was surprising to see where her mind took us this time, she's changing again, and I love that. She's such a complex woman.

Family time was great too, just getting to be a normal guy, in a house, with two dogs, a cat, and a teenager. Sometimes you can forget what home is like, when you spend so long away from it.

Now it's time to go back and be the soldier, leaving behind the one's I love to cope with my absence. Five more months, then I can be with them again. The things a man does, to defend the freedom of others.

Deep kisses to my girls, sealed with a promise to be home soon. I love you both, be strong, we're moving down the home stretch.


~~~~~~~UPDATE AUGUST 2008~~~~~~~

I find myself again, halfway through a deployment,?in Iraq. I was only here in 2005/06 and I cannot say that much has changed for the better. The weather conditions are intolerable, and the accommodations even?more so. I once again find the major source of entertainment and escape to be my computer, not only does it keep me connected to the ones I love,but it provides a window to normalcy.
Flame is handling this deployment with her usual efficiency. Though there has been some great changes in her personal life during my absence. She has come to the conclusion it is time she renewed her perspectives within the kink realm, I cannot think introspection is ever a negative process. I realize that our relationship is going through another metamorphosis and?frankly, I welcome it. Change is good.
My girl Kari is having a more difficult time dealing with my absence, but she has shown great tenacity, and I am very proud of her. I do not like being away from my girls, but the life of a soldier demands it.
I am currently seeking to make connections with those interested in discussing the lifestyle and their take on things.?New friends are a very valuable thing. I very much enjoy discussing "perfect fantasy" scenarios.
I also seek to make connections with females, in TX, who may be interested in furthering a friendship that could lead to play when I return in Feb. 09.
A bit about me, I am a self-styled sexual Sadist. I have many interests and few dislikes. I do enjoy intensely physical play. I do enjoy challenges, in fact, I relish them. I am poly so interaction with me assumes the reality of being intorduced to a group of women?that are, very much, the central point of my life.
I wish everyone a safe and satisfying fall. Enjoy your freedoms, there are those that still pay for it.
Ok I'm home now and this is a good thing. Since being home I have gone to one "eat me beat me" party with my wife and her slave and had a great time. I met One person from this site there and hope to meet her again. I am still looking for more friends and playmates, The only thing one must realize is that I am not here for head games or any damn thing like that. I'm here to find an open minded slave or submissive woman. One that knows there is no way after 8 years of marriage that I will just walk away from that. One that wants her limits pushed. I'm not unreasonable some things I like others do not, I am flexible in that area. So having said that have a happy holiday and don't do anything I wouldn't do.?

!!!News Flash!!! I will be back in Texas in less than 45 days.This past year has been tough and I'm looking forward to being home again. I'm not going to waste My time here saying what should be graphically obvious, I am going to once again state what it is I am seeking. I've tried being subtle,but that's not who I am. So let's just cut the bullshit, shall We?

*I like to beat ass, I would like to meet someone who likes getting their ass beat.

*I am a Sadist I love the artistry of Sadism. It's not just the act of giving pain that excites Me, I want power. I want to take everything you have to give and leave you begging on the floor.

*I'm a highly sexed Male, so I want someone who likes hardcore play culminating it sweaty primal release.

*I play on the edge so I want someone who's not afraid to push their limits. A closed mind is useless.

*I'm looking for someone for public and private play.I like to show off so be prepared to be taken and displayed.
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Now that I've covered what I want, lets cover some things I am NOT looking for.

* I do not need a diva, drama queen, or needy whiner.

*I'm not looking for the almighty blowjob, I want real kink, not dime a dozen encounters.

*I'm not looking for a cheap thrill, I like to play often so I want to find someone who wants to go to kink parties and get sweaty.

Now that I've listed the major points I'd like to make a few more. I'm married, so if you are as well I will expect to be able to speak with him about Our possible arrangement. I'm poly, so you will meet My wife, who's a bi-sexual Switch, and her slave boy. This doesn't mean she'll Top you to, unless you want her too. I'm looking to eventually add a sub/slave to Our poly family, but I take My time, so if you expect a collar inside the first month, I'm the wrong Dom.
I cannot wait to be home in Texas and I'd love to meet when I get there!

Attention People!! I am less than 60 days from the time I come home from Iraq. That means I am seriously in search of someone interested in real time play in My area.
I am a Sadist, so obviously I seek a masochist. I am looking for someone who enjoys sexual sadism, and public play. I like to beat ass, and I'm looking for someone who can handle some fairly deep play. Let's face it, I have 12 months of frustration built up, I don't need a light weight who thinks a little bondage and a tickle of the genitals is "intense."
I'm interested in: take down scenes, interrogations, tit torture, humiliation, spanking ( from mild OTK, to ones you will feel for a week), anal play, headgames, edge play, breath play, objectification and many other less intense fetishes.
Basically I am looking for someone who wants to be taken to parties and used. I am looking for a play partner at the moment, maybe something deeper eventually but I like living in the now.
 I would entertain a novice if they could prove they have an interest in playing on the edge.
If you're interested in this type of opportunity please get in contact with Me ASAP. I'd like to start chatting up some possible partners before I get back, I like to know what makes a person squirm before I tie'em down.
Impress Me with your darkest desires and recieve a special consideration.

