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Life is good. It's interesting because i am not in the place i once thought i would be. Life is full of surprises. Currently, i am involved in a polyamorous relations with Jim (Jimmybob1962) and cricket (cricket4u). I serve Jim as his submissive and wanton slut. I so desire to just please him in anyway that i can. I love when he is happy. Jim and cricket have been married for almost 25 years. In vanilla terms, i am their girlfriend. (For their next anniversary, am looking for an appropriate card so let me know if you find anything appropriate.) As far as my relationship with cricket, we are comfortable with one another (which says a lot). We like to see each other happy. She is my friend and lover. Because of this wonderful relationship in which i find myself, i am not really looking for other emotional ties. Fuck-buddies...play partners...friends and fun...that's what I want. hehe
A bit about me and what i'm seeking:
I am an intelligent, strong, caring person. I love to laugh. I am a people-pleaser. If there is a way that I can make someone happy or happier, I will do it! That is just my nature. At the same time though, I am a strong person who will not allow people to walk all over me. I don't care for people who take advantage of others just because they can. I do not desire to be treated like dirt just because I am submissive. My submission is for those who I can trust to take it. I am a real person. I have real needs, real fears, real joys, real desires. I have very few issues. I am not a doormat. For some reason, people describe me as ornery...not sure i understand why.I am active in the BDSM lifestyle. That doesn't mean I'm just kinky..though that is fun as well. I am submissive. It's who I am and what I like. It turns me on to be able to trust someone enough to give that part of myself to them. I love knowing that I'm not in control. I love that feeling of helplessness.
I do not believe that because you are Dominant and I am submissive, that earns you inherent respect from me. Thus, I will not start out by calling you Sir or Master. It's not a matter of disrespect. I just don't know you and my submission has to be earned. I realize that I haven't been trained. I realize that oftentimes you have more experience in the lifestyle than myself. That doesn't merit an automatic "Yes, Sir" or "No, Sir" from me. That will come in time. If you expect that response from me, then you might want to move to the next profile.
I am submissive. I am not a slave or a switch. I don't deal well with the "Nice to meet you..kneel before the computer as we talk" types of messages. On the other side of it, no I don't want to whip you until you whimper like a little boy. lol
I am looking for someone with intelligence. If I have to try to figure out what your email says because you cannot type, spell, or have correct grammar, it is just not worth it to me usually. Going along with this, if you feel the need to type L/like T/this, please don't email me. Also, I will not type my name in lowercase as it is a proper noun. If you don't know what a proper noun is, please don't email me.
I am looking for Dominance. I like the feeling of being out of control. In my life, I am a take charge kind of girl. When I come home, I do not want that control anymore. I want a safe place to be able to relinquish that control. |
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There are several munches around the central Illinois (and beyond) area. I am an active participant of the LINKS munch in Springfield. To newer people: these things are a great way to get to know other people in the lifestyle and learn. Keep in mind that every munch is different.
It has come to my attention that a few females in my area are being preyed upon. To dispel any rumors, as far as LINKS goes, there is no screening process. If you'd like information regarding any of the local munches, please send me an email and I'll get you the information. No games, just info.
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