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0031.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>July in Iraq defies description. It is hot enough to roast a man alive inside his own body armor. I have lost quite a bit of weight from the heat, not that I had that much to lose in the first place. I am relieved to finally be looking at the downside of this deployment. I have 90 days or less before I head back stateside.

Now I feel the need to rant for a bit. While I absolutely enjoy getting well wishes and nice notes of appreciation I haven't got more than a handful that were interested in Me as Dom as well as a soldier.

So on the advice of My wife, Flame, I'm going to get a bit more graphic about what I want and what I'm into.

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0002.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> I am a Sadist, I like to beat ass. I love edge play, breath play, takedown scenes, wrestling, interrogations, humiliation play and role play. I'm not a thinker, I'm a doer. I'm not the kinda person you should tell you want something done and think I'll just let you walk away without taking the full measure of what you ask for. I don't play nice, I'm rough, I like to cause pain. I love the power I feel when I grab a handful of hair and force a girl to her knees. I like making people cry, it gets Me going. I love a challenge I want to be told " you can't make Me do X", cause I will make you eat every word and like it.

Now I'm not a crazy control freak, I respect limits. But I need a girl who knows what she wants and who isn't afraid to play on the edge. I want a girl who's open minded, who's adventurous, who's not afraid to take a risk for the simple thrill of saying they've done it.

I'm not looking for something major league serious. I'd like to have someone who enjoys going to play parties, being seen, and getting used. I'd like someone who's available for most all of My kinks. I like sex, I like S&M with My sex. I'm not looking for a barbie doll I can take out and beat and them point out how pretty she looks in leather when I make her cry. I want someone who's real.I like girls with curves. I want someone who's not afraid to admit they want things that scare them. I need to have someone who wants to walk the edge, because that's where I like to play.

If you think you're ready to walk in the shadows with Me, just take the last step before the yawning abyss. I'm seriously looking for someone who's ready to play as soon as I get home, cause I have a year of pent-up frustration to get rid of.

I'm ready, are you brave enough to make the first move?

It's June,in Iraq it is intolerable. The heat coupled with the lack of adequate shade and perpetually stagnant air make for days that defy description. The nights are little better, but I find relief in My computer. I chat often with Flame and her slave boy. It's amazing how important it has become to connect with My family.
Much thanks to all those who messaged Me with thanks and well wishes for My safe return. I have talked with few interesting people from this site, but I have to admit I am still disappointed.
The lack of women who are willing to take time to get to know someone before passing judgement on their lifestyle choices saddens Me. I have never regretted My choice to live a poly lifestyle and I never will. I find monogamy an unnatural concept.
I am seeking an open minded female who is looking for consistent discipline coupled with inventive sadism. I am a sexually motivated individual. I am searching for a women who is willing to explore the depth of her own desires without shame. I expect total devotion. I would require that she be at least bi-curious as there is frequent opportunity for My dominantly motivated wife to join in scenes. I do expect her to be willing to submit her body to Me fully, after I have taken the time to earn the right to use it as a Master would. I do not expect a woman to drop at My feet without taking the time to form a meaningful connection.
I have decided to take this opportunity to offer My services as Dom on a short-term basis to anyone that wants to taste the Darker side of BDSM.
I will be returning to the States in November I would like to begin corresponding with females that are interested in playing on a casual basis when I return. There is always the option to take casual play to the next level should both desire and worth be demonstrated.
 

It's April already, this deployment is half over! It's been rough over here, but it's not like I thought it would be easy. I haven't had any responses to My offer to chat, which is sort of depressing. I suppose they're are too many that seek instant gratification. I like to take My time, get to know what makes a girl tick, how she thinks, what she needs, and what I want to have her experience.
D/s isn't all about satisfying desires, it's about building trust, establishing Dominance, and earning the right to use someone's body. I've had situations at parties, where I've met females and I've simply taken what I want from them. But I prefer to establish long tern D/s relationships where there can be more than just one gratifying scene.
Let's clarify something, I am poly, I am married,and she is fully aware that I play. In fact, She herself owns a subboy.
We are active in the BDSM community, We have an adequate amount of Bdsm equipment and a combined experiece of 20 years.
I was trained as a Dominant, I am a Dominant. I do not tolerate disobedience in any form. I am a Sadist, I love a lil brat. But do not mistake My friendliness and amusment at your lack of manners and proper behavior as weakness. If I should choose to make you Mine, you will be trained throughly to My liking.
I am an exacting Master, I expect perfection in all things.
So if this sounds like Someone you might like to know, please write Me. I will respond to every message as quickly as I am able, but be understanding. I am currently in Iraq and My orders must be carried out to the fullest before I am able to take time for pleasure.
Wishing everyone a Safe existence.

Well it's almost 2006 and where do I find my self, in another foreign country. I'm not going to be available for any real time play this year. But I'd love to meet some lifestylers in My home area to chat with. Sometimes it gets really boring over here. If you want to know more about Me and I don't seem to be available feel free to contact My life partner ( that's code for wife) in this forum under the id Flame73.  She knows exactly what kind of Dom I am and what type of girl I'm looking for. Stay Frosty, Happy New Year!

